Gabriella Lindley #20 made up fella, using Nellie’s anus to contact Zoella

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I never want to pull a "not all men" stance as that should be common sense however, the "shove their penis in you" comment was just WOW! Can men be inappropriate and intimidating in gym settings, absolutely, hence why there are womens only sections, days and entire gyms. But to say they could rape you any second is just an unbelievable leap and makes her sound unhinged (and while she herself may not have used the word rape, thats what shoving their penis in you without consent is). Actual rape survivors don't get that paranoid when around men in a crowded, public setting most likely filled with cameras. I understand her hestiency to workout around them but my god use your brain Gabriella and choose your words wisely, just say you feel uncomfortable!
 
I found her gym tweet infuriating. My boyfriend and his friends all go to the gym and would be so upset if they found out they were the reason for a woman not going/feeling uncomfortable. I also do find some men in the gym intimidating/can be stare-y but in the past I’ve just told the people who work there, who have then told him to knock it off or ban him. Nobody likes a creep anywhere, especially the people who work there
 
I used to work at a gym. I’m overweight (I have an actual medical condition that causes me to gain weight quickly and struggle to lose it but I’m currently working out a plan with my consultant to shift some of the weight) and I absolutely hated gyms/exercise because I felt intimated by the men and self conscious around the girls. Once I started working there, I found that the people who seemed most intimidating to me were the kindest and most supportive ones there! She goes on about how people shouldn’t judge her by only seeing 10 minutes of her day but she’s judging others on the basis that they go to the gym- she has no idea who those people are!
 
I went to a gym in Brazil (not from there, I lived there because of my job) and everyone minded their own business while in there, some gorgeous men and women and everyone was respectful and doing their own thing and (us regular sized people, respected, and well received and treated as an equal, I never felt bad in there or anything at all)

She just project her insecurities into other people to a point where is insulting to others and she is just too self-absorbed that cannot see that.
 
Look, my sister (who was sexually assaulted as a child GOB!) used to be an avid gym goer before she had her c section, and a lot of her friends were the ridiculously buff guys and UBER fit girls there. They were all very nice, but sometimes they forget themselves and stare at someone a lot because of their bad form and they're just itching to correct them?? I mean, that's just one reason for staring but there are a thousand more reasons. This penis shoving tit is literally in a fictional dimension far far away. It's the last bleeping reason if it even is OH MY GOD. I'm sorry just spazzing out, her tweet reaaaally offended me.
 
Is it that she genuinely thinks this or is she just doing her usual of being different and all knowing about the world 🙄. I’m really trying to find some reason because surely people (gabs) aren’t that judgemental, rude, sexist or stupid enough to put it on the internet...

She’s such an odd one, SO obviously self conscious and yet thinking every boy(!) is totally unable to stop themselves from staring and a desire to shove their penis in her? Who even uses that sort of language in the first place? Yes it’s obviously correct terminology but it’s a very clinical way to say it.
 
Wow, she is moronic. I think she's decided this from binge watching The Fall 😂. My breakdown of how Gabz mind works 2.0:

- day 65 of laying around in her stagnant flat, mental health deteriorating due to lack of fresh air and social interaction
- she feels tit so orders a pizza (garlic bread) for comfort but then justifies it to herself by posting she's happy she can order stuff like this and be fine (she's not fine)
- then starts thinking about her weight/body and decides going to the gym is the ONLY answer to her weight problems
- she decides 'oh if only I could go to the gym and all my weight issues would be disappear. I don't use my home gym equipment because I'm not motivated at home'
- randomly decides that it's men who she hates today (probably because she's watched all episode of the fall, which is women serialkiller who stalks women, watches them before his attack), and not bitchy women at the gym class, and that all men are such pigs and a danger to herself
- thinks 'ah, well looks like I can't possibly go to the gym now because men would attack me'
- poor me, (not like I constantly buy gym equipment and not use it) men are the reason I'm unhappy with my body
- goes back to eating her exotic herb garlic bread
 
She is truly an idiot for typing things like that. How would George feel reading that? Or her brother? How would she feel if they typed disgusting stereotypes about women? My brother once got sacked from a company for sexually harassing a co-worker. Yes, he did have a crush on her and all he did was pluck up the courage to ask her for dinner one night after work. He was devastated and didn’t go out with anyone for a good 6 years after that. You’re the bleeping toxic one Gaby. I feel so sad for the future of those of you with little boys who fall victim to nasty bleeping witches like Gabby who have no right to come up with all the crap she does. She typed it purely because someone outed her as being wrong, I don’t think she even thinks of the impact she has when saying things like that. It takes two seconds to google female only gyms.. she’s just a cow. Her reasons were always because of the nasty other women looking at her/not including her/being intimidated by their looks anyway. Nobody is going to include you in their group if you just stand there like a gormless idiot. It’s really sad there was only one reply saying it shouldn’t matter who is looking at you, it’s about self health. Besides who the duck is going to “stick their penis in you” in the middle of a bleeping busy gym with mirrors all around. You’d be more likely to be sexually harassed in one of your 47373 Ubers, yes it’s happened to me twice in a taxi! (Thankfully no more than being propositioned after a drunken night and a leg grope but still). I feel truly sorry for the men she randomly csllls out for no reason and the women (and men) who are true victims of sexual assault. I will never, ever feel sorry for her and will never trying and empathize with her disgusting personality again.

I just looked at the tweets to see if there is any more replies to her stupid comment and go figure can’t see the one comment about not worrying what anyone else thinks so that girl has either been velvet blocked for not agreeing with her or she has deleted it. Grrrr
 
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Just watched the “proud of myself for eating” stories. One, I hate the way she says “d’lishurss” instead of delicious. Two, I am bored rigid at this point of hearing about her relationship with food and Ive not even followed her that long compared to the time she’s been online. We get it Gabby. But work it out with a therapist, this is probably your 1,653rd epiphany about what your problem is.
 
I’m pleased lots of you have had such positive experiences of the gym and I agree that her wording is awful, but the point still does stand that the gym is a fairly common place to receive unwanted (typically male) attention.

I’ve had two separate really uncomfortable experiences just this year, and the gym has been closed for most of it! Firstly, when I caught a man taking photos of me while I was working out. And secondly a man who followed me around the gym and kept staring at me, then came up to me and said I had a nice bum and he liked how I was showing it off by squatting.

So yes, it DOES happen. They might not have directly been ‘trying to stick their penis in me’, but I still feel uncomfortable using the gym because of the behaviour of some men.
 
Yeah I do believe that, out of the context of Gabby, that it is an ongoing issue :( I have had similar experiences where I ended up going to the women only swim sessions etc and I'm not a huge fan of the gym because of it but I've found homework outs are the one for me.

I think Gabby likes to find any excuse to not self reflect and better herself because it takes effort.
 
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