Chloe and Beans

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You can explain to patients if you have a objection. They are then allowed to make bad choices.

You generally need to go to court to order care if consent is refused.

A judge would then decide if she actually lacked the capacity to consent in the first place.
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Cordelia makes me think of vampires too.
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I think she will be pregnant during 2025. Next baby '26.
 
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rainbowlemon said:
You can explain to patients if you have a objection. They are then allowed to make bad choices.

You generally need to go to court to order care if consent is refused.

A judge would then decide if she actually lacked the capacity to consent in the first place.
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Cordelia makes me think of vampires too.
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I think she will be pregnant during 2025. Next baby '26.
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I just don’t know why / how she keeps doing this! I’m on my third pregnancy and it’s very much my last - does she not experience sickness and fatigue?! It’s unfair to the other kids to constantly be in that state once you’ve given them a few siblings (or one or none) … much more important to focus on who is in front of you. Plus they say it “takes a village” and she seems to have no family or friends that are heavily involved or even high quality childcare personnel… she is going to burn out very badly if she doesn’t stop now. Hopefully the Z is a sort of punctuation letter 🙏🏻
 
She had to have an emergency Caesar in the end very hard for recovery. Especially with 9 other kids to care for. If she had half a brain she could have had a planned induction at 39 weeks or certainly a planned c section without any of the stress on herself or the baby. She’s just selfish and wants this bullshit birth hero clout. She’s honestly lucky she didn’t lose the baby and if she did it would have been 100% her fault for going against medical advice
 
Ro has no backbone that’s for sure. Just goes along with whatever crazy Chloe wants. There’s no way he wouldn’t know that all the decisions she’s making aren’t the best for their kids. He is just passive and that’s why it works. I do wonder how the dynamic is going to be with a house full of hormonal teenagers who never leave to go to school or activities. I feel at that stage they will suddenly change their mind about home schooling
 
After 2 c- sections it’s definitely safer to wait for spontaneous labour over an induction! I’m glad she was being responsible in the sense that she did end up going to hospital when she was bleeding.

I think her mum moved back to tassie some time last year so I don’t think she would have much family support, but I’m pretty sure her sister still lives in Perth. I know private midwives provide a lot of care for the first 6 weeks postpartum but not sure what she will do after that time.

I don’t mind the name Cordelia, I would’ve preferred that over Zelda!
 
How do we know they don’t have help? Surely they like to be perceived as hero parents but they only show what they want to show. They could easily have a nanny or more but it stays behind camera. I no longer follow them because I always thought their ‘insta life’ was all fake. And also I think she might have some kind of mental health issue which is why she’s hoarding keeps having babies.
 
The thing that bothers me about the Beans family is that the older kids so often look unkempt. Their clothes don’t match, they are stretched out, and don’t look properly laundered. Same with their hair, which is really unkempt.
I fully support kids being comfortable and relaxed at home, as well as choosing their outfits to a degree. But mine were always very clean, with hair washed and brushed. Of course I only had two because I was older and have auto immune diseases. It was brutal taking care of two children in my condition, but Chloe has 10! I hope she remains in good health.
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whatsmynameagain. said:
Watching the video I genuinely felt sad for Pearl she looked lost amongst them all! And the fact she said they aren’t sure if it’s their last, come on girl 10 is more than enough you’re just tempting fate having anymore 🙄
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Pearl does seem lost to me as well. She doesn’t really fit in like the others. I imagine she struggles the most as she was so tiny at birth. Pearl also appears more shy and quiet than the others.
Chloe is tempting fate. Why not be happy and focus your time on the ones you have already? How lucky she is that they all appear to be healthy.
 
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IHateHadargoyle said:
Pearl does seem lost to me as well. She doesn’t really fit in like the others.
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I'm almost sure Pearl was the one who loved school when they were allowed to attend. She seemed to thrive and I remember feeling upset on her behalf that she was made to leave as it didn't suit the other siblings. Because heaven forbid the children should be individuals, who are allowed to do something different. 😢
 
Puppet said:
I'm almost sure Pearl was the one who loved school when they were allowed to attend. She seemed to thrive and I remember feeling upset on her behalf that she was made to leave as it didn't suit the other siblings. Because heaven forbid the children should be individuals, who are allowed to do something different. 😢
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I remember that too. Pearl got to meet some new friends and if might be nice to have some girls her own age to play with.

I also think they split up the triplets so they weren't in the same.class.

The kids need a break from their parents and vice versa. They are trapped with them 24/7.
 
GingerSquid said:
Did she hint at a ADHD and / or Autism spectrum diagnosis … I seem to recall that … and that she realised when a few of the kids were diagnosed …
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Yes, I'm almost certain she said she'd been told she was on the spectrum after being told it runs in the family and a child was also suspected/confirmed to be on the spectrum. She didn't identify the child though (quite rightly).
 
savefloss said:
She had to have an emergency Caesar in the end very hard for recovery. Especially with 9 other kids to care for. If she had half a brain she could have had a planned induction at 39 weeks or certainly a planned c section without any of the stress on herself or the baby. She’s just selfish and wants this bullshit birth hero clout. She’s honestly lucky she didn’t lose the baby and if she did it would have been 100% her fault for going against medical advice
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Especially with her having to have a GA. That tit knocks you around for weeks!!
I’ve had 2 c-sections and my second was SO much harder than my first I really underestimated how painful it would be having 2 major abdominal surgery’s within a few years of each other.. my first was textbook absolutely no issues but my second one my uterus tore because of scar tissue that had built up from the first one. I cant even begin to imagine how much her body has been through, and how taxing it will be on her as she gets older.
 
Puppet said:
I'm almost sure Pearl was the one who loved school when they were allowed to attend. She seemed to thrive and I remember feeling upset on her behalf that she was made to leave as it didn't suit the other siblings. Because heaven forbid the children should be individuals, who are allowed to do something different. 😢
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I believe that getting all those children to and from school and ready in the morning, as well as dealing with all the different teachers, activities, etc. is why they stopped sending them. In addition to the older ones being set in their ways with the ease of home schooling versus traditional school. Also the kids likely brought home illnesses.
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emphiii said:
Yes, I'm almost certain she said she'd been told she was on the spectrum after being told it runs in the family and a child was also suspected/confirmed to be on the spectrum. She didn't identify the child though (quite rightly).
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Was it only one child or more than one?
 
emphiii said:
Yes, I'm almost certain she said she'd been told she was on the spectrum after being told it runs in the family and a child was also suspected/confirmed to be on the spectrum. She didn't identify the child though (quite rightly).
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I thought it was a couple of the kids and her, but 100% the right thing to not disclose anymore. Just thought it was interesting with her life choices; her and her husband seem socially awkward, and it explains the insular set up. Very sweet kids, but they do seem somewhat conditioned.
 
Dreamer01 said:
What happens while she recovers from her C Section? Does Ro have to look after the other 9 kids? Looks like all Chloe does all day now is sit in her chair and cuddle the baby.
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She doesn’t seem to do a lot anyway imo. I think the older ones are just left to their own devices
She would be better to keep doing stuff while recovering. I’m a bit of an anomaly I guess but after my c-section I was home the next day, didn’t even take any paracetamol and carried on virtually as normal, just without any heavy lifting. I was a single parent and managed it all just fine. She could absolutely still be pottering about doing bits and bobs.
 
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