BowelBro #7 Lord of the lies

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DJ Dicky (wife’s) Rich on the decks!
Yessum! Lisa is always hitting the deck (according to Rich)
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No I don't the letter has been tampered with it all. Completely normal for consultants to refer to each other by their first name. You wouldn't mention every single chemo dose or supportive medication on a clinic letter. That info is stored on the chemotherapy system. If he was referred to you and you needed to know the exact details your pharmacist would get it for you. Have never heard of PRSB. 'Quite depressed' is a much better description than 'suffering emotional distress'.

As much as I don't warm to Richard and his leopard print, from the medical side most of what he has said makes sense. There's a lot of misconceptions on this thread - he should be jaundiced, he should have severe liver pain, steroids aren't used for bowel obstruction. None of these are true. I even think it is possible that someone told him his prognosis could be as short as 3-6 months without treatment . He obviously went on to have chemo and is alive and kicking today.
Yes absolutely. Not all patients with liver mets have jaundice or liver pain. It depends where the mets are in the liver and how they impact the liver. I've known steroids used to reduce bowel inflammation too. No, generally not a patient 'go to', but are used in hospitals and hospice. I just think he's bent the truth that much that its difficult for people to believe anything he says.
 
Yessum! Lisa is always hitting the deck (according to Rich)
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Yes absolutely. Not all patients with liver mets have jaundice or liver pain. It depends where the mets are in the liver and how they impact the liver. I've known steroids used to reduce bowel inflammation too. No, generally not a patient 'go to', but are used in hospitals and hospice. I just think he's bent the truth that much that its difficult for people to believe anything he says.
That’s a wide boy for you.! He’s playing us!
 
I might be wrong but I thought the 3 month prognosis was given after they went into operate and discovered peritoneal metastases, upstaging him from a stage 2 to stage 4? He may well have asked the consultant directly - 'what if I don't have any treatment - how long have I got'' Really not uncommon for patients do do this. I expect this is the figure he is quoting. The average life expectancy for secondary bowel cancer WITH chemo treatment is 2-3 years and he is within this range

Anyhow we will see. I may eat my words. You may all get your books.
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The misconception was that he couldn't possibly have liver metastases because he isn't jaundiced and doesn't have pain. The liver is a remarkable organ. Some people can have a liver full of mets without being jaundiced or having pain. Have seen it plenty of times.

The problem that I have is that I have known him previously and he was a lying, cheating conman then. In my opinion I believe he still is.

If it is as you say and the diagnosis of 3 months was without treatment then why has he not EVER mentioned that?
Why has he constantly lied throughout? Saying weight loss was due to cancer when he has secretly had WLS. Setting up a GFM and recieving money meant to pay for treatment. Selling a non existent AI generated book by the "thousands". Lying about his business where he also ripped the public off. The list goes on but even having the name BowelBro so he could be associated with BowelBabe then using that platform to just flaunt his tacky possession and be a downright nasty vile man.

If he has as you said asked the consultant directly "how long without treatment", he has never once mentioned that the 3 months would of been without treatment so that either didn't happen or he has chosen to lie about it.
 
Another live where Lisa starts crying and Rich stays to talk to people even though everyone was saying to go and be with Lisa as she was upset … such an odd one sided relationship
What a load of bollocks, the message from the nurse!!!

Does he honestly think people are stupid enough to believe that a nurse on an oncology ward would sit down on a patient’s bed and she and another patient WHO IS IN AN ONCOLOGY WARD started crying over a random’s diagnosis??

Get in the sea Rich, you charlatan.

(I know I’m behind and you guys will have this covered but I couldn’t not post about that vom-inducing load of bollocks)
 
He categorically 100% does not have terminal bowel cancer.

Could not agree more. And on that note...

128 days to Christmas! 🎄

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What a load of bollocks, the message from the nurse!!!

Does he honestly think people are stupid enough to believe that a nurse on an oncology ward would sit down on a patient’s bed and she and another patient WHO IS IN AN ONCOLOGY WARD started crying over a random’s diagnosis??

Get in the sea Rich, you charlatan.

(I know I’m behind and you guys will have this covered but I couldn’t not post about that vom-inducing load of bollocks)
Don’t forget the S.U.R.G.E.O.N also spilt tears on Rich’s bed. He was distraught 😭😩😭 distressed and according to Rich, in a ripe state of shock!
 
Here’s the issue for me - everyone’s cancer journey is different, we also all choose to cope in different ways - Fact! But the red flag 🚩 for me with all his current progression/symptoms (lack there of) is he spun the story from the start that it was the worst he was full of tumours, he had the worst kind of cancer etc etc. slow progressing cancer isn’t uncommon, chemo slowing it further happens, being cancer free after treatment happens (I thank my lucky stars daily this is our reality) but his need to embellish and exaggerate has caught up with him…so is it the worst of the worst or is it slow progressing? Does he even have cancer at all - I want to stop reading this thread as it’s time in my life I won’t get back but I’m so confused as to why anyone would spin such a tall, weird tale all across the internet it’s like a crap mini series that I need to watch the final episode to know how it ends #confusedasfuck
 
No I don't the letter has been tampered with it all. Completely normal for consultants to refer to each other by their first name. You wouldn't mention every single chemo dose or supportive medication on a clinic letter. That info is stored on the chemotherapy system. If he was referred to you and you needed to know the exact details your pharmacist would get it for you. Have never heard of PRSB. 'Quite depressed' is a much better description than 'suffering emotional distress'.

As much as I don't warm to Richard and his leopard print, from the medical side most of what he has said makes sense. There's a lot of misconceptions on this thread - he should be jaundiced, he should have severe liver pain, steroids aren't used for bowel obstruction. None of these are true. I even think it is possible that someone told him his prognosis could be as short as 3-6 months without treatment . He obviously went on to have chemo and is alive and kicking today.

The letters could be genuine, yes. Comparing them with clinical letters I’ve received from a private consultant this year, Richard’s do still feel off…but I accept those of you working in this environment will have better knowledge than me...and of course, consultants are human, they can be vague, and even if things are unusual (like the multiple font colours) that is no guarantee they wouldn’t occur.

However…the letters are just one part of a catalogue of signs which paint a picture of someone whose actions and claims are inconsistent and questionable.

1. Registering a limited company ‘Bowel Bro’ on the same day he started chemotherapy treatment for stage four bowel cancer

2. Raising money specifically for treatment and not using it as promised, misleading donors

3. Bragging about wealth with no evidence to back up his claims – the deeds show he doesn’t own the house he lives in, and Companies House records show he frequently creates and dissolves limited companies without filing accounts. Is that financial mismanagement or deliberate concealment of business activities?

4. Buying a luxury item like a Ferrari,after raising funds for treatment - misuse of funds or misrepresentation of need?

5. Aggressive outbursts when questioned or doubted – an indication there’s something to hide?

6. Lying to followers about police investigations in attempt to silence or intimidate the people questioning him

7. Misleading followers by claiming his weight loss is due to cancer when it was the result of gastric sleeve surgery

8. Keeping his PICC line in for months, even after all treatment has ended

9. Claims to be in terrible pain and sleeping for 16+ hours a day due to the effects of cancer and previously chemo, but has completely avoided many of common symptoms and side effects (e.g. jaundice from liver mets, losing hair from chemo etc)

10. Putting his forever home up for sale in the last weeks of his life and giving a mixed answer about their reasons for this when asked by his followers

On Comment Café or Reddit (can't remember which) other people have also spotted that Richard’s NHS letters are printed on white paper. I thought the NHS switched to a cheaper recycled copier paper to save costs and this paper is off-white (this is my experience but I accept could be different at different trusts)

Yes all of these things could be unusual but legit...but what are the chances of them ALL being so?
 
Here’s the issue for me - everyone’s cancer journey is different, we also all choose to cope in different ways - Fact! But the red flag 🚩 for me with all his current progression/symptoms (lack there of) is he spun the story from the start that it was the worst he was full of tumours, he had the worst kind of cancer etc etc. slow progressing cancer isn’t uncommon, chemo slowing it further happens, being cancer free after treatment happens (I thank my lucky stars daily this is our reality) but his need to embellish and exaggerate has caught up with him…so is it the worst of the worst or is it slow progressing? Does he even have cancer at all - I want to stop reading this thread as it’s time in my life I won’t get back but I’m so confused as to why anyone would spin such a tall, weird tale all across the internet it’s like a crap mini series that I need to watch the final episode to know how it ends #confusedasfuck

Well this is what I cannot fathom either...as he was hospitalised with ascites, had more chemotherapy, even with chemotherapy there was significant progression of the disease and he was told to go home and get plans in place because he won't be here by Christmas. And now it's slowed? It just doesn't fit somehow....
 
Why does his followers want to see his clothing? I was on a live a few weeks back and was shocked at how many of em was pretty much begging him to see his clothing? Bloomin heck are they that bored? Imagine begging to see someone’s clothing?
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The rave ffs. Rich rocking up in his Burberry with whistle, white gloves, pic line, fentanyl patch and his sliders ffs?
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Michael Jackson’s greatest hits for a rave? I think rich got pop disco and rave mixed up. Imagine MJ hits at a rave? Pete Tong, next up we have ‘Michael Jackson - Thriller’
It’s even funnier because I doubt he’s joking. I love a bit of 80s music but imagine being a raver and that’s what you’re subjected to 😂

🎶 They’ve been hit by | they’ve been touched by | an unsmooth criminal 🎶
 
It’s even funnier because I doubt he’s joking. I love a bit of 80s music but imagine being a raver and that’s what you’re subjected to 😂

🎶 They’ve been hit by | they’ve been touched by | an unsmooth criminal 🎶
The ravers, gurning and feeling the backs of their heads and then Dick fires up his collection of burn CDs with…





Both wayyy too funny! This thread loves a hearty laugh! Thanks 🙏🏻
 
Could not agree more. And on that note...

128 days to Christmas! 🎄

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Should we do a whip round and get them a Christmas present? Maybe a flaming torch for him to throw into the wardrobe. 😂

I am making a prediction that he will not go to todays rave as he has been reading here and is worried of being spotted out in town by a tattler. Plus he will get far more sympathy as he has oh so been looking forward to it.

I can see it now. Shirtless picture in bed with just slept through the party with a sad face.
 
Should we do a whip round and get them a Christmas present? Maybe a flaming torch for him to throw into the wardrobe. 😂

I am making a prediction that he will not go to todays rave as he has been reading here and is worried of being spotted out in town by a tattler. Plus he will get far more sympathy as he has oh so been looking forward to it.

I can see it now. Shirtless picture in bed with just slept through the party with a sad face.
He’ll be letting down all those ravers looking forward to his classic tunes! 😂
 
The misconception was that he couldn't possibly have liver metastases because he isn't jaundiced and doesn't have pain. The liver is a remarkable organ. Some people can have a liver full of mets without being jaundiced or having pain. Have seen it plenty of times.
This is essentially a gossip forum where what we say doesn’t have to be backed up by actual facts but as Daisy said, people bring their own experiences of cancer, be it themselves having had it or a loved one.

You said there were a lot of misconceptions on this thread so I’d be genuinely interested to know what you think the others are?

If Richard wasn’t the way he is, I doubt anyone would say in isolation that he doesn’t look like he has liver mets, or even his clothes. It’s part of the bigger picture. He’s the epitome of ‘if he told me it was raining outside, I’d still go to the window to check’ and as time goes on more stuff comes out and I think he’s dangerous. Maybe he is telling the truth about his prognosis but there are plenty of other stuff that he’s being shady about imo
 
anyone know what time he’s going to the rave? I wonder when he’s gone whether Bill’s widow will figure out her PC skills and update us over on tittle
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At the rave thing today, the organiser Lee (rich’s best mate) is doing a collection on the door for a friend’s GFM.


So for our big Reverb and Departure Muzik relaunch we wanted to throw a free party!

‘We’ve decided that on the door though we will be collecting towards our great friend Justin Vanezi go fund me to help him fight his battle against cancer! Justin is a close friend and fellow event promoter and he needs to raise important funds to help him get some pioneering treatment that’s so important to his recovery.

Here’s his Go fund me link and we will also have a collection bucket on the door. Can’t wait to see you all on the 19th and let’s give Justin some love and support ❤️

https://gofund.me/8925c45c

This person - based in Northampton - was dx a month after Richard and in that June did a fundraiser for charity to raise £150, which actually raised £1,000+

I’m wondering if this is where Richard began to get ideas about the lucrative side of cancer. Also as Richard claimed on BBC Radio, he was going to donate the money from his own fundraiser to people who needed it- why is he not giving it to Lee’s mate now? Or like £20k of if?
 
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That wardrobe looked like a drug dealers/suppliers wardrobe from 1990's. They would post their chav clothes and trainers on the Internet and wonder why the police came knocking. Proceeds of crime were spent on tat as they couldn't bank it. Why would anyone choose to show strangers the contents of their wardrobe? Rows of identical chav clothes, not one single tasteful item in there. Rows of clothes advertising in big letters/logos the chavvy brands. Unbelievable!
 
That wardrobe looked like a drug dealers/suppliers wardrobe from 1990's. They would post their chav clothes and trainers on the Internet and wonder why the police came knocking. Proceeds of crime were spent on tat as they couldn't bank it. Why would anyone choose to show strangers the contents of their wardrobe? Rows of identical chav clothes, not one single tasteful item in there. Rows of clothes advertising in big letters/logos the chavvy brands. Unbelievable!

It’s tragic isn’t it, the fridge randomly plonked in the middle of it finished me off
 
Cherubs, I’ve managed to get a sneak peek at DJ Rich Conmeister’s play list for today’s rave:

* Bills Bills Bills - Destiny’s Child (#ripbill)
* She Works Hard for the Money - Donna Summer (dedicated to Lisa)
* Suspicion - Elvis Presley (dedicated to us 🥰)
* Dedicated Follower of Fashion - The Kinks
* Fast Car - Tracy Chapman
* Bed of Lies - Nicki Minaj
* Keep on Movin - Five (dedicated to his Jay from Five-esque eyebrow)
* Players - Coi Leray (“cos girls is players too”)
* Playing with Knives - Bizarre Inc (choppity chop chop all the food)
* Dangerous - Michael Jackson
* Wide Boy - Nik Kershaw

Let’s party like it’s 1999 🥳🥳🥳
 
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