Normally a lurker who is stuck trying to get through the last few threads (hard when you are on mat leave with a 7 month old!
) …..
But I mainly just wanted to say, as I think this everytime I watch her - she really is just an humourless, uncultured simpleton isn’t she. Like she just knows nothing about anything not even her favourite thing on earth - food; she just eats basic
witch Yates foods with her cat bum mouth. Another thing that pisses me off is that everytime she drinks from a straw, it looks like she doesnt close her mouth when finished and the drink goes back into the drink having been in her mouth if that makes sense. Makes me ill.
Anyway, I flit between two opinions on the wedding sham and why it was just the two of them. One being they are just selfish, rude bastards who don’t care about anyone else but themselves and who greedily just wanted to spend money on themselves and not even have to consider anyone else. They seem to come across like they didn’t want anyone to feel that they were entitled to come to their wedding and have them pay for a day for guests or let anyone else be so lucky to get to experience that with them and hear their vows aka ‘lovely words’. Like dont flatter yourself anyone even your families were deperate to see you get married - no one cares as much as you make out they do! Also, if people don’t come then no one can have as many opinions on it as Brogan had at every one of Benjis friends weddings she went to.
Or
Brogan desperately wanted the tradish uk wedding but then quickly realised she wouldn’t be able to have the big family and friend filled day she no doubt convinced herself was the only way to have a wedding - as she has no friends and very little family. If she couldn’t have a massive wedding that would make everyone jel (
) because pf how big and lavish it was and with so many guests and friends shpwing up for her (which she expects despite never showing up for anyone but herself, not even Benji) - then I presume after Benjis suggestion to get married alone because hes a tight gir who didnt want to spend any money on anyone but his big gut, you go the complete opposite and pretends its romantic and what you want. An intimate wedding just the two of you because you love each other so much the wedding is just for you both so as to make it more ‘special’ - kinda like an invite only club that everyone wants to go to because they werent invited - except no one else cared but them. The whole thing is just so so sad - like you see each other all day every day, the wedding had no surprises or special romantic touches from each other becauae theyre both too selfish to do that for the other when they know they would get nothing back.
Like if you can’t have a big amazing wedding - then you need to do something ‘different’ so it’s just just ‘like everyone elses wedding’ if that males sense. it has to be something they can talk about, act superior about and be slightly out of the normal - which the setting was and having it just them two - but everything else was just your generic hotel wedding just shitter and sadder.
Also on the Bonnie topic, I just always felt she was more for Brogan - kind of like a special needs dog and Benji wasnt really bothered. He never (when he worked) really seemed that bothered by her whereas Brogan treated her like a help dog. Thats probably something to do with some kind of childhood trauma of narcissistic and uncaring parents but who knows. Although I think once Benji quick work Bonnie became more of a hinderance than company as she now had Benji full time so she wasnt too sad when she passed.
I duno but theyre both so grating and selfish so