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As a lot of others have said - why is she rushing all these milestones with these children! Just relax and let them be little, you will never have this time back again. The weaning so early is one thing and then wanting the baby to use a straw?? Such a strange thing to want them to be able to do. She is the strangest mum l’ve seen on insta… I just don’t understand her at all.
 
I have a Sister In Law like BM. When i was carrying both my Girls (now 8&4) she was pregnant at the same time. My girls are 8 & 10 weeks older than her Boys yet she announced both pregnancies before i did. She was gloating that she was providing the first grandchild in my Husbands family & was very put out when this wasn't the case ! She even said on my second pregnancy that i 'stole her thunder' (she told everyone at 6 weeks & i waited until 20 as i had a few complications & wanted to make sure everything was 100000% safe before i told the world). When i started weaning, so did she, same with potty training. She always wanted to 'compete' which is utterly ridiculous given the age differences & i felt like she never enjoyed the stage her Babies were at, she was always racing ahead to the next milestone. And trying to 'one up' my daughters with her Boys achievements which baffled me.
I sneaked in a lockdown Baby last year & despite the madness of a pandemic, it was so lovely to be able to be able to enjoy my pregnancy & new born Son in our bubble without her telling me that her 6 week old was walking to the kitchen & making his own breakfast or whatever bull she came out with ! This is how Georgie come across with her 'My Kids eat Olives & feed their own bottles' etc
 
From what I remember from when my children were little, every baby group/activity had a token ‘Georgie’ member who made out their child was more advanced than any other child there and their child was always bigger/walking better/eating gourmet food better/reciting Shakespeare in Russian better than any other child.
 
notyourhunhun said:
I have a Sister In Law like BM. When i was carrying both my Girls (now 8&4) she was pregnant at the same time. My girls are 8 & 10 weeks older than her Boys yet she announced both pregnancies before i did. She was gloating that she was providing the first grandchild in my Husbands family & was very put out when this wasn't the case ! She even said on my second pregnancy that i 'stole her thunder' (she told everyone at 6 weeks & i waited until 20 as i had a few complications & wanted to make sure everything was 100000% safe before i told the world). When i started weaning, so did she, same with potty training. She always wanted to 'compete' which is utterly ridiculous given the age differences & i felt like she never enjoyed the stage her Babies were at, she was always racing ahead to the next milestone. And trying to 'one up' my daughters with her Boys achievements which baffled me.
I sneaked in a lockdown Baby last year & despite the madness of a pandemic, it was so lovely to be able to be able to enjoy my pregnancy & new born Son in our bubble without her telling me that her 6 week old was walking to the kitchen & making his own breakfast or whatever bull she came out with ! This is how Georgie come across with her 'My Kids eat Olives & feed their own bottles' etc
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I have one too 🤣🤣 she said the same to me. Both mine are younger than hers she wasn't happy!! Let them off.
 
notyourhunhun said:
I have a Sister In Law like BM. When i was carrying both my Girls (now 8&4) she was pregnant at the same time. My girls are 8 & 10 weeks older than her Boys yet she announced both pregnancies before i did. She was gloating that she was providing the first grandchild in my Husbands family & was very put out when this wasn't the case ! She even said on my second pregnancy that i 'stole her thunder' (she told everyone at 6 weeks & i waited until 20 as i had a few complications & wanted to make sure everything was 100000% safe before i told the world). When i started weaning, so did she, same with potty training. She always wanted to 'compete' which is utterly ridiculous given the age differences & i felt like she never enjoyed the stage her Babies were at, she was always racing ahead to the next milestone. And trying to 'one up' my daughters with her Boys achievements which baffled me.
I sneaked in a lockdown Baby last year & despite the madness of a pandemic, it was so lovely to be able to be able to enjoy my pregnancy & new born Son in our bubble without her telling me that her 6 week old was walking to the kitchen & making his own breakfast or whatever bull she came out with ! This is how Georgie come across with her 'My Kids eat Olives & feed their own bottles' etc
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When l read things like this, l think BM and your sis in law must be very insecure people. I don’t get the desire to rush baby along - yeah l get ‘checking in’ with your mum friends to see what babies doing, One thing l have learnt is that babies will develop at their own speed and let’s face it, none of them turn up to the school gates crawling or still using a bottle do they…. !
I really think BM is such a selfish/career driven woman, why didn’t she just embrace this and not have those children! They seem to just be an accessory!

notyourhunhun said:
I have a Sister In Law like BM. When i was carrying both my Girls (now 8&4) she was pregnant at the same time. My girls are 8 & 10 weeks older than her Boys yet she announced both pregnancies before i did. She was gloating that she was providing the first grandchild in my Husbands family & was very put out when this wasn't the case ! She even said on my second pregnancy that i 'stole her thunder' (she told everyone at 6 weeks & i waited until 20 as i had a few complications & wanted to make sure everything was 100000% safe before i told the world). When i started weaning, so did she, same with potty training. She always wanted to 'compete' which is utterly ridiculous given the age differences & i felt like she never enjoyed the stage her Babies were at, she was always racing ahead to the next milestone. And trying to 'one up' my daughters with her Boys achievements which baffled me.
I sneaked in a lockdown Baby last year & despite the madness of a pandemic, it was so lovely to be able to be able to enjoy my pregnancy & new born Son in our bubble without her telling me that her 6 week old was walking to the kitchen & making his own breakfast or whatever bull she came out with ! This is how Georgie come across with her 'My Kids eat Olives & feed their own bottles' etc
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I also had a baby last year & LOVED the fact lockdown meant that we were in our own bubble. I have a well meaning but very overbearing friend who internally was making me so insecure as a first time mum. The fact she couldn’t come and see us was actually a blessed relief and l managed to find my mum vibe with my husbands support perfectly!!! It was 12 weeks with him on furlough and bliss!
 
I don’t believe she ever really wanted kids but she had to get one up on Scott’s ex wife and keep him keen. Not sure why as he left his ex when E was about 3! I bet she had two to compete and then they can entertain each other when they are older and she can sit back with an espresso martini every afternoon.

She is too selfish to embrace motherhood fully and I believe she was pushed from her job not that she decided to be a stay at home mum. Mind you Scott no longer had to pay for his eldest so that would have helped the finances. They live such a fake posh lifestyle, everything in credit.
 
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