Emma Drew #21 Greed, gluttony and a house full of tat, one year post WLS and still fat.

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fruitfriends said:
Catching up on today’s stories. “I’d move heaven and earth for him”.... as long as he doesn’t have to come and live here.

As usual it’s all me me me. I’m struggling. I’m finding it hard. I can’t pull myself together and be brave just a few times for my own father.

She absolutely boils my piss the selfish pig
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She’s all talk and no action as always. There are so many things she could actually do for her dad but she never will as it requires actual effort and it’s far too hard for Miss Selfish Lazy Arse to even consider.

My grandma spiralled very quickly with dementia over the last few years and as I mentioned a few pages back, my dad and my Aunty became her full time carers to try and delay her going into a home - though she ended up in one last Spring. My Aunty and my dad would alternate days where they would spend from 10am one day to 10am the next day with my grandma. My mam and my uncle completely lost their partners every other day because they had to move into my grandma’s house and fully care for her for 24 hours till their shift was over. Holidays were put on hold, days out arranged around what day they were caring for my grandma, seeing other friends and family had to fit around my grandma, my dads businesses had to fit around his caring hours etc etc. It was the absolute hardest thing they’ve ever had to do but they are both so proud of what they did. My grandma got to spend more time surrounded by her own things in her own house and with her children by her side constantly. They had to do absolutely everything for her - cooking, cleaning, personal care, changing her clothes, entertaining, exercising ...all alongside the verbal abuse she gave them on the really bad days but they didn’t give up until there was literally nothing left in them.

Yes Emma’s dad may not be able to move in with Emma but Emma could move in with her dad I’m sure. Even on a part time basis if she shared the responsibility with someone else but Emma is far too bothered about her own life being disrupted that she’d never ever consider doing something so selfless.
 
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