She was very very different though during her time with Aslan, and the Scandi aesthetics was something they got into over time. Yes it was more his taste for sure, but I don’t think he forced her to adapt his preferred style. She wasn’t held hostage. She didn’t live with him at first after she had moved to the UK. I know Aslan‘s family is sketchy as hell, but let’s not pretend that Estee wasn’t a much more likable person while with him. There was a reason she built a respectable following. The horrible smug, fake blonde Karen persona was something she developed later. There were signs towards the end of their relationship, but the true extend of how she had changed became clear after the breakup. If she didn’t want to be Scandi girl Estee anymore and felt that was Aslan‘s doing, that’s fine. But who modeled the awful person we see today? Surely that‘s not to blame on the man she hasn’t been with in six years.