Dating app icks #2 Turkey Teeth is also an ick

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If he is anything like his bio in real life, it’s a hard pass.
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guys can i ask for your feedback/advice - ive been on hinge for almost a week now, the lack of effort im getting from men in their messages ive matched is actually blowing my mind. ive got a few guys asking me questions back so a nice back and forth, but when a chat is so dull theyre not asking anything to get to know me and i can tell theres not going to be a potential for a future with them, do you kindly let them know and wish them luck or is that were im going wrong... its bringing the andrew tate's out of the woodwork at least, i dont want to just unmatch them without explaining i cant continue to carry the conversation but im starting to think just quietly unmatching them would be better than my current approach... your thoughts please!
 
Halfbaked said:
guys can i ask for your feedback/advice - ive been on hinge for almost a week now, the lack of effort im getting from men in their messages ive matched is actually blowing my mind. ive got a few guys asking me questions back so a nice back and forth, but when a chat is so dull theyre not asking anything to get to know me and i can tell theres not going to be a potential for a future with them, do you kindly let them know and wish them luck or is that were im going wrong... its bringing the andrew tate's out of the woodwork at least, i dont want to just unmatch them without explaining i cant continue to carry the conversation but im starting to think just quietly unmatching them would be better than my current approach... your thoughts please!
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Personally, if the chat is dead and there's been no mention of meeting or a date, then you don't need to explain yourself. I just unmatch/block and move on. I don't get offended if I get unmatched if there's just been small talk. Plus depending on the type of person they are, it just invites more crap conversation, or defensive replies if you explain.
 
stella_cat said:
Personally, if the chat is dead and there's been no mention of meeting or a date, then you don't need to explain yourself. I just unmatch/block and move on. I don't get offended if I get unmatched if there's just been small talk. Plus depending on the type of person they are, it just invites more crap conversation, or defensive replies if you explain.
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thank you for taking the time to reply, i didnt want to silently disappear but my current approach is definitely bringing out their worst side 😂 i wish id screenshotted them to add to this thread... appreciate your insight on this, thanks again!
 
Halfbaked said:
guys can i ask for your feedback/advice - ive been on hinge for almost a week now, the lack of effort im getting from men in their messages ive matched is actually blowing my mind. ive got a few guys asking me questions back so a nice back and forth, but when a chat is so dull theyre not asking anything to get to know me and i can tell theres not going to be a potential for a future with them, do you kindly let them know and wish them luck or is that were im going wrong... its bringing the andrew tate's out of the woodwork at least, i dont want to just unmatch them without explaining i cant continue to carry the conversation but im starting to think just quietly unmatching them would be better than my current approach... your thoughts please!
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I just unmatch. If the chat is dead chances are they're not gonna be bothered and if they were then they should have been more interesting 😉
 
stella_cat said:
Personally, if the chat is dead and there's been no mention of meeting or a date, then you don't need to explain yourself. I just unmatch/block and move on. I don't get offended if I get unmatched if there's just been small talk. Plus depending on the type of person they are, it just invites more crap conversation, or defensive replies if you explain.
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Yeah, I just unmatch without announcement or fanfare. I’m of the view that most of these guys don’t want or welcome any feedback in my experience.
 
Jackie Brown said:
Yeah, I just unmatch without announcement or fanfare. I’m of the view that most of these guys don’t want or welcome any feedback in my experience.
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I agree, I haven’t been on the apps in about a year and a half but I found a lot of guys never wanted to meet me for a date, they just wanted to either network or boost their confidence. Just quietly unmatch and cut your losses
 
it’s not been changed?! said:
I got a notification that someone had sent me a compliment. It’s someone I matched with this time last year, but i ghosted him because he was sending me screenshots of other women’s profiles and criticising them.

it says “Jesus christ… are you yet to make it off here”

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What he's failed to realise, a beautiful irony in his attempt to get a reaction is he is also yet to make it off there 🤣 I bet his heart skipped a beat when he got the matched with you notification but then you vanished on him - bravo 👏 that's even better than ignoring him, well played!
 
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