Chloe and Beans

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Shrekssister said:
Didn't realise this family had a thread. I used to keep up with them and I'm genuinely shocked she's pregnant again. I'd be interested to know how much say Ro has in this, or whose idea so many babies was.

I'd also like to say, I'm one of 8 kids, and the oldest girl. My mum was a stay at home mum and even with that my parents could not give us all the individual attention we deserved. I cannot recall a single time where I had time with one parent alone, never mind both of them. 4 of us no longer live at home and 4 still do (teenagers) and now there's less kids there they can do things like one on one activities, family holidays (the only holidays I had as a child was outings with clubs or school, there was too many of us). My parents don't make much effort with those of us who have moved out (I haven't actually spoken to either of them this year) and I maintain that they had more kids than they could handle. Its really messed me up emotionally, I constantly feel as though I have to be caring for others and I cannot bring myself to take a break or do things for me. This is not a lifestyle any child deserves.
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Thank you for your perspective on this. Big hugs to you. Sounds like a lot to process as an adult.
 
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