Conor Ryan & Ellie Kelly #10 Ellie’s got a new rack, when will Conor come crawling back?

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thatstatt said:
He definitely said social media played a big part in their break up because thats prob how Ellie found out about him cheating every time he did 😂😂
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Yeah nothing is secret when your in the public eye, no matter who you are. I hate that he blames social media. If he hadn’t of done it all then there would never have been a problem. He couldn’t admit it was all down to him, and because of social media he got caught.
 
That's bullshit about the mortgage first needs to be in business for over 2 years which he isn't so straight away no bank would touch him . Secondly I know people on there own making 60k that are only getting 210k as its 3.5 times your salary where is he going with 240k haha
Can't see how he's putting away 2k a week on his own that's €500 a week no way is the cock box making enough for him to do that and pay staff / buy stock. I know leaving at home you can save alot as not paying any bills but still.
 
I’ll probably be crucified for saying this, and I’ll be the first to have had a very poor opinion of him. But having listened to that podcast, I see a very troubled young fella. Who appears to have grown up in a home where in normal circumstances he’d be the only child. Bring in foster kids/parents negative comments of him being a ponce etc, I can kind of understand why he acts the way he acts. Now not for one second am I excusing it. But I think there are an awful lot of deep rooted issues that he hasn’t dealt with and needs to deal with before he has any chance of being truly happy in his life. If Ellie is in any way an empath, then a part of me can understand why she stuck around for so long. Knowing probably better than anyone how he views himself etc. At the same time I’m glad she decided to call it a day. Cos until that boy addresses his own issues and deals with them, he’ll have a negative impact on any relationship he tries
 
Julie_83 said:
I’ll probably be crucified for saying this, and I’ll be the first to have had a very poor opinion of him. But having listened to that podcast, I see a very troubled young fella. Who appears to have grown up in a home where in normal circumstances he’d be the only child. Bring in foster kids/parents negative comments of him being a ponce etc, I can kind of understand why he acts the way he acts. Now not for one second am I excusing it. But I think there are an awful lot of deep rooted issues that he hasn’t dealt with and needs to deal with before he has any chance of being truly happy in his life. If Ellie is in any way an empath, then a part of me can understand why she stuck around for so long. Knowing probably better than anyone how he views himself etc. At the same time I’m glad she decided to call it a day. Cos until that boy addresses his own issues and deals with them, he’ll have a negative impact on any relationship he tries
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I agree with you it’s prob the first time he’s sat down and said a lot of those things. I know people who crave approval from parents and never get it and it can destroy a person. We don’t know the ins and outs of his home life and it was an eye opener for me . If there is ADHD in the background that explains the impulsive behaviour and he is always seeking attention by posting different cars ect. Say what ya want business wise the chap is making a fortune
 
who the duck is aoife daly

anyway I haven't listened to the podcast yet, but i had no idea his parents foster kids. actually explains his behaviour a lot and where his jelousy and insecurity comes from.
Also in terms of arguing with his parents I can actually sympathise with that, the best thing i ever did was move away from home. it's actually not worth what you'd save when you're constantly arguing it will turn you into a nasty and spiteful person. best thing he could ever do is live on his own for a while or move away somewhere for a while
 
nothinonyou said:
who the duck is aoife daly

anyway I haven't listened to the podcast yet, but i had no idea his parents foster kids. actually explains his behaviour a lot and where his jelousy and insecurity comes from.
Also in terms of arguing with his parents I can actually sympathise with that, the best thing i ever did was move away from home. it's actually not worth what you'd save when you're constantly arguing it will turn you into a nasty and spiteful person. best thing he could ever do is live on his own for a while or move away somewhere for a while
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this one from Tralee
 

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They were barely back together a week the last time before she went to NY. What kind of an eejit cheats literally within that time like ? If they were back together 3-4 months you’d say he got comfortable and thought he had her fooled but to do it literally when they were only back together - how can he say he loves her! Mindblown. Anyway, haven’t listened but can’t understand why women sleep with him. My first boyfriend cheated on me twice with pure bleeping skangers. When I asked him why, it came out he had been abused as a kid by a local man and he felt worthless - literally unless he was having sex with a woman- he felt worthless. We broke up but I made him go to therapy and tell his parents, and he did and believe it or not we are still great pals he will call over tonight and go walking with my hubby because he swears it was that chat with me 15 years ago that made him cop on. He is married now and a different man and great dad.Not saying I understand Conor or excuse him but it can be a sign of feeling worthless if you think you need sex the whole time to feel valued.
 
Julie_83 said:
I’ll probably be crucified for saying this, and I’ll be the first to have had a very poor opinion of him. But having listened to that podcast, I see a very troubled young fella. Who appears to have grown up in a home where in normal circumstances he’d be the only child. Bring in foster kids/parents negative comments of him being a ponce etc, I can kind of understand why he acts the way he acts. Now not for one second am I excusing it. But I think there are an awful lot of deep rooted issues that he hasn’t dealt with and needs to deal with before he has any chance of being truly happy in his life. If Ellie is in any way an empath, then a part of me can understand why she stuck around for so long. Knowing probably better than anyone how he views himself etc. At the same time I’m glad she decided to call it a day. Cos until that boy addresses his own issues and deals with them, he’ll have a negative impact on any relationship he tries
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I agree. I absolutely cant stand the boy but he did own up to being the problem and he said social media affected the relationship, he didnt blame it on that but he said its a factor which its clearly going to be if you both have a following. Hes still a spa and i dont really believe half of what he says about trying to better himself, but he did own up to being the problem in the relationship
 
nothinonyou said:
who the duck is aoife daly

anyway I haven't listened to the podcast yet, but i had no idea his parents foster kids. actually explains his behaviour a lot and where his jelousy and insecurity comes from.
Also in terms of arguing with his parents I can actually sympathise with that, the best thing i ever did was move away from home. it's actually not worth what you'd save when you're constantly arguing it will turn you into a nasty and spiteful person. best thing he could ever do is live on his own for a while or move away somewhere for a while
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Could be all lies aswell just for the podcast and make people feel sorry for him nearly every kid has ADHD nowadays. Can anybody who lives on his road or knows him through people confirm that his mam and dad actually did Foster kids?
 
Honestly think hes as well off away from Ellie. Thought he was very honest on the podcast. I would also add I feel he is taking all the blame. Ellie i cannot see being completely blameless she comes across as a lazy princess who wants it all with doing duck all. If all her behaviour was laid out open I would imagaine she is not absolved of blame either. The HCHH pod should be released as I reckon it contains more thruth than weve been privvy to
 
Not going to lie - that podcast is probably about as honest as he’s ever been, and fair play to him for owning the fact he’s the problem in the relationship- but you can’t just keep saying that and keep repeating the mistakes - he needs to learn from it and try to improve himself. I think this podcast sees him come across exceedingly well - and you can tell he doesn’t have the easiest time with his parents etx. He’s still a tool because he talks the talk but isn’t mature enough to change himself yet but I do think this has done him a lot of favours
 
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