I was supposed to comment and then someone mentioned her hair and I remembered I had to book myself a haircut so thanks guys!
This will sound mean - but it isn’t meant to. But I really hope the breakup happens soon. It would do wonders. Sometimes you need to hit rock bottom - actual rock bottom which will be this brogan+ a broken heart to get your act together. She would, with time, feel so much better in her own home. Probably want to go the gym more, put more effort into herself with dates etc.