Sorry to break it to you Carrie, I actually am not a meanie hater. You were in fact never even on my radar beyond being Tom’s sister and in a few shows here and there, I actually had no opinion of you whatsoever.
Your god awful engagement photos are what lead me here, to then find out you’d been dating less than 6 months, and wanting to see if you’d go through with the wedding kept me here.
What I’m trying to say is, it doesn’t matter to me who you are, you could be anyone, and I’d still think this is a tit show and I’d still think your husband is gross and exhibiting red flag behaviour, and I’d still never believe you are happy with how this is all going.
I’d take my normal, balanced, healthy, loving relationship and going into my marriage with a rock solid foundation over your “not like anyone else”, loving out loud bullshit that you feel the need to ram down people’s throats whilst still harping on about privacy, any and every day of the week for the rest of my life.