Chinions off topic chat #9

[lazydaizy]

Can someone give me a run down of what it actually is p diddy is accused of? I am down a rabbit hole

Sexual abuse and sexual torture (because of his white parties) that’s the biggest thing I took away from it, he’s apparently been dodgy for years as there’s loads of artists who called him out years ago e.g Eminem and 50 cent. Jay-Z is meant to be getting implicated too but there’s no proof of that as of yet. There’s conspiracies they had something to do with Aaliyahs plane crash death too
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if you look on tiktok there’s a lot of accounts who do a deep dive into the accusations. I can’t remember the name of the accounts but if they pop up I’ll post them on here and tag you

 

[stardust1]

Sexual abuse and sexual torture (because of his white parties) that’s the biggest thing I took away from it, he’s apparently been dodgy for years as there’s loads of artists who called him out years ago e.g Eminem and 50 cent. Jay-Z is meant to be getting implicated too but there’s no proof of that as of yet. There’s conspiracies they had something to do with Aaliyahs plane crash death too
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if you look on tiktok there’s a lot of accounts who do a deep dive into the accusations. I can’t remember the name of the accounts but if they pop up I’ll post them on here and tag you

Jesus, I keep seeing the stuff about abusing Justin Beiber. It’s actual madness what must go on in their world. My partner said theres loads of celebs who seem to be implicated in it all in some way.

Also is Kim porter the one who everyone is saying she tried to expose him in a book and then ended up also dead?

 

[lazydaizy]

Jesus, I keep seeing the stuff about abusing Justin Beiber. It’s actual madness what must go on in their world. My partner said theres loads of celebs who seem to be implicated in it all in some way.

Also is Kim porter the one who everyone is saying she tried to expose him in a book and then ended up also dead?

Yes Kim porter is his ex and it’s been heavily rumoured that he murdered her especially after those videos came out of cassie. Did you ever see them? They were in a hotel room and she tried to escape and he caught her and absolutely leathered her there was cctv footage and I’m almost positive he videod it too

 

[stardust1]

Yes Kim porter is his ex and it’s been heavily rumoured that he murdered her especially after those videos came out of cassie. Did you ever see them? They were in a hotel room and she tried to escape and he caught her and absolutely leathered her there was cctv footage and I’m almost positive he videod it too

i’ve never seen the video but i have just been reading about it, if someone is capable of assault like that then it isn’t too far fetched to think he could have involvement in a murder. Seems a hell of a lot of people have died around him…

 

[lazydaizy]

Just seen this TLDR it sort of explains the surface of it all

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just seen apparently Corey gamble (kris jenners boyfriend) is dodgy too

 

[stardust1]

Just seen this TLDR it sort of explains the surface of it all

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just seen apparently Corey gamble (kris jenners boyfriend) is dodgy too
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thanks for sharing, that was really helpful. Of course there will be so many others involved. Do you think he will actually go to prison?

isn’t drake supposed to be a weirdo too?

 

[lazydaizy]

thanks for sharing, that was really helpful. Of course there will be so many others involved. Do you think he will actually go to prison?

isn’t drake supposed to be a weirdo too?

He’s currently in prison but I don’t think he’ll do real time. Money talks eh or he’ll get epstein’ed! Yep he was texting Millie Bobbie brown when she was like 14 and there were a few more instances but I’m not sure on what they were, Nicki minaj was tweeting about diddy as if her own husband and brother aren’t literally registered sex offenders seems there’s very few celebs who aren’t somehow involved in dodgy tit!

 

[lazydaizy]

How do I explain to people in my family that I don’t want my child bribed to get what she wants!!! It infuriates me I always think ahead to the future if she wants something and a boy bribes her to do whatever he wants to get it!! Same with consent! If she doesn’t want to do something she doesn’t have to do it but oh no this is a big no apparently

 

[stargirl23]

How do I explain to people in my family that I don’t want my child bribed to get what she wants!!! It infuriates me I always think ahead to the future if she wants something and a boy bribes her to do whatever he wants to get it!! Same with consent! If she doesn’t want to do something she doesn’t have to do it but oh no this is a big no apparently

I’d just tell them if they bribe her they won’t have her and you want her to know from a young age the importance of consent and not having to do anything to please others. Like I hate it when people say to my son oh give us a hug or kiss bye. Like no if he don’t want to he doesn’t have to. Half the time it’s old relatives I’ve only seen a handful of times let alone him

 

[lazydaizy]

I’d just tell them if they bribe her they won’t have her and you want her to know from a young age the importance of consent and not having to do anything to please others. Like I hate it when people say to my son oh give us a hug or kiss bye. Like no if he don’t want to he doesn’t have to. Half the time it’s old relatives I’ve only seen a handful of times let alone him

I’m so non confrontational it’s really hard for me to speak up I always just say no if she doesn’t want to then she doesn’t have to but think I’m gonna need to be more firm i absolutely hate that too!!

 

[stardust1]

@AllTheBest2022 are you feeling any better? X

 

[somepeople23]

Not sure which star it is but could I ask some advice please. Just me popping up again after a tit summer. My son's dad got grandad a supervised visits 2 days a month one a 10 step plan starting at 1 hour then progressing. As well as video calls weekly to try establish a relationship. He misses most of the video calls citing various excuses. Theres been a total of 5 visits and he's been calling me to my child, picking stuff to do my child doesn't like but that he does even though ATM they're only together for 3 hours. And now proceeded to call my child names on a video call today making him cry. I don't even know what to do anymore

 

[stardust1]

Not sure which star it is but could I ask some advice please. Just me popping up again after a tit summer. My son's dad got grandad a supervised visits 2 days a month one a 10 step plan starting at 1 hour then progressing. As well as video calls weekly to try establish a relationship. He misses most of the video calls citing various excuses. Theres been a total of 5 visits and he's been calling me to my child, picking stuff to do my child doesn't like but that he does even though ATM they're only together for 3 hours. And now proceeded to call my child names on a video call today making him cry. I don't even know what to do anymore

It’s @stargirl23 who will know legal sides of things. However if you haven’t already definitely start writing all of this down in a time stamped diary, it may come in useful if you need to take it further x

 

[somepeople23]

It’s @stargirl23 who will know legal sides of things. However if you haven’t already definitely start writing all of this down in a time stamped diary, it may come in useful if you need to take it further x

We already communicate via a parenting app which he protests and refuses to read my messages. Even about GP appointments for our child. Honestly Im lost. Do I stop contact and say we need to go back to court. Do I carry on I hate this i just want to co parent and my child being happy xx

 

[stardust1]

We already communicate via a parenting app which he protests and refuses to read my messages. Even about GP appointments for our child. Honestly Im lost. Do I stop contact and say we need to go back to court. Do I carry on I hate this i just want to co parent and my child being happy xx

don’t do anything that goes against any court orders for now just incase you also end up in trouble. Who’s decision was it to go via court originally? Does he actually have any interest at all in a relationship etc? X

 

[somepeople23]

don’t do anything that goes against any court orders for now just incase you also end up in trouble. Who’s decision was it to go via court originally? Does he actually have any interest at all in a relationship etc? X

He hadnt seen our son for a number of years never asked to see him or even ask about him then last year I got papers. I think his partner at the time made him do it. As they e since split up and he doesn't seem arsed. Court said if we can't do this supervised he has to go with contact centre. I think he thought he'd go to court and get granted everything he wanted which obviously hasn't happened xx

 

[stargirl23]

Not sure which star it is but could I ask some advice please. Just me popping up again after a tit summer. My son's dad got grandad a supervised visits 2 days a month one a 10 step plan starting at 1 hour then progressing. As well as video calls weekly to try establish a relationship. He misses most of the video calls citing various excuses. Theres been a total of 5 visits and he's been calling me to my child, picking stuff to do my child doesn't like but that he does even though ATM they're only together for 3 hours. And now proceeded to call my child names on a video call today making him cry. I don't even know what to do anymore

Definitely keep a diary like said above of all the times a call was due, whether it was on time, late or never happened. Note down how your child felt after, any behavioural changes (courts tend to take a lot more into account if it’s having a negative impact on the child especially emotionally and shown via bad behaviour) do you still have a solicitor or social worker on your end representing you? I’d contact them and let them know the arranged contact with grandad isn’t working and you believe it needs to be revisited/stoped due to it being inconsistent and it leaving your child in tears due to inappropriate language used and name calling your child. Say you weren’t trying to be unreasonable and deny any contact after supervision was allowed 2 days a month however because of everything that’s gone on you no longer feel a relationship with the grandad is in the best interests of your child. I’m so sorry this is happening and I really hope your little one’s ok bless him and you. I hope you’re ok it’s so upsetting having to comfort your child being upset from someone who doesn’t deserve to know them. Hopefully you’re able to put a stop to it so you can prevent him for any further upset xxx

 

[somepeople23]

Definitely keep a diary like said above of all the times a call was due, whether it was on time, late or never happened. Note down how your child felt after, any behavioural changes (courts tend to take a lot more into account if it’s having a negative impact on the child especially emotionally and shown via bad behaviour) do you still have a solicitor or social worker on your end representing you? I’d contact them and let them know the arranged contact with grandad isn’t working and you believe it needs to be revisited/stoped due to it being inconsistent and it leaving your child in tears due to inappropriate language used and name calling your child. Say you weren’t trying to be unreasonable and deny any contact after supervision was allowed 2 days a month however because of everything that’s gone on you no longer feel a relationship with the grandad is in the best interests of your child. I’m so sorry this is happening and I really hope your little one’s ok bless him and you. I hope you’re ok it’s so upsetting having to comfort your child being upset from someone who doesn’t deserve to know them. Hopefully you’re able to put a stop to it so you can prevent him for any further upset xxx

Sorry I wrote that in such a hurry whilst upset Ive made mistakes. It was meant to say my son's dad got supervised visits which is being monitored by the grandad. He's been really good telling me straight away when his own son has been doing wrong. It's my son's own father who has been going on like this I just feel so sorry for my child he's spent the night crying asking why his dad would say that. I'll definitely do all the night and try get the court order changed of something cause this really isn't working. Thank you so much for your help xxx edited to say no nobody we got signed off and haven't spoke to a soul since. The cafcass worker was brilliant. I think it might be worth going to citizens advice tomorrow before the next visit on Saturday xxx

 

[stargirl23]

Sorry I wrote that in such a hurry whilst upset Ive made mistakes. It was meant to say my son's dad got supervised visits which is being monitored by the grandad. He's been really good telling me straight away when his own son has been doing wrong. It's my son's own father who has been going on like this I just feel so sorry for my child he's spent the night crying asking why his dad would say that. I'll definitely do all the night and try get the court order changed of something cause this really isn't working. Thank you so much for your help xxx edited to say no nobody we got signed off and haven't spoke to a soul since. The cafcass worker was brilliant. I think it might be worth going to citizens advice tomorrow before the next visit on Saturday xxx

Oh bless him. I can see why he’s so upset when it’s his own dad I’d go to citizens advice or apply for a court order via government website and say the case was closed so you no longer have involvement but you’d like to apply for a enforcement of the child arrangement order saying it’s being breached by his dad due to no shows or being inappropriate around your son. Say you feel contact isn’t necessary due to the distress it’s causing however if court deem it appropriate to continue contact could it be in a contact centre instead where it’s supervised by professionals so you can ensure your sons not around any inappropriate behaviour or language that will upset him. Then if court do award supervised via contact centre and the behaviour continues or he doesn’t show/causes upset to your son the visits won’t progress to unsupervised and will end instead. Really hope you’re ok, it’s so stressful having to go back through court after thinking it’s over but I know you’re doing the best thing to protect your son xxx

 

[lazydaizy]

I can’t stop laughing at this