It is very disturbing how he tries to come across like this loveable teddy bear, but then also writes those incredibly angry, disrespectful rants on twitter and facebook. I wouldn't trust that at all.
Have read over here before but this thread last night honestly kept me going through a crappy long night - thank you all I haven’t read much since she met this new guy so felt nervous to comment, but I was having these exact thoughts. Spells out a very controlling type of behaviour and as much as I am not at all a fan of her I really hope she can see the red flags before she’s in too deep. I recognise them myself now and don’t have any male influence in my little family life any more, but nights needing tattle to occupy my mind have stemmed from this exact type of love-bomb vs control relationship.