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mchops said:
I'd just let the bailiff come round. They are not balliffs at all. They are just debt resolution people. They don't have a court warrant. They can do duck all
Speak to them at the door if you can, explain you can't pay. Meh . Nothing they can do .
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Which I’d do but I’ve been told by police this week under no circumstances do I open the door. They can do nothing about neighbour due to his mental health and him being a veteran so it’s my responsibility to keep safe as they won’t come out anymore as he’s assaulted an officer and they need backup from over two hours away.

I’m giving them all I can without getting into severe debt with bank who told me they won’t let me.

Why can no one do their sodding jobs anymore??
 
becca7721 said:
Which I’d do but I’ve been told by police this week under no circumstances do I open the door. They can do nothing about neighbour due to his mental health and him being a veteran so it’s my responsibility to keep safe as they won’t come out anymore as he’s assaulted an officer and they need backup from over two hours away.

I’m giving them all I can without getting into severe debt with bank who told me they won’t let me.

Why can no one do their sodding jobs anymore??
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Tough as you may find it stop paying. duck em. Let the OVO lads deal with the nut case. They can not cut you off.
 
mchops said:
Tough as you may find it stop paying. duck em. Let the OVO lads deal with the nut case. They can not cut you off.
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Thank you. Unfortunately he will simply take them bothering him out on me, even if he doesn’t it’ll be a quick trip to mental health who will say they can’t help and send him back for me to deal with him, and, honestly I couldn’t take that. Hence the weird dreams I’m having.

Why that idiot was allowed to delete my notes I’ll never bloody know. They had all the info about him and my situation, inc reference numbers where I’d been given them, monthly updates. but nope some random decided it was all a con and deleted it. The real question there of course is why that was allowed and why ovo won’t let me have the required transcripts. The sodding police have dropped everything because of me “gossiping”. Ok I tell you guys some of it but I told them everything. Now they’ve done away with their priority service direct access and accounts management direct service there’s nothing a person can do.

BUT

Because I’m clearly being spied on by my device in amongst the scammy messages on FB (all reported) I’ve had some from OFGEM that’s led me to legal stuff about being a supplier. It’s not something to read at 2:30am but the stuff about blocking me from accessing priority register/accounts team direct appears to be really dodgy. It’s OFGEM their teeth are worse than mine BUT they can fine and can withdraw their license. Something to discuss with worker today.

I know Ive said it before but I really appreciate you guys, your advice and support has really helped me.

I apologise for going on all the time. Between ovo and cheesy pasta my posts aren’t exactly a thrill a minute.

When I meet the kitten today, I’ll hang around until it turns up, I’ll say hello and try and get a picture for you. I promise, Susan, to teach it about screaming at bricks as butterflies have all gone to sleep for winter here I think.

Gonna try sleep now.
 
I'm a bit sad today, a singer I like (Paul Di'Anno) has died at 66. He was the original vocalist for Iron Maiden, the early albums he did with them have a lot of special memories for me. I've been on YouTube liking all the RIP comments on old Maiden clips.
Di'Anno was very ill toward the end but still played gigs while confined to a wheelchair, even heading all the way to Oz from England to play one last show for his fans.
That's pure metalhead spirit to me.
 
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lunch. Inhaled in about four seconds 😬 hash brown crispy fish burger, tater tots, cheese, mixed olives, tomato, avocado, pot of McDonald’s sweet and sour 😂
 
Absolutely furious. The manager role that I've effectively been doing for three months, that I was originally told would be tailored to me on an interim basis and then was told no, which finally went to recruitment, the boss man whose assistant it was for has decided not to proceed with recruitment. He sent me the email telling me this in the middle of a meeting that he was chairing! that I was minuting! as a favour. Turned my camera off and had to silent cry in the middle of the office, while still minuting cos I'm a head. In non head behaviour, I logged out and am on my way home cos duck em, I'm committing an hour of wage theft.
And they can go swing if they think I'm going to keep doing the job for free, I'm done.
Had the nerve to say in the email that I had some very good ideas and would take them forward. duck you
 
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A little strange 😂
lilykestrel said:
Absolutely furious. The manager role that I've effectively been doing for three months, that I was originally told would be tailored to me on an interim basis and then was told no, which finally went to recruitment, the boss man whose assistant it was for has decided not to proceed with recruitment. He sent me the email telling me this in the middle of a meeting that he was chairing! that I was minuting! as a favour. Turned my camera off and had to silent cry in the middle of the office, while still minuting cos I'm a head. In non head behaviour, I logged out and am on my way home cos duck em, I'm committing an hour of wage theft.
And they can go swing if they think I'm going to keep doing the job for free, I'm done.
Had the nerve to say in the email that I had some very good ideas and would take them forward. duck you
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I’m really sorry. That’s absolutely awful behaviour from him. What a bleep. I hope he shits himself on the way home and gets trapped in a lift.
 
lilykestrel said:
Absolutely furious. The manager role that I've effectively been doing for three months, that I was originally told would be tailored to me on an interim basis and then was told no, which finally went to recruitment, the boss man whose assistant it was for has decided not to proceed with recruitment. He sent me the email telling me this in the middle of a meeting that he was chairing! that I was minuting! as a favour. Turned my camera off and had to silent cry in the middle of the office, while still minuting cos I'm a head. In non head behaviour, I logged out and am on my way home cos duck em, I'm committing an hour of wage theft.
And they can go swing if they think I'm going to keep doing the job for free, I'm done.
Had the nerve to say in the email that I had some very good ideas and would take them forward. duck you
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I hope all the local cats tit in his garden.
 
lilykestrel said:
Absolutely furious. The manager role that I've effectively been doing for three months, that I was originally told would be tailored to me on an interim basis and then was told no, which finally went to recruitment, the boss man whose assistant it was for has decided not to proceed with recruitment. He sent me the email telling me this in the middle of a meeting that he was chairing! that I was minuting! as a favour. Turned my camera off and had to silent cry in the middle of the office, while still minuting cos I'm a head. In non head behaviour, I logged out and am on my way home cos duck em, I'm committing an hour of wage theft.
And they can go swing if they think I'm going to keep doing the job for free, I'm done.
Had the nerve to say in the email that I had some very good ideas and would take them forward. duck you
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That is terrible behaviour. I would look for another job whilst on the sick from your present job.
 
lilykestrel said:
Absolutely furious. The manager role that I've effectively been doing for three months, that I was originally told would be tailored to me on an interim basis and then was told no, which finally went to recruitment, the boss man whose assistant it was for has decided not to proceed with recruitment. He sent me the email telling me this in the middle of a meeting that he was chairing! that I was minuting! as a favour. Turned my camera off and had to silent cry in the middle of the office, while still minuting cos I'm a head. In non head behaviour, I logged out and am on my way home cos duck em, I'm committing an hour of wage theft.
And they can go swing if they think I'm going to keep doing the job for free, I'm done.
Had the nerve to say in the email that I had some very good ideas and would take them forward. duck you
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What is the matter with employers?!? Seriously I’d never have treated someone like that, ever. Disgusting man. He deliberately arranged for that email to arrive then because he was too much of a coward to send it when he knew you and he were free, and even sending an email was cowardly enough. I’d be fuming too.
 
Thanks all. In a way it's worse than interviewing and not getting the job. Don't know if the decision has come from higher up (likely, due to our pocket of the public sector's financial woes) or was an internal decision (could also be possible), but it's a gut punch. And the complete lack of consideration in giving the news has REALLY pissed me off, because I had to sit there completely blindsided in a hotdesk office minuting nonsense for fifteen minutes trying not to burst into tears with people I don't really know looking awkwardly over their monitors at me, and couldn't go and gather myself. Mortifying. It would be unfair to anybody but it's particularly unthinking to somebody who has disclosed to you that they have a long-term mental health condition.

And really irritating, because ultimately I remain without a manager and doing 2.5 jobs. duck you meeting your vacancy saving targets off my back. Either way, time to get my ducks in a row and practice exercising boundaries and stop people pleasing. Least the old CVs up to date.
 
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