Boss_Mummy_Sale #22 Orders her Builders from Temu

Will BM’s house make it through the winter?

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She CANNOT use the ‘renovation’ as an excuse for not treating the kids to days out during the summer holiday. She is a shit and selfish mother!! No excuse. I am so angry. I hope the mum guilt is really hurting!

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Gennie19 said:
She CANNOT use the ‘renovation’ as an excuse for not treating the kids to days out during the summer holiday. She is a shit and selfish mother!! No excuse. I am so angry. I hope the mum guilt is really hurting!

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I just ran here to say the exact same!!!

there is absolutely no way on this earth she can justify the house stuff for NOT doing anything with her children?! Ok I will let baking slide but they did nothing else! Those poor children! What a horrible lazy mother.
 
I hope she has Mum guilt, but I highly doubt it, because she’s a selfish arsehole.

As soon as she was back from Cyprus, she was in the shops buying cushions. She could have nipped absolutely anywhere & picked up a new bag & bottle for Sienna. Because she can absolutely afford to. I’m sick to fucking death of the “but that’s ok” it doesn’t matter” and “I never have time for myself” posts from this piece of shit excuse of a Mother.

Shove your scotch egg up your hole !!
 
ohdoris said:
I hope she has Mum guilt, but I highly doubt it, because she’s a selfish arsehole.

As soon as she was back from Cyprus, she was in the shops buying cushions. She could have nipped absolutely anywhere & picked up a new bag & bottle for Sienna. Because she can absolutely afford to. I’m sick to fucking death of the “but that’s ok” it doesn’t matter” and “I never have time for myself” posts from this piece of shit excuse of a Mother.

Shove your scotch egg up your hole !!
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The “it’s ok. It doesn’t matter” thing is her needing reassurance from people. When actually, it’s not ok and is does matter you fucking selfish prick. Having a new lunch box etc when you start back at school was THE highlight and best thing to go shopping for as a kid. Well, for me it was 😁 And when I got older it was new stationary etc. She is infuriating.
 
Poppetta83 said:
The “it’s ok. It doesn’t matter” thing is her needing reassurance from people. When actually, it’s not ok and is does matter you fucking selfish prick. Having a new lunch box etc when you start back at school was THE highlight and best thing to go shopping for as a kid. Well, for me it was 😁 And when I got older it was new stationary etc. She is infuriating.
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Honestly, I swear my 6 year old knew what new lunch bag she wanted before last term ended ! ! These things DO matter to them now when they are small. I imagine that BM can’t remember what she had, because her parents were shite too !!
If she didn’t have the money, then I wouldn’t be harsh on her. But she does have the money & she has had the time, she just doesn’t care.
 
Gennie19 said:
She CANNOT use the ‘renovation’ as an excuse for not treating the kids to days out during the summer holiday. She is a shit and selfish mother!! No excuse. I am so angry. I hope the mum guilt is really hurting!

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Mum guilt? No way does she have it because if she did then she had the perfect chance on their 10 day holiday to do things with the kids! They didnt even see a beach or even a little gift shop to buy the usual tat kids buy on holiday! It was an adults holiday with the inconvenience of children there, she does not give a shit, she clearly reads here, but still nothing changes, makes me so angry
 
Agree with everything that's been said. They don't even kick a ball in a park or go on free days out for walks in the woods or time on the beach. All that time spent faffing with ugly kettles, blinds and cheap looking monkey ornaments which could have waited until September if she really needed to have them. Why? Because it was the holidays so the kids come first.
Georgie, who are you trying to kid because we can all see right through it. If you feel that guilty take them to the zoo this weekend after their swimming lessons! As you were 😡
 
FatherJackHackett said:
I actually cannot BELIEVE what i have read about the lunch box and water bottle...She doesn't have to pay a fortune, she could have got them in home bargains ffs... what an actual cunt of a woman
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Thing is, she's never off her phone. A couple of clicks and it's done in seconds online. It's not that she doesn't have the time, it's that she doesn't care.
 
Gennie19 said:
She CANNOT use the ‘renovation’ as an excuse for not treating the kids to days out during the summer holiday. She is a shit and selfish mother!! No excuse. I am so angry. I hope the mum guilt is really hurting!

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She doesn’t need to feel guilty about a lunch box if they had absolutely no money, but that’s not the case. Living where she does and being so close to the beach, parks, farm parks etc etc and having not even left the house with them, FOR THEM, should absolutely be making her feel guilty. She did not need to be there filming the builders 24/7 for Instagram. She also managed to take herself away on holiday by herself in that same time so if it was that necessary that the kids couldn’t have done anything because of the Reno then why did she? She’s had two abroad holidays this summer in the time they’ve been off.
I’m a nurse and work shifts and sometimes when finishing a nightshift I’d get up at 2pm, collect them and we’d get ready and go to the park for a couple of hours before dinner and then me going back out to work again at 7, just so we had special time together and that they were able to have a time where they could tell me what is important to them and that even though I’m working, I’m still part of their world. I wasn’t wanting to have 4 hours sleep, I was stressed, there’s stuff going on that I can’t change but I bloody show up for my kids because I’m one half of the only constant they have in their lives and they deserve to feel that I’m there for them.
She doesn’t care! You make an effort when you want to make an effort, regardless of circumstances. You literally don’t even need money to make children happy especially at that age. We’ve had water fights, games, picnics in parks that are 5 minutes from our house but the kids feel like it’s the best fun, beach mornings, meet ups with my child’s friends and parent so the kids can have some fun together, it doesn’t even have to be all day. Most of what we’ve done is free, but time consuming. That’s what she won’t give them, is her time.
You will always prioritise what you want to. Her priorities don’t lie with those children. She’s had multiple nights out, days dragging sienna round tk maxx saying she’s ungrateful for not being happy, those were the times she had and could have been doing something with them, but she didn’t because it wasn’t about her.
I don’t believe she feels guilty, a narc never feels guilty. I believe she is aware that sienna will have to go back to school and will be comparing herself to what her friends have done and that bothers her ego that other parents will now know. She is responsible that sienna says I done my first ever dance competition this summer but my mum didn’t come because she wanted to go on holiday by herself. She’s posting that because she wants people to reassure her on that post so she can feel validated. It was more important that she sat screaming that she couldn’t even look at her child because he was being a typical toddler and that she got drunk every day, rather than walking to a local park and letting her kids have fun.
There are people who cannot afford holidays or days out and still manage time with kids.
Notice though that her focus is only on a lunchbox and bottle.
 
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Riddlemethis said:
She doesn’t need to feel guilty about a lunch box if they had absolutely no money, but that’s not the case. Living where she does and being so close to the beach, parks, farm parks etc etc and having not even left the house with them, FOR THEM, should absolutely be making her feel guilty. She did not need to be there filming the builders 24/7 for Instagram. She also managed to take herself away on holiday by herself in that same time so if it was that necessary that the kids couldn’t have done anything because of the Reno then why did she? She’s had two abroad holidays this summer in the time they’ve been off.
I’m a nurse and work shifts and sometimes when finishing a nightshift I’d get up at 2pm, collect them and we’d get ready and go to the park for a couple of hours before dinner and then me going back out to work again at 7, just so we had special time together and that they were able to have a time where they could tell me what is important to them and that even though I’m working, I’m still part of their world. I wasn’t wanting to have 4 hours sleep, I was stressed, there’s stuff going on that I can’t change but I bloody show up for my kids because I’m one half of the only constant they have in their lives and they deserve to feel that I’m there for them.
She doesn’t care! You make an effort when you want to make an effort, regardless of circumstances. You literally don’t even need money to make children happy especially at that age. We’ve had water fights, games, picnics in parks that are 5 minutes from our house but the kids feel like it’s the best fun, beach mornings, meet ups with my child’s friends and parent so the kids can have some fun together, it doesn’t even have to be all day. Most of what we’ve done is free, but time consuming. That’s what she won’t give them, is her time.
You will always prioritise what you want to. Her priorities don’t lie with those children. She’s had multiple nights out, days dragging sienna round tk maxx saying she’s ungrateful for not being happy, those were the times she had and could have been doing something with them, but she didn’t because it wasn’t about her.
I don’t believe she feels guilty, a narc never feels guilty. I believe she is aware that sienna will have to go back to school and will be comparing herself to what her friends have done and that bothers her ego that other parents will now know. She is responsible that sienna says I done my first ever dance competition this summer but my mum didn’t come because she wanted to go on holiday by herself. She’s posting that because she wants people to reassure her on that post so she can feel validated. It was more important that she sat screaming that she couldn’t even look at her child because he was being a typical toddler and that she got drunk every day, rather than walking to a local park and letting her kids have fun.
There are people who cannot afford holidays or days out and still manage time with kids.
Notice though that her focus is only on a lunchbox and bottle.
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Bloody brilliant ♥️

 
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