nothing shocks me now
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Just been catching up on the wiki as not followed since before she had Jude. My ex reported me to social services maliciously when we split up, I received a letter with an appointment date and time. They did a home visit, checked my kitchen cupboards to make sure I had food in, checked he had toys to play with and asked to see his bedroom. They did not phone me first. I know different areas deal with things differently but I can’t see her just getting phone calls to give her a heads up then close the file. Especially with all the controversy over social services not following things up and failing children. The stuff I have seen is very concerning (much more so than what I was accused of by my ex, he accused me of not feeding him decent meals and always going out and leaving him with anyone who would have him).