Gabriella Lindley #44 Gab's gone mad for aff links, is it her box or attitude that stinks

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is it that you don’t want a boyfriend gabby or that no man would touch you with a bargepole 😂
 
I've figured out why gabby doesn't want a fella, she's heard people use the phrase "to share your life" with someone, and gabby hates sharing.

Re that gif, I get that people are asexual, or don't want to live with a romantic partner, totally get that, but if you've actually never had a moment in your life that you would like to share with another person, that's kind of sad, we are social creatures by nature.
 
Bubblygummi said:
Not that I want to buy any of her tit, nor do I understand why people want to buy it, but it’s so unfair to people overseas that she opened up international shipping for like a week before deciding she couldn’t be arsed with it and is probably using this operashun as an excuse.
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Wouldn't be surprised if she booked an op in just to avoid international shipping tbh.
 
She’s so predictable! Of course it’s to avoid doing work and seeing her imaginary friends on her birthday. It’s all just an excuse to be looked after like a giant toddler by Jane. She’ll get home from the hospital and be stuffing dry buns and miserable looking Chinese takeaways into her gob straight away.
 
Wickedtown said:
Thought she was unable to get rid of her current sofas (crazy that that is PLURAL) because she didn't want anyone coming into her house to collect them due to covid but she's more than happy to let someone deliver one?? Why 😐
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I remember this too. And people pointed out you could still have people pick them up. She's just throwing out covid as an excuse, same as when she had like 5 bags of cat tit in her flat. Normal is a relative word I know but hoarding actual garbage is not normal behavior. I hate when my garbage can is full and I have to wait to take it out because the big bin is full and waiting to be emptied. I live in a bigger place now but my last place was similar to Gabs in size and I could not imagine having 5 bags of cat tit just sitting there. She probably did it so often even pre-covid that her nose couldn't smell it anymore but anyone she would've let in would be able to tell. Still not over that TBH, that was as grotesque as her $3 Primark comment and then have the audicity to shill affiliate clothes.
 
Milliemilmil said:
Can’t believe I’m wasting my life with my incredible boyfriend and wonderful children when I could be selling stickers online with zero human interaction. I can only imagine that getting your tenth sofa is a feeling quite similar to holding your newborn baby. Lucky gobs
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I mean, kids and relationships definitely aren’t for everyone. It’s valid to choose not to have kids or a relationship, and for some people they probably do get more value from their career or hobbies than a relationship or being a parent (childfree by choice here and VERY happy about it).

HOWEVER, we all know Gabby doesn’t actually feel this way. It’s just a lame coverup for her lack of confidence and lack of ability to connect with another human being. Also, she’s far too selfish to be a good partner or parent.
 
Juststopit said:
I've figured out why gabby doesn't want a fella, she's heard people use the phrase "to share your life" with someone, and gabby hates sharing.

Re that gif, I get that people are asexual, or don't want to live with a romantic partner, totally get that, but if you've actually never had a moment in your life that you would like to share with another person, that's kind of sad, we are social creatures by nature.
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You're so right. Gabby may be asexual which is totally fine!
But when she shares posts like this - she's just proven that she doesn't know what 'sharing your life' means. If you have a healthy and loving relationship, it doesn't mean you get less, it means you get more.
 
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is it that you don’t want a boyfriend gabby or that no man would touch you with a bargepole 😂
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She seriously has no idea what a relationship is does she? I've a boyfriend of 7 years, we own a house together and (apart from this year) he isn't around me all the time.

We do things apart, we do things together, we have separate friends and joint friends. Being in a relationship isn't all about being stuck with somebody 24/7 and tbh if you don't want to spend time with that person then why are you with them? Being connected to another person, wanting to share your life with them and experiences together isn't a bad thing. It doesn't make you a less of a person.
 
Milliemilmil said:
Can’t believe I’m wasting my life with my incredible boyfriend and wonderful children when I could be selling stickers online with zero human interaction. I can only imagine that getting your tenth sofa is a feeling quite similar to holding your newborn baby. Lucky gobs
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I'm just thinking back to when I had my newborn, and nope, definitely not similar, nothing beats a new sofa to sleep on day after day ❤️
 
This I don’t want to be in a relationship is a bullshit defence mechanism (coming from her, not generally). She has no experience to base this on. She hasn’t even got any friends, she’s never had any work colleagues, she’s never had any type of relationship. Most people who decide they want to be single, have experience to base their decision on, and other people in their life.
 
Once upon a time, she was doing a live stream with the twins and called Hobbie complaining about the twins (or one of them) "just to catch his reaction" (and she made it out like it was the funniest prank ever) And Hobbie's reaction was like he was used to hear her complain about them, and when she saw he was serious she started laughing and told him she was with them. (something like that)

The point is, she was toxic with all of them, and of course Hobbie wanted nothing to do with all that. And unless she finds another toxic cloud like her father, or a doormat like Jane, she won't be in a relationship any time soon.

(eta: I understand therapy could work wonders for her, and I'm assuming she won't get it)
 
I don't think she would ever admit it, but I suspect there's some element of trying to avoid getting hurt going on here...if you think about it, she can't sustain any relationships other than with her family, and even then there's strain within those. I don't feel sorry for her because it is 100% her own fault but I don't doubt that it must be difficult having every friendship you've ever had walk out of your life. She seems to make no effort anymore to make new friendships either. She's obviously at a crossroads between giving up and accepting a very solitary and sad life, or being more open to compromise, disagreement, etc. Unfortunately it seems she's never going to opt for the second so I really don't see how she's ever going to have new friends or partners which for her age especially is really quite sad. I don't like her at all but I wouldn't wish her life on anyone, even though she's brought it on herself entirely
 
judgejohndeed said:
I don't think she would ever admit it, but I suspect there's some element of trying to avoid getting hurt going on here...if you think about it, she can't sustain any relationships other than with her family, and even then there's strain within those. I don't feel sorry for her because it is 100% her own fault but I don't doubt that it must be difficult having every friendship you've ever had walk out of your life. She seems to make no effort anymore to make new friendships either. She's obviously at a crossroads between giving up and accepting a very solitary and sad life, or being more open to compromise, disagreement, etc. Unfortunately it seems she's never going to opt for the second so I really don't see how she's ever going to have new friends or partners which for her age especially is really quite sad. I don't like her at all but I wouldn't wish her life on anyone, even though she's brought it on herself entirely
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I honestly can't imagine what her life must be like, I felt so cut off during the first lockdown since I'd moved from the South to the North and had just had a baby so didn't really have opportunities to go out and about to meet new people since I was recovering for quite a while (shout out to my house share landlord making us move out when I had a damaged tailbone 👍🏽). Still had people to video call etc obviously but we know that's not the same. Gabby doesn't even have that and it makes me feel depressed just thinking about it.
 
lira said:
I honestly can't imagine what her life must be like, I felt so cut off during the first lockdown since I'd moved from the South to the North and had just had a baby so didn't really have opportunities to go out and about to meet new people since I was recovering for quite a while (shout out to my house share landlord making us move out when I had a damaged tailbone 👍🏽). Still had people to video call etc obviously but we know that's not the same. Gabby doesn't even have that and it makes me feel depressed just thinking about it.
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God I feel that, I also moved north from the south a few years back and it was really hard settling in. I hope you're more settled here now! She doesn't even have a normal job where she would at least have to go to work with other people all day, that kind of seclusion just isn't normal or healthy tbh
 
judgejohndeed said:
God I feel that, I also moved north from the south a few years back and it was really hard settling in. I hope you're more settled here now! She doesn't even have a normal job where she would at least have to go to work with other people all day, that kind of seclusion just isn't normal or healthy tbh
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I'm loving it now, other than the public transport London is not the one if you're broke and have kids 😂 I can imagine Gabby just doing that insane Nelson voice and only stopping to stuff dry buns in her gob, with the occasional soggy one that fell in the bath.
 
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