Jesus, I hate all this talk about the kids.
Yes, their mother posts them on SM - they don't have a choice in it.
We don't need to feed into it though, it's bad enough that their mother exposes them online without them having zero clue at the scale of their exposure, never mind having actual strangers saying the bombed out kids in Gaza are better dressed. Jesus christ like. That's the stuff that gives tattle a bad name. Give S another few years and she'll have a phone, her friends will have a phone, and all of this will be out there.