Estee Lalonde #10 No sugar, just daddy, is Ibiza James the next ultimatum recipient?
- Thread starter Callan
- Start date
-
- Tags
- estee lalonde
1
Callan
VIP Member
Deadd... you win the internet today my friend!
Rosie34567-2
VIP Member
It's so hard for her to "slay" all day and then come home and be "alone"...
---
And of course she demonstrates how much she's "slaying" by showing up LATE to her important work event...because she stopped at a coffee shop to get a chai latte.
So professional.
---
And of course she demonstrates how much she's "slaying" by showing up LATE to her important work event...because she stopped at a coffee shop to get a chai latte.
So professional.
Last edited:
getawaywithit
VIP Member
It’s so crazy to see these girls who literally CANNOT function as adults unless they’re in a relationship because they centred their 20s around being part of a ‘couple’ and have no self concept otherwise.
Honestly, getting back on your feet after a bad breakup is one thing, but can Estee just finally grow tf up and stop the petulant, childish self pitying? She is not entitled to a relationship or marriage like she seems to think she is. She is like verging on incel lol.
Honestly, getting back on your feet after a bad breakup is one thing, but can Estee just finally grow tf up and stop the petulant, childish self pitying? She is not entitled to a relationship or marriage like she seems to think she is. She is like verging on incel lol.
JellyBellyBeanie
Well-known member
Everyone can wear a bikini
I'd rather be an independent woman and live life on my own terms, which I am at 40. She's just going through the feels because biological we feel pressure and time is running out in her mind. That said, not everyone gets what they want in life - a husband, a successful marriage, children, a big house in the countryside, a career, to run your own business, whatever.
You're right, Estee needs to learn to live and love the hand she has been dealt, it's actually not so bad! She's so incredibly fortunate for the blessings she has that alot of her peers couldn't even dream of. I hope her therapist tells her that.
glenn_coco
Chatty Member
Right?! Like, she's bought her own flat and is able to rent a 2nd flat in one of the most expensive cities in Europe (let alone the world), goes on more holidays and staycations a year than an average person goes in their lifetime, basically perma works from home, and is gifted bougie af items and services.
She got dealt a bloody fantastic hand at surface level, but she's just so messy.
consumerism makes u free
Well-known member
It does not help that she's spent almost her entire adult life very, very wealthy and even when she wasn't, her long-term partner was. The clock restarted when she moved her dumb ass to London and she cannot envision a lesser fortune at this point. Her baseline for mere survival is one of extreme privilege. She has zero perspective. She doesn't even consider she could be living in an apartment alone in Waterloo or wherever if things hadn't gone her way, she just thinks it's a funny, inferior place to visit.
Hasanah123
VIP Member
Her abandonment issues are real deep and she needs therapy or extensive healing because look at how much it is still affecting her
Having no man no husband no children no marriage all equals abandonment to her and her childhood issues constantly resurfacing
She needs some serious help and she needs to stop lying to herself and really get the help she needs
Guess those baths were useless
Having no man no husband no children no marriage all equals abandonment to her and her childhood issues constantly resurfacing
She needs some serious help and she needs to stop lying to herself and really get the help she needs
Guess those baths were useless
calabazarock
Well-known member
It's very obvious the need for therapy... And she goes get her eyebrows done because that always make her 'feel better', and come home to cry again.
I wonder if people around her are not telling her to get therapy.
I wonder if people around her are not telling her to get therapy.
It doesn't matter either way. I have a family member who could really use therapy and I, along with others, have tried to persuade them to go, explaining how helpful it has been for us, and they still won't do it. You can only help others as much as they're willing to help themselves.
it’s not been changed?!
VIP Member
“I know a thing or two about burn out”
I guffawed.
I guffawed.
jazzmonster
Chatty Member
A narcissist in my circle started therapy, and all they got out of it was “my feelings are valid!!” which made them even worse to be around. It just doesn’t work on everyone.
They actually have to tell the truth to get real help, but as a narcissist they already think they're the best and paint a different picture from reality.
coffee1234
Well-known member
Wow
Limey
VIP Member
That hair is super ageing on her, looks like my colleague who is over 60 (colleague looks a damn sight better, as well).
getawaywithit
VIP Member
ITA and it’s faaaar preferable to be single and investing in your own self worth and identity, finding things that bring you joy, and building your life, than it is to just be desperately trying to find someone, anyone, and lose yourself and mental health in the process.
Her wealth also makes it possible for her to pursue virtually anything she wants to enrich her own life but she spends her days getting beauty treatments and crying because she has gone a few weeks without a man.
However, only thing I’d say here is that Estee is what… 34 or 35? It’s not like that’s it for her and she has to wrap it up. I understand feeling anxious but she is young and could meet someone anytime.
In fact, sometimes I wonder if she just took the time to deal with herself, be on her own for a bit, then MINDFULLY date when she is ready, she might have met someone she is well matched with and that she really loves. Instead, she has spent years trying to force situationships because she refuses to handle to discomfort at being single. And here she is again, single anyway.
