Hello
Neurospicy here.
Diagnosed with my secondary at 20 and my primary at 32.
Grace absolutely exhibits the traits of ADHD and Autism. I’m sure her son is Autistic (diagnosed) and her daughter is part way through an ADHD diagnosis or may already be diagnosed. But she’s pissing people off as it’s her whole and assumes she can get away with being like this because she launches the Neurodivergent card.
The constant 1000% dive in head first into all of these business - the minute the ££ stops, she’s bored.
The way everything is taken so personally, she’s coming across like a total
witch, this is mainly exhibited in her comments, whilst it does happen in her videos it’s not as much as in writing.
The fact both of the her children are Neurodivergent there is 99% chance it’s inherited from both her and their dad.
For a lot of people, traits are there in childhood and more so in their late 20’s onwards. It is more likely she’s seeing it more and more now, especially the older she is getting and seeing her kids in their teenage years.
What she is absolutely free to do is label herself as Neurodivergent, AuDHD, Spicy, whatever she likes. What she isn’t free to do is use that label as an excuse to be nasty as
duck to people.
Go back to when she first started TT, first met Kelly, first started Glory & DS…. She was lovely, her written responses were appropriate, she wasn’t a
witch. It seems like she has identified these traits and ran with them.
My ADHD means I have uncontrollable tantrums like a 2 year old that I cannot stop. It affects my MH, it affects my inability to drive a manual car, use a tin opener (electric all the way), iron clothes the way someone else would, I fidget like crazy, I will piss you off having songs on repeat until I can’t possibly listen to it ever again. I go through only eating the same food until it physically makes me sick, atm Corned Beef toasties are completely and utterly off the menu for a minimum of 2 years. I will only wear certain materials because the material of the clothes will drive me insane. I will cry uncontrollably because of seams and tags, tags I can get rid of the seams I’m stuck with. People think it’s fun and games, I’m almost 37 and this has been my entire life not a TT phase, not an excuse. Anybody in here who is ADHD / AuDHD / Autistic will tell you it’s an effing life sentence.
What my ADHD doesn’t do is make me a
bleep, I do that of my own free will when people are arseholes and when they deserve it.
It’s the same as when kids are naughty, you can identify an autistic / ADHD meltdown Vs a spoiled brat melt down, a spoiled brat will come out of it in the middle of a shop as soon as an alternative is offered or the item they want is put in a basket. You cannot stop a spicy melt down, no matter how hard you try there is no coming out of it, make it safe, make it okay.