Estee Lalonde #8 Depressedée, messtée, trapped her fiancée as Mirror Water lacks self-reflection.

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I mean, sure you might not want to be single if you’re single but you can’t just stomp your foot and have a tantrum and demand customer service send you a fiancé. If you’re single, that’s your situation. It’s also not that unusual to be single in your early 30s, like I promise it’s not over for you and you have no more chances lol.

And not everyone’s lives play out in the exact perfect timeline we might ‘want’, yes that can be hard to deal with sometimes but you need to face these things and work through them rather than spin out of control because you demand to be engaged because you thought you would be. If not you just end up wasting everyone’s time even more because it’s the wrong relationship in the end.

I agree though that this is also about Estee’s own childhood issues, it’s like they say, we try to replay our parent’s relationship and either be one parent or try to help the parent we felt we couldn’t save. So if Estee pushed whatshisname to get married then ditched him, it’s like she’s trying to be assured she’ll be ‘chosen’ but in the end she wants to show she will be the one to abandon him, not the other way around. Anyway, that’s just one theory.

Either way it has the air of a scam to it. Whether it was outright faked or Estee scammed him subconsciously or the relationship itself was surreal and toxic, this was always set up as fake. Like a private trip alone instead of a hen do? A registry that looks like her own birthday wish list? Bizarre.
 
calabazarock said:
The only thing I feel I will truly miss is see what Amelia would have worn to officiate.
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Or if she was feeling more conservative:

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I don't feel bad for her at all. She was only using this guy to "get engaged." She's so narcissistic, she will use anyone to get what she wants. Early on, she already couldn't stand him. She just needed a warm body to pop the question and tick that off the list. I don't know him at all, but I feel more for this guy who just got trapped in her crazy web. Yes, he made a very bad decision of his own accord; but I'm assuming he's a normal human being with normal feelings, so I'm thinking this is not a fun time for him.
 
ccc123000 said:
I don't feel bad for her at all. She was only using this guy to "get engaged." She's so narcissistic, she will use anyone to get what she wants. Early on, she already couldn't stand him. She just needed a warm body to pop the question and tick that off the list. I don't know him at all, but I feel more for this guy who just got trapped in her crazy web. Yes, he made a very bad decision of his own accord; but I'm assuming he's a normal human being with normal feelings, so I'm thinking this is not a fun time for him.
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Honestly I don't feel badly for this guy either cuz Estee's not even capable of hiding who and what she is. She's not even a competent manipulator, she's just transparently opportunistic and mental and up her own ass. He just chose to look past it for whatever defective reasons of his own. If he took an actual interest in her career, he'd have figured out even quicker. But for whatever reason she made it sound like he had never ever seen her social media cuz he's such a luddite or something. Weird. But as someone upthread mentioned I do wonder if he got wind about how she was behaving online and the way she speaks about him and finally Mr. Asleep at the Wheel had enough.
 
consumerism makes u free said:
Honestly I don't feel badly for this guy either cuz Estee's not even capable of hiding who and what she is. She's not even a competent manipulator, she's just transparently opportunistic and mental and up her own ass. He just chose to look past it for whatever defective reasons of his own. If he took an actual interest in her career, he'd have figured out even quicker. But for whatever reason she made it sound like he had never ever seen her social media cuz he's such a luddite or something. Weird. But as someone upthread mentioned I do wonder if he got wind about how she was behaving online and the way she speaks about him and finally Mr. Asleep at the Wheel had enough.
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Right, she made it sound like he's never even seen a computer, still stuck in the calculator era while dude works in tech. The whole time she was ready for a wedding and a marriage.
 
So... I mentioned my friend a few pages ago who works near Estee's office and who said that it seems closed. Followed up with her a little bit and what we are thinking is that her staff either only seems to go in when they absolutely need to - aka - Estee ordered them to be there or when they know she will show her face, or that there is really only a few people mostly freelancing when needed and therefore not really someone in that office.
 
Codiaeum said:
So... I mentioned my friend a few pages ago who works near Estee's office and who said that it seems closed. Followed up with her a little bit and what we are thinking is that her staff either only seems to go in when they absolutely need to - aka - Estee ordered them to be there or when they know she will show her face, or that there is really only a few people mostly freelancing when needed and therefore not really someone in that office.
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This reminds me of this hilarious post from our fellow Tattler, @Rosie34567-2 which was about Estee's huge surprise when she went into the Space NK office and was shocked that there are people there, working 🤪 :ROFLMAO:

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Callan said:
This reminds me of this hilarious post from our fellow Tattler, @Rosie34567-2 which was about Estee's huge surprise when she went into the Space NK office and was shocked that there are people there, working 🤪 :ROFLMAO:

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Omg. I don't remember seeing Rosie's post before. I'm gonna be sick. Sometimes we use hyperbole but no for real these dumb witches are in their 30s now and still don't understand what "going to work" means, what JOBS are. They really do think everyone else is sat home like they are in between facials and pop ups. *seethe*
 
I feel like it was him, because she wasn't complaining about anything or him, so its not like he kept doing something that would drive her to break up, with her wedding fever I don't feel it was mutual. Maybe she got unbearable during the planning and the dude was like, well I already proposed like you wanted me to and now I have to deal with X Y and Z...
 
doodlebug said:
So we defo think it was Ben who pulled the plug, right? There’s no way it was her.

@soph1992 anyway you could give us an idea of the wording used in the email…?!
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I’m still waiting for further news but as soon as I do I’ll share! All I’ve heard was the email just confirmed it has been cancelled but there was no detail as to why. Will report back as soon as I can!
 
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