This “fat fetishists” concept is what pisses me off the most about Demi. I’m mid / plus sized, and I like to follow people on Instagram & tiktok who are the same size for fashion inspiration and validation that other people have my body type and aren’t disgusting (how I see myself most of the time). That’s what we want, to feel normal. I don’t want to be constantly reminded that I’m bigger than “usual”. Demi makes a mockery of plus size people, constantly flapping her bits about, pulling her pants down and embarrassing herself. Like you say she plays up to the fetishists and just reminds people of their insecurities (at least for me she does). I don’t want to see her stretch marks, cellulite, overhang all the time cos it just reminds me of mine. I want to see plus size people living live normally wearing nice outfits and not being defined by their size.