Footballers & WAGs #4

[Eiseblume]

Male identified means you have sexist views. Making statements like "I don't believe in using people for money" is sexist when the male is participating in the exchange as well and in most cases initiated the exchange. You not believing in flirting with someone who is in a public relationship is your projection onto others. Especially if both people in the relationship have an agreement or are in an open relationship.

but at least, the point of the situation is: u follow some of this guys private accounts and u know they filtering with some girl despite they have a public relationship? a lost some things

 

[starsandsmiles]

Male identified means you have sexist views. Making statements like "I don't believe in using people for money" is sexist when the male is participating in the exchange as well and in most cases initiated the exchange. You not believing in flirting with someone who is in a public relationship is your projection onto others. Especially if both people in the relationship have an agreement or are in an open relationship.

Name some of the accounts then? Ihonestly believe that flaunting / bragging that you know them without naming them is wrong. Describing it as “shooting your shot” is coming across as desperate as personally and I don’t think I’m alone in this messaging someone who you quite clearly know is in a relationship whether their loyal or not is wrong

 

[LadyCandour]

Name some of the accounts then? Ihonestly believe that flaunting / bragging that you know them without naming them is wrong. Describing it as “shooting your shot” is coming across as desperate as personally and I don’t think I’m alone in this messaging someone who you quite clearly know is in a relationship whether their loyal or not is wrong

Thank you. This is what I was saying

Male identified means you have sexist views. Making statements like "I don't believe in using people for money" is sexist when the male is participating in the exchange as well and in most cases initiated the exchange. You not believing in flirting with someone who is in a public relationship is your projection onto others. Especially if both people in the relationship have an agreement or are in an open relationship.

Also that's really not what Male identified means. Not all men are sexiest either

 

[EmpressandEmperor]

Name some of the accounts then? Ihonestly believe that flaunting / bragging that you know them without naming them is wrong. Describing it as “shooting your shot” is coming across as desperate as personally and I don’t think I’m alone in this messaging someone who you quite clearly know is in a relationship whether their loyal or not is wrong

Mason is single. His account is __mmprvt
Dom is single. His account is dsprivate14
Before Madders decided to commit to kennedy he was single. Literally just 3 months ago. His account is jm10private

The ones that are in public relationships are either on and off with their partners (frequent breaks where they do what they want) or in an open relationship where they do what they want or they have an arrangement where they do what they want. The reason why they create the account outside of friends and family is to message women they don't know to link up.

If shooting your shot was desperate then the hundreds of people who met on instagram or twitter would not exist.

They create the private accounts for friends, family, talking to girls, and hiring sex workers.

but at least, the point of the situation is: u follow some of this guys private accounts and u know they filtering with some girl despite they have a public relationship? a lost some things

The player may have a relationship that is on and off, in an open relationship, single, or has an arrangement with their public partner.

 

[LadyCandour]

Mason is single. His account is __mmprvt
Dom is single. His account is dsprivate14
Before Madders decided to commit to kennedy he was single. Literally just 3 months ago. His account is jm10private

The ones that are in public relationships are either on and off with their partners (frequent breaks where they do what they want) or in an open relationship where they do what they want or they have an arrangement where they do what they want. The reason why they create the account outside of friends and family is to message women they don't know to link up.

If shooting your shot was desperate then the hundreds of people who met on instagram or twitter would not exist.

They create the private accounts for friends, family, talking to girls, and hiring sex workers.



The player may have a relationship that is on and off, in an open relationship, single, or has an arrangement with their public partner.

That's not doms account not the one his friends use any way and I don't believe he is single and madders was with kennedy from april/may.
Our point is you don't know without approaching If they are open or not so you're flirting with someones boyfriend whether they're ok with it or not. Also you're being second fiddle. Believe you deserve more than that if they're single go for but often theyll have multiple girls on the go

Oh you mean solanke thought you meant dcl

 

[EmpressandEmperor]

That's not doms account not the one his friends use any way and I don't believe he is single and madders was with kennedy from april/may.
Our point is you don't know without approaching If they are open or not so you're flirting with someones boyfriend whether they're ok with it or not. Also you're being second fiddle. Believe you deserve more than that if they're single go for but often theyll have multiple girls on the go

Oh you mean solanke thought you meant dcl

Kennedy and madison weren't official he was openly dating. This is evidenced by his boys trip this summer up until fall. That's public knowledge. This isn't about me, please stop projecting this onto me. I nor any of the girls in my group or circle are looking for a relationship. Some of the girls just want to start a business and appreciate the seed money. It's that simple.

 

[Eiseblume]

Mason is single. His account is __mmprvt
Dom is single. His account is dsprivate14
Before Madders decided to commit to kennedy he was single. Literally just 3 months ago. His account is jm10private

The ones that are in public relationships are either on and off with their partners (frequent breaks where they do what they want) or in an open relationship where they do what they want or they have an arrangement where they do what they want. The reason why they create the account outside of friends and family is to message women they don't know to link up.

If shooting your shot was desperate then the hundreds of people who met on instagram or twitter would not exist.

They create the private accounts for friends, family, talking to girls, and hiring sex workers.



The player may have a relationship that is on and off, in an open relationship, single, or has an arrangement with their public partner.

I’m not sure about Maddison, he stay w Kennedy from more time, also I found him disgusting because in August he is in Ibiza kissing Nicole Hagan ( a witch, but ) and three days later he go on vacay w his gf Kennedy and kissing w her, an idiot

 

[LadyCandour]

I’m not sure about Maddison, he stay w Kennedy from more time, also I found him disgusting because in August he is in Ibiza kissing Nicole Hagan ( a witch, but ) and three days later he go on vacay w his gf Kennedy and kissing w her, an idiot

Yep hes been with kennedy a while, she put pressure on him to be public hed have been happy pretending to be single. As for that boys holiday there were a few secret girlfriends pulled along

As for money there's better ways then risking a tattle thread being made about you

 

[EmpressandEmperor]

I’m not sure about Maddison, he stay w Kennedy from more time, also I found him disgusting because in August he is in Ibiza kissing Nicole Hagan ( a witch, but ) and three days later he go on vacay w his gf Kennedy and kissing w her, an idiot

Yes you're right he was spending more time with her but they weren't committed. And he was still openly dating with her knowledge and so was she.

Yep hes been with kennedy a while, she put pressure on him to be public hed have been happy pretending to be single. As for that boys holiday there were a few secret girlfriends pulled along

As for money there's better ways then risking a tattle thread being made about you

That wouldn't happen because you can see someone without it being public knowledge. In a pandemic when many people have been furloughed and some have obligations like school, rent, or fees it can be a viable option.

 

[LadyCandour]

Yes you're right he was spending more time with her but they weren't committed. And he was still openly dating with her knowledge and so was she.



That wouldn't happen because you can see someone without it being public knowledge. In a pandemic when many people have been furloughed and some have obligations like school, rent, or fees it can be a viable option.

Ah the pandemic that makes social distancing and lockdown a must, unless for official tax declared work.

 

[EmpressandEmperor]

Ah the pandemic that makes social distancing and lockdown a must, unless for official tax declared work.

Right. And that's why I said a few posts ago "outside of lockdown". So Summer 2020 through September/October 2020. And after March 15th 2021, everyone including sex workers can earn a living.

 

[LadyCandour]

Right. And that's why I said a few posts ago "outside of lockdown". So Summer 2020 through September/October 2020. And after March 15th 2021, everyone including sex workers can earn a living.

Is it officially sex work though like declared? And your friends are better doing sex work through and agency for safety reasons rather than approaching clients themselves as this is why some women are being raped

 

[EmpressandEmperor]

Is it officially sex work though like declared? And your friends are better doing sex work through and agency for safety reasons rather than approaching clients themselves as this is why some women are being raped

It's not declared. Working with agencies, they have high overhead fees or take a significant percentage. It's easier to build a good working relationship with the client and have a network of women who have past experiences with the client and exchange information like private accounts, preferences, location, relationship status, STD status, etc. This protects women from assault and rape, in the event that it doesn't the player or guy has more to lose with a rape allegation and having to pay someone off to keep quiet. It's not 100 percent fullproof but it works because we know who to stay away from and who to engage with.

 

[LadyCandour]

It's not declared. Working with agencies, they have high overhead fees or take a significant percentage. It's easier to build a good working relationship with the client and have a network of women who have past experiences with the client and exchange information like private accounts, preferences, location, relationship status, STD status, etc. This protects women from assault and rape, in the event that it doesn't the player or guy has more to lose with a rape allegation and having to pay someone off to keep quiet. It's not 100 percent fullproof but it works because we know who to stay away from and who to engage with.

Still sounds risky to me. And actual sex work is different to the picture you first painted which sounded like people desperate to get with footballers for fame fortune and a free handbag not people genuinely struggling to feed their kids etc


Talking of rape allegations what happened to the guy arrested for rape and imprisonment? Last I heard he was out and living it large

 

[starsandsmiles]

Still sounds risky to me. And actual sex work is different to the picture you first painted which sounded like people desperate to get with footballers for fame fortune and a free handbag not people genuinely struggling to feed their kids etc


Talking of rape allegations what happened to the guy arrested for rape and imprisonment? Last I heard he was out and living it large

Think you’re on about Ched Evans? The last I heard about him he was still playing football, which is ridiculous as if that happened in any other profession you would never work again

 

[EmpressandEmperor]

Still sounds risky to me. And actual sex work is different to the picture you first painted which sounded like people desperate to get with footballers for fame fortune and a free handbag not people genuinely struggling to feed their kids etc


Talking of rape allegations what happened to the guy arrested for rape and imprisonment? Last I heard he was out and living it large

This forum isn't about morality so there doesn't need to be a discussion about it being risky. You're not part of this world, so you don't know what's actually going on when you're in it.

I never painted a picture of people wanting fame and fortune as far as my circle. Neither did I mention struggling to feed children. Don't put words in my mouth.

 

[LadyCandour]

Think you’re on about Ched Evans? The last I heard about him he was still playing football, which is ridiculous as if that happened in any other profession you would never work again

Noooo the one from just before Christmas. Ched was officially found innocent but that was a joke but there was a player just before Christmas accused of abducting and raping a 17 year old and so was his gf. The one in chester. I don't know for sure who it is but the rumoured clues were plays for city is French

This forum isn't about morality so there doesn't need to be a discussion about it being risky. You're not part of this world, so you don't know what's actually going on when you're in it.

I never painted a picture of people wanting fame and fortune as far as my circle. Neither did I mention struggling to feed children. Don't put words in my mouth.

Morality has zero to do with risk and from some of the names mentioned apparently I do know more than you but enough of that back to the guy accused of rape

 

[starsandsmiles]

This forum isn't about morality so there doesn't need to be a discussion about it being risky. You're not part of this world, so you don't know what's actually going on when you're in it.

I never painted a picture of people wanting fame and fortune as far as my circle. Neither did I mention struggling to feed children. Don't put words in my mouth.

You actually did. By saying “Shoot your shot” you implied that you and your so called friends , colleagues whatever they are, were only messaging those accounts because they were those of the wealthy so whether you admit or not you are after fortune.

Noooo the one from just before Christmas. Ched was officially found innocent but that was a joke but there was a player just before Christmas accused of abducting and raping a 17 year old and so was his gf. The one in chester. I don't know for sure who it is but the rumoured clues were plays for city is French

ohhhh not heard about this one


Morality has zero to do with risk and from some of the names mentioned apparently I do know more than you but enough of that back to the guy accused of rape

 

[EmpressandEmperor]

You actually did. By saying “Shoot your shot” you implied that you and your so called friends , colleagues whatever they are, were only messaging those accounts because they were those of the wealthy so whether you admit or not you are after fortune.

That's not what shoot your shot means. It's American slang for taking initiative or taking the first step. So no I didn't imply anything other than sending someone a DM. A sex worker can't be after fortune because she's there and then she's gone, she only provides a service. Even if I or my friend just wanted a fling with a player, it's just that. A one night stand, a duck buddy, etc. No one in this situation is looking for a relationship. It's either the sex or the benefits that are offered with the fling.

 

[LadyCandour]

You actually did. By saying “Shoot your shot” you implied that you and your so called friends , colleagues whatever they are, were only messaging those accounts because they were those of the wealthy so whether you admit or not you are after fortune.

You not heard about him was quite big just before Christmas people were naming Mason Greenwood when the guy was described as in his 20s. Poor Mason hes a bit of a tool but you don't want that

That's not what shoot your shot means. It's American slang for taking initiative or taking the first step. So no I didn't imply anything other than sending someone a DM. A sex worker can't be after fortune because she's there and then she's gone, she only provides a service. Even if I or my friend just wanted a fling with a player, it's just that. A one night stand, a duck buddy, etc. No one in this situation is looking for a relationship. It's either the sex or the benefits that are offered with the fling.

Yeah shoot your shot doesn't mean that here. Am I right in thinking English isn't your first language there's a few times you used the wrong wording.