It wrecckkkkkkkss me the way Erin carries on because Harry has autism. From experience there is alot of help/programmes out there plus she clearly has access to better means than most. My nephew who is in his 20s has autism and other issues.. we worked very hard for him to live as "normal" as possible and he shocked all of us .. we worked hard and we loved hard. I understand the pain of mourning the perfect child and the spectrum is so big it's almost never ending so every case will be different but the emphasis on his diagnoses is boring now. Everything is doom and gloom.. enjoy the beautiful boy life is so bloody short.