By_gemmabosanko #9 The Hunger Games

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As someone who is in recovery from an ED we LOVE showing our “skinny/unhealthy” bodies purely as we know we will get the “you’re so/too skinny” comments. She knows they will come! Since gaining weight back I got called “healthy” the other day which is a compliment but a person with an ED will take that to mean “you have gained so much weight!”.
Ed minds are dangerous but she clearly LOVES to show off her “poorly” body. And I have seen zero effort of gaining weight from her. So it’s all bollocks
 
Just to say, I’m going through EXACTLY the same right now so I feel you and sending love 🥰 . I’ve actively avoided so many people since I got to weight restored because I don’t want to hear the comments and feel embarrassed they might think I’ve got fat (🤦🏻‍♀️)
Sorry back to Gemma xx
As someone who is in recovery from an ED we LOVE showing our “skinny/unhealthy” bodies purely as we know we will get the “you’re so/too skinny” comments. She knows they will come! Since gaining weight back I got called “healthy” the other day which is a compliment but a person with an ED will take that to mean “you have gained so much weight!”.
Ed minds are dangerous but she clearly LOVES to show off her “poorly” body. And I have seen zero effort of gaining weight from her. So it’s all bollocks
 
Showing on mine
Thank you - so weird, mine says it’s empty x
 
“I rarely work out any more”
JD posts gym selfie with Gemma that very same morning 🙄
 

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No you know what she’s actually full of it ! Why is she posting meals with the calories in it, why is she putting videos up in her underwear? Why is she spending so much money on new dresses if she’s not happy with her size ?! And she’s still okay to travel about with work and holidays yet is so unwell ? No it’s an ED and as someone said above she has loved someone has said that to her ! The comment wasn’t even that bad !!!
 
JD has it on his stories! But removed the woman’s name and praised the golden child for her behavior 😂
He's unprofessional and up her scrawny arse, wouldn't expect anything less from the idiot. I'd be a bit concerned if my trainer posted similar on their business account. Don't see her husband getting involved so why should JD run to her defense. Bet she had a good 6am cry on his lap shoulder this morning.
 
The skinny message was clearly sent by someone who didn’t realise that Gemma would be receiving the message. Perhaps someone had sent Gemma’s page to her and she meant to reply to them. Maybe she just doesn’t understand how social media works 🤷‍♀️ but Gemma is completely aware and that she’s sending a ton of people to message this woman abuse for skinny shaming.

One thing that has always niggled me is why she never discusses why she had the stoma all that time, but talked a lot about her heart issues etc. I suspect she has IBD (inflammatory bowel disease, not the same as IBS) and doesn’t talk about it because it’s just to not glamourous enough for her. She had that stoma for a long time, so probably didn’t have a reversal but instead a j pouch created. The illness she describes could be the jpouch now having active disease.
EDs are common in people with IBD, for a variety of reasons. Someone in my family creates huge spreads of food, lots of baking, insists of feeding everyone but barely eats anything theirself. They’ve had no active disease for over a decade and have every excuse under the sun for why they can’t try to eat either more food or higher calorie food (even though the food they do eat is associated with being harder to digest and more likely to cause symptoms).

Apologies if this has been discussed before- I don’t keep up with her threads!
 
The skinny message was clearly sent by someone who didn’t realise that Gemma would be receiving the message. Perhaps someone had sent Gemma’s page to her and she meant to reply to them. Maybe she just doesn’t understand how social media works 🤷‍♀️ but Gemma is completely aware and that she’s sending a ton of people to message this woman abuse for skinny shaming.

One thing that has always niggled me is why she never discusses why she had the stoma all that time, but talked a lot about her heart issues etc. I suspect she has IBD (inflammatory bowel disease, not the same as IBS) and doesn’t talk about it because it’s just to not glamourous enough for her. She had that stoma for a long time, so probably didn’t have a reversal but instead a j pouch created. The illness she describes could be the jpouch now having active disease.
EDs are common in people with IBD, for a variety of reasons. Someone in my family creates huge spreads of food, lots of baking, insists of feeding everyone but barely eats anything theirself. They’ve had no active disease for over a decade and have every excuse under the sun for why they can’t try to eat either more food or higher calorie food (even though the food they do eat is associated with being harder to digest and more likely to cause symptoms).

Apologies if this has been discussed before- I don’t keep up with her threads!
She had a reversal - the reason she had her stoma so long was a reluctance to put her under anaesthetic due to her heart disease. High protein, no alcohol & during a flare up keto is recommended but she does non of these. It’s very easy to get fixated on what you can’t eat but just as easy to go into ‘duck it depression’ mode with a bag
 
She had a reversal - the reason she had her stoma so long was a reluctance to put her under anaesthetic due to her heart disease. High protein, no alcohol & during a flare up keto is recommended but she does non of these. It’s very easy to get fixated on what you can’t eat but just as easy to go into ‘duck it depression’ mode with a bag

Part of why I wonder if she had a jpouch over reversal is she posted a letter she received from the hospital for a colonoscopy and put “where are they going to put it? Suggesting she didn’t have bowel for them to scope and therefore for the stoma to reverse to.
 
Part of why I wonder if she had a jpouch over reversal is she posted a letter she received from the hospital for a colonoscopy and put “where are they going to put it? Suggesting she didn’t have bowel for them to scope and therefore for the stoma to reverse to.
I haven’t got one but they still do one to check the stump unless you’ve had a full rectal removal 🙂
 
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