This is what I'm trying to say. It's obvious there's something going on. But they still need to held accountable.To be fair, you can tell Elphaba is extremely naive when it comes to guys and friendships. People can be shading her to her face and she won't realise at all
I do feel a bit sad when it's obvious that the new friends she picked up don't have her best interest in mind or want her for clout. She clearly needs some sort of guidance to at least becoming a functioning human
At the same time, it doesn't take away from her narcissistic tendencies and the lies
Not disputing that. But the reason we have labels "these days" is to stop parents locking their mentally disabled children in cupboards or worse and so they don't get punished for things out of their control.Why does everything have to have a label or excuse nowadays. He is just a horrible lying trampy bastard.
Not disputing that. But the reason we have labels "these days" is to stop parents locking their mentally disabled children in cupboards or worse and so they don't get punished for things out of their control.
More than likely can you imagine the beard even they were let out? I mean it's pretty impressive at the moment.Maria locking Elphaba in a cupboard would do everyone a favour
are you? LmaoI'm assuming you're a doctor of some kind yes?
Ahh yes because every person with a learning disability is the same.
I'm assuming you're a doctor of some kind yes?
I am not defending them in the slightest. I fully believe they need to be held accountable for all the stuff they've said and done. No doubts about that. But there is 100% something wrong with them mentally. People with mental health issues still need to be held accountable, they aren't exempt. To behave this way isn't normal at all. And I don't mean them claiming to be trans. If they are they are, but the shouldn't make a mockery of it as they are currently doing. They need an intervention and taking off social media.
Honestly no one here agrees with you, elf bar doesn’t need excuses of having learning difficulties when there’s absolutely no proof of that. Just a scamming lying narcissist who can’t look outside themselves and is thick as duck. You defending them, whether you believe you are or not, is not helpful. It’s just giving them more ammo to get away with being the disgusting person they areThis is what I'm trying to say. It's obvious there's something going on. But they still need to held accountable.
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Not disputing that. But the reason we have labels "these days" is to stop parents locking their mentally disabled children in cupboards or worse and so they don't get punished for things out of their control.
Sorry but the beginning of your post really made me giggle, but you 100% have got a point and they know exactly the consequences of their actions, it seems so calculatedare you? Lmao
It’s quite clear he has capacity, he knows exactly what he’s doing. He’s not got “severe learning disabilities” in your words - he’s just incredibly thick at best, his long Insta story rants have got bad spelling and grammar but otherwise there’s FA wrong with him.
On the MH side - clearly he’s fucked up from his psycho mum and poor upbringing, which explains his attention seeking behaviour (exacerbated by tiktok/social media “fame”) but whether he has any form of mental health condition is between him and a psychiatrist
I agree with themHonestly no one here agrees with you, elf bar doesn’t need excuses of having learning difficulties when there’s absolutely no proof of that. Just a scamming lying narcissist who can’t look outside themselves and is thick as duck. You defending them, whether you believe you are or not, is not helpful. It’s just giving them more ammo to get away with being the disgusting person they are
This is what I'm trying to say. It's obvious there's something going on. But they still need to held accountable.
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Not disputing that. But the reason we have labels "these days" is to stop parents locking their mentally disabled children in cupboards or worse and so they don't get punished for things out of their control.
I might be. I might not.are you? Lmao
It’s quite clear he has capacity, he knows exactly what he’s doing. He’s not got “severe learning disabilities” in your words - he’s just incredibly thick at best, his long Insta story rants have got bad spelling and grammar but otherwise there’s FA wrong with him.
On the MH side - clearly he’s fucked up from his psycho mum and poor upbringing, which explains his attention seeking behaviour (exacerbated by tiktok/social media “fame”) but whether he has any form of mental health condition is between him and a psychiatrist
Thank youxI can appreciate you attempting to rationalise what is going on with this person. They have had me scratching my head too and at times I have struggled with my conscience wondering if they are mentally impaired (beyond just being a twit).
I’m a mum of a 19 yr old. I want to see the best in young people. But this person makes it *extremely* difficult after you have watched them long enough.
Some people in this thread seem to get very protective of their conclusions. That’s fine. But I for one appreciated your contribution.
I’m not disputing that they are a liar at all. And I do think they need to be held to account for their terrible actions and behaviour.Where did I even insinuate, nevermind say that every person with a learning disability is the same? As said, ive worked in that area, im very aware how different each individual is. However, they do have similar traits and aren't aware of their behaviours because its a disability, not a choice. Elphaba is aware and CHOOSES how she behaves. She wants to have some kind of disability/difficulty so that she can use that for her gain and sympathy. She switches her "difficulties" on and off when it suits her.
See, the thing is, I don’t really care if you agree or not, people are allowed different opinions. Not everything is black and white, or always as it seems from a video online, I’d say their lives mostly prove they’ve got issues that go beyond trying to scam money.Honestly no one here agrees with you, elf bar doesn’t need excuses of having learning difficulties when there’s absolutely no proof of that. Just a scamming lying narcissist who can’t look outside themselves and is thick as duck. You defending them, whether you believe you are or not, is not helpful. It’s just giving them more ammo to get away with being the disgusting person they are
I might be. I might not.
Perhaps severe learning difficulties wasn’t the best turn of phrase. But I whole heartedly believe they are on the spectrum, ignoring their+terrible behaviour, they tick a lot of boxes.
secondly I thought I’d look at it from a different perspective and it might end up in debate or a discussion, instead it’s just people acting like they know them personally and not from 30 second videos on TikTok. Tbh I forgot I’m on tattle, one way is the only way.
I wish he would go offline and bleeping stay offline the absolute waste of spaceIs anyone watching them?? Saying if people don’t get them on the leader board they’re going offline literally blackmailing people to gift!! disgusting.
Same I despise them. Vile piece of tit and yet brain dead idiots still gifting .I wish he would go offline and bleeping stay offline the absolute waste of space