Chronically ill influences "aka spoonies"

[Beach88]

Her home is so grotty.
No bed sheets, her mattress and duvet are grey when they are meant to be white. If she’s got £48 for more phone cases, endless make up, more and more tatt.
Then she can afford 2 sets of bed linen, some pillow and mattress protectors. It’s basic hygiene.


If her and her mums mobility is as bad as she makes out when why have all that heaps of rubbish everywhere, just waiting for one of them to tip over and actually hurt themselves.

I do wonder how she would cope without her mum and step dad around. She’s 25 but so dependent on them, in every sense.

I do think she would benefit from getting up and out of the house, daily.

 

[Lolly71990]

Her home is so grotty.
No bed sheets, her mattress and duvet are grey when they are meant to be white. If she’s got £48 for more phone cases, endless make up, more and more tatt.
Then she can afford 2 sets of bed linen, some pillow and mattress protectors. It’s basic hygiene.


If her and her mums mobility is as bad as she makes out when why have all that heaps of rubbish everywhere, just waiting for one of them to tip over and actually hurt themselves.

I do wonder how she would cope without her mum and step dad around. She’s 25 but so dependent on them, in every sense.

I do think she would benefit from getting up and out of the house, daily.

Her latest TikTok about Meadowhall. If anyone knows that place will know it’s HELL at any time of year but around Xmas it’s horrific. “Having to sit down every few seconds”, her “mother having to hold her up” “can’t breath, going to collapse” and it took her an “hour and a half” to walk to the mobility stand which from the entrance is about a 2-5 minute walk maximum. But she can sit and scoff fast food every single day.

After how she spoke to her mother tonight I couldn’t believe it - I actually felt so sorry for her mum, she was in “icu” so Rebecca says only around 6 months ago and really poorly she filmed it of course and she did look horrific, on oxygen with chest drains in etc. I wonder what really goes on behind those walls, I think her mother has some kind of learning disability but she did actually work before having a “medical event” behind the wheel.

Is it time for a thread? I don’t know if people have to have a certain amount of followers.