The thing that made me sad was a throwaway comment about needing to take Wonky to the bra thing because she didn't have grandparent support. She used to rave about her Dad and spoke fondly of her stepmum who she said chose not to have kids because she was raising her and her sister. And because of a feud where it seemed to be that step mum wanted her to not let her entire life get consumed with childbirth and pineapples and hypno breathing etc it seems like she's done with them altogether? This woman gave up a significant portion of her life to care for 2 kids that weren't her own, knowing their birth Mum would forever be the one they missed and longed for, and now she and her husband don't get to see their grandchild? So awful in my opinion, and then to moan you don't have the support.
I really hope I've got this wrong and she just meant they live too far away to help.