Dan Wheeler 8020 #2 All he does is ruin lives (and reputations & businesses)

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I think the bottom line is that he is an abusive man. Remove all the business stuff and just listen to the language he uses. His poor girlfriend - if I could rescue her I would but shes in deep - however it will end.. and she will be considered another 'c*nt' See? I have been here before. This man is abusive. Its called coercive control, and although difficult to prove - is actually now a crime. It would take his ex wife to raise something as I am not sure if its the same crime when relating to a business but the process is the same... The Love Bombing, then the put downs, subtle though they may be... the control comes from the manipulation and guilt tripping, and the anger and name calling comes from realising your supply is opening their eyes. So rather than change - they find a new supply. Whilst the new supply is in the love bombing stage, they will not only protect him from all the meanies hes told them about.. but they will also feed him with life affirming unquestioning support. That is enough on its own then to convince him that he is right.. he must be - these people are telling me I am amazing.... then the cycle begins again. Under normal circumstances at this stage, and as an empath, I would start to feel bad about this level of 'outing' his behaviour. But I have had years of this at the hands of these types of men.. Let the b*stard fall!
 
I think it's very telling that his target demographic is women who want to lose weight, knowing that that specific demographic will have low levels of self confidence, makes them more easy to target and bully when he disagrees. I found being part of his academy like being in an abusive relationship. Gradually seeing his behaviour spiral, and his backslash towards the women who began calling him out never taking any responsibility and blaming the women for his retaliation. It's also telling that although his target is women, the person he chooses to have as his protégé is infact a man. Who as we know lose weight faster and gain muscle faster than women... his misogyny is so palpable it makes me sick to my stomach that I fell for it, and actually, I feel quite ashamed that I let a man

TalktomeGoose606 said:
I think it's very telling that his target demographic is women who want to lose weight, knowing that that specific demographic will have low levels of self confidence, makes them more easy to target and bully when he disagrees. I found being part of his academy like being in an abusive relationship. Gradually seeing his behaviour spiral, and his backslash towards the women who began calling him out never taking any responsibility and blaming the women for his retaliation. It's also telling that although his target is women, the person he chooses to have as his protégé is infact a man. Who as we know lose weight faster and gain muscle faster than women... his misogyny is so palpable it makes me sick to my stomach that I fell for it, and actually, I feel quite ashamed that I let a man
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Not sure why this posted twice 🤔
 
heyhey76 said:
I think the bottom line is that he is an abusive man. Remove all the business stuff and just listen to the language he uses. His poor girlfriend - if I could rescue her I would but shes in deep - however it will end.. and she will be considered another 'c*nt' See? I have been here before. This man is abusive. Its called coercive control, and although difficult to prove - is actually now a crime. It would take his ex wife to raise something as I am not sure if its the same crime when relating to a business but the process is the same... The Love Bombing, then the put downs, subtle though they may be... the control comes from the manipulation and guilt tripping, and the anger and name calling comes from realising your supply is opening their eyes. So rather than change - they find a new supply. Whilst the new supply is in the love bombing stage, they will not only protect him from all the meanies hes told them about.. but they will also feed him with life affirming unquestioning support. That is enough on its own then to convince him that he is right.. he must be - these people are telling me I am amazing.... then the cycle begins again. Under normal circumstances at this stage, and as an empath, I would start to feel bad about this level of 'outing' his behaviour. But I have had years of this at the hands of these types of men.. Let the b*stard fall!
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100% agree with you.

heyhey76 said:
On another note, - his belief of his own sexiness actually makes my foof dry up and my ovaries shrink... when he laughs I can literally feel my womb trying to climb out of my dry foof!
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Omg, that Huhg huhg huhg laugh he does all the time makes me want to reach through my device and poke him in the bleeping eyeball. His face makes me so frigging nauseous too.
 
I can just see it now. His legal team talking to a judge. Well your honour my client would like to sue some people who said they didn't like him and he is a narcissist and a horrible person. Judge responds with and is your client a narcissist and horrible person. Legal team - well yes but that's not the point. They left negative reviews online, my client defended himself by ranting for 45 minutes over one of these reviews and telling everyone the woman's name and inciting hatred towards her. Judge - speechless. Legal team - even his employees backed him up by making threats of physical harm and false allegations to the same woman. Judge - shaking his head. Legal team - yes we heard ourselves say that out loud, we will see ourselves out
 
Alfie1234 said:
It’s interesting when you look back through your old Facebook groups and find photos and videos…. So he’s using someone else’s photo and refusing to take it down, yet it was a different story when he claimed it about him… Hypocrite much?View attachment 704508 qView attachment 704509 q

Wonder what else we can find? How about when he tried to call out James Smith and JS soon shut him up…..View attachment 704511 qView attachment 704514 q

How about when he made a meme about suicide and trolls and fucked it up completely and got torn a new one by multiple people….View attachment 704517 qView attachment 704519 qView attachment 704520 qView attachment 704524 qView attachment 704526 qView attachment 704527 q

Want to see the original FatDann and Carla? This was a lovely bunch of ladies that he was coaching for free and there was a big fuss the first night, think they all ran into a lake or something, then they played rugby and he was going to change their lives, sound familiar? Well, it all went wrong, not his fault of course, they just weren’t committed and it became so toxic and he just couldn’t understand why, hang on, isn’t this what he’s saying on his live this morning, he just can’t understand. Whanker, buy yourself a mirror mate and there’s the answer, it’s bleeping YOU!
Not sure how to post a video but Ive got a cracking one of him telling the story of how he lost all his money, £7500, on holiday in a casino. Think this was before his foray into online gambling when he wanted to become a professional gambler because he was good at it, not addicted though, or was he??????View attachment 704533 q

Anyway, this isnt getting my steps in, more to come later 😂😂😂😂
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This thread is better than the soaps! can't wait for the next installment :LOL:
 
heyhey76 said:
On another note, - his belief of his own sexiness actually makes my foof dry up and my ovaries shrink... when he laughs I can literally feel my womb trying to climb out of my dry foof!
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Oh sweet lord, this made me laugh so hard! The ick is in full force here too 🤢

LadyBugDotty said:
I can just see it now. His legal team talking to a judge. Well your honour my client would like to sue some people who said they didn't like him and he is a narcissist and a horrible person. Judge responds with and is your client a narcissist and horrible person. Legal team - well yes but that's not the point. They left negative reviews online, my client defended himself by ranting for 45 minutes over one of these reviews and telling everyone the woman's name and inciting hatred towards her. Judge - speechless. Legal team - even his employees backed him up by making threats of physical harm and false allegations to the same woman. Judge - shaking his head. Legal team - yes we heard ourselves say that out loud, we will see ourselves out
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He REALLY reminds me of Trump with all his legal threats and claims of being the best there ever was!
 
TalktomeGoose606 said:
I think it's very telling that his target demographic is women who want to lose weight, knowing that that specific demographic will have low levels of self confidence, makes them more easy to target and bully when he disagrees. I found being part of his academy like being in an abusive relationship. Gradually seeing his behaviour spiral, and his backslash towards the women who began calling him out never taking any responsibility and blaming the women for his retaliation. It's also telling that although his target is women, the person he chooses to have as his protégé is infact a man. Who as we know lose weight faster and gain muscle faster than women... his misogyny is so palpable it makes me sick to my stomach that I fell for it, and actually, I feel quite ashamed that I let a man


Not sure why this posted twice 🤔
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Its because you make a very good point!!!

Notformethanks said:
I'm not in the Academy anymore 😭
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We'll light a candle for your loss 🙏
 
Opalfruit8 said:
Reckon we can track the first group down?
Can’t stand JS but it’s telling Dan doesn’t tear him a new one because he’s not female
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heyhey76 said:
I think the bottom line is that he is an abusive man. Remove all the business stuff and just listen to the language he uses. His poor girlfriend - if I could rescue her I would but shes in deep - however it will end.. and she will be considered another 'c*nt' See? I have been here before. This man is abusive. Its called coercive control, and although difficult to prove - is actually now a crime. It would take his ex wife to raise something as I am not sure if its the same crime when relating to a business but the process is the same... The Love Bombing, then the put downs, subtle though they may be... the control comes from the manipulation and guilt tripping, and the anger and name calling comes from realising your supply is opening their eyes. So rather than change - they find a new supply. Whilst the new supply is in the love bombing stage, they will not only protect him from all the meanies hes told them about.. but they will also feed him with life affirming unquestioning support. That is enough on its own then to convince him that he is right.. he must be - these people are telling me I am amazing.... then the cycle begins again. Under normal circumstances at this stage, and as an empath, I would start to feel bad about this level of 'outing' his behaviour. But I have had years of this at the hands of these types of men.. Let the b*stard fall!
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I couldn’t love a post more than this! This needs repeating and repeating until it sinks in!
 
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