Finding all these comments so interesting! We don't have communities like this where I live. It's not being rich I dislike or am shocked by, I would be considered privileged, also have a cleaner, kids at private school. I'm aware of that though and very grateful. It's the obsession with being cool, looking pretty, being skinny, so materialistic. Leaving your child with the cleaner to go and have nails done, but think you've had such a hard day.
I'm also a Mum to 2 girls, and I can't imagine wanting to raise them where their core personalities and values are looking cool, pretty. I want so much more for them than that.
Fair play to her Dad for making a successful career.