Charlotte Louise Taylor #37 Tragedy! When your floor’s all gone & you’ve got no tree it’s tragedy!

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Charl- it’s times like these I wish I had my old job so I can just get one with it.
And yet she then goes and shares another personal post about her grandfather.

As others have said just say you’re taking time off or better yet maybe go back to something like your old job where you don’t feel Pressured to have to share personal details about your life.

and how does she not know anything about what he was like prior to being her grandparent? My grandparents were always sharing stories with me about their childhoods and life before me. Was it because everything has always been about her.

it’s awful loosing a grandparent you love. She should go and take some time out and not use her grandfathers death to keep name dropping Mark, mentioning her birthday and getting in a few prouds.

also if he lived in the same village as her sounds like she didn’t actually see him much.
 
Managed to mention her birthday at least twice in a supposedly heartfelt post about someone else. Get a bloody grip woman. My husbands birthday was actually on the day he buried his grandad. He didn’t mention it..no one did and husband wasn’t arsed as he’s capable of putting the needs and emotions of others before his own as he’s a normal functioning adult.
 
I actually would like to know what her family think. Did she ask permission from her nan/dad/any aunts/uncles before
posting about his passing? Did she check that everyone who needed to know already knew before posting. Does her Nan know that she’s posted a personal photo of her husband to over 50,000 strangers? Part of me thinks that she must have asked but then I can’t imagine asking a grieving widow that because it would be such a crass thing to do.
Her cousins must be rolling their eyes (and possibly be a bit angry) at the way she is trying to monopolise grief and use it for content but of course they won’t want to upset their parents/Nan so will keep it to themselves.
 
Wtf is she talking about trauma?! We had to more or less pull the plug on my mum, she knew she was going to die imminently and still tried to put a brave face on for us. She then took 15 hours to slowly, painfully, horrifically slip away, gasping for each breath while we all had to sit and watch. THAT was traumatic (and I'm sure there's far worse examples than that). She needs to give her head a serious wobble. This is the closest I've come to messaging her and then unfollowing 🙈🙈
 
Gossngiggles said:
I actually would like to know what her family think. Did she ask permission from her nan/dad/any aunts/uncles before
posting about his passing? Did she check that everyone who needed to know already knew before posting. Does her Nan know that she’s posted a personal photo of her husband to over 50,000 strangers? Part of me thinks that she must have asked but then I can’t imagine asking a grieving widow that because it would be such a crass thing to do.
Her cousins must be rolling their eyes (and possibly be a bit angry) at the way she is trying to monopolise grief and use it for content but of course they won’t want to upset their parents/Nan so will keep it to themselves.
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I did have a nose at her brother’s insta. He’s done a very respectful post, just a few lines, that’s all. He seems much more grounded than Charlotte.
 
feefifofum said:
Wtf is she talking about trauma?! We had to more or less pull the plug on my mum, she knew she was going to die imminently and still tried to put a brave face on for us. She then took 15 hours to slowly, painfully, horrifically slip away, gasping for each breath while we all had to sit and watch. THAT was traumatic (and I'm sure there's far worse examples than that). She needs to give her head a serious wobble. This is the closest I've come to messaging her and then unfollowing 🙈🙈
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Aww how traumatic is that! I'm so, so sorry to hear about your mum, thats not a nice way to go at all and sorry for your loss.
 
feefifofum said:
Wtf is she talking about trauma?! We had to more or less pull the plug on my mum, she knew she was going to die imminently and still tried to put a brave face on for us. She then took 15 hours to slowly, painfully, horrifically slip away, gasping for each breath while we all had to sit and watch. THAT was traumatic (and I'm sure there's far worse examples than that). She needs to give her head a serious wobble. This is the closest I've come to messaging her and then unfollowing 🙈🙈
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And we know she wasn’t even there with her grandad when he passed as apparently Mark had to sit down and hold her hand and tell her. 🙃
So not sure what she means by trumatic.
 
I don’t have much family so forgive me if I’m being unfair but why does she need to get flowers from her family?????
Her Nana and Dad I totally get but why her? And why from her Brother and Sis-In-Law (who never visits her) 🙄

Incidentally I had a nosy on her brothers posts from his honeymoon in Vietnam 🇻🇳 which are amazing!!!!! But not once does she comment on any of them!!!!

She’s definitely jealous of him and his lovely wife!!!!
 

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black ripped skinnies said:
What has being chalk and cheese got to do with the loss of a grandparent?
She's so selfish isn't she, her brother came round with flowers for her... like he hasn't also lost a grandparent??? Screams that everyone in that family has to pander and tiptoe around big charl
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I thought that was an odd thing to say too. Is she saying they don't normally get along? Or more so, she doesnt like him much?? That would make complete sense!

No, I don't know why Nikki gave him flowers and a card to give to Charlotte either. Definitely some sort of "keep the peace" gift.
Just like her being invited on the hen do, and bridesmaid at the wedding. I imagine Charlotte is the type to kick off when things don't go her way.
Not in a screaming type way but passive aggressive and off. Definitely petty!
 
I swear to god I need to stop watching her 🙈🙈 she's so underdeveloped emotionally!!! Completely stunted and immature! What effect is she having on those poor kids

why the duck did her brother bring her flowers?! Did she get him some? Did it cross her mind to think of anyone other than herself and her self indulgent wallowing? I can't believe she's still going on and on and on. When my grandparents died I cried when I found out and at the funeral, and I think that was it. Life more or less went on, no time off work, no needing pandered to. I know it's not a competition but she weirdly seems to be trying to make it one 🙈🙈

she needs to get over herself and stop over sharing every rambling thought she has. She obviously clearly rates her writing skills with her little tributes to him. Charl I hate to tell you - people are sad someone you love died but no one really gives a shiny tit about your grandfather and what he did. He is a total stranger and has no impact on their lives at all.

god I think I must be triggered 🙈😂 is this what being triggered is like?!
 
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