Bex Wolfnsunflowers #7 Bex admits some mistakes were made in terms of allocating funds

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She thinks she's into debauchery because she's a dirrrty grrrrrl

But actually she's just a dirty girl.

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Jelly Bean said:
She wants to have it all ways doesn't she? Best mother ever with independent happy child who can take instruction easily.
But taking benefits for child who requires the maximum level of DLA.
And I presume this is aimed at us. Isn't everything?

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I don't get the 'traumatised' by school thing. Nor the jumping through hoops. In my experience, school is the best and fastest way a child with SEN can access the support they need, including referrals to outside professionals. And children don't need to jump through hoops for that, the system very much puts the child at the centre, once an EHCP is in place (which I presume, her son as a high needs DLA child, would have no issue getting...). As adults we have to jump through hoops to get support for ourselves. But that doesn't tend to be the case for children. If she let him attend school for more than 5 minutes, perhaps she'd know that. It's such a shame for him, there's so much he's missing out on 🙁.
 
Here's one thing I don't get. If your child needs so much constant supervision/care they receive the high level of DLA, would you not be grateful for them to be cared for at school? Would that break in your day from caring not be welcome?

Not in a 'glad to be rid of them' kind of way - I'm just recognising (from experience) that high-level care is quite frankly exhausting and a few hours of break from that, even just to clean up a bit or have a coffee, is a godsend.
 
Hold my beans said:
Has she ever tried to kiddo into a specialised school? One with teaching and support staff with years of experience helping children who are genuinely awarded high rate DLA? Staff with expertise in teaching life skills that even the most well meaning parents don't have?
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And staff that might pick up on things that you don't and can refer your child to receive support for that/put support in place in school. Its easy for parents to miss issues because they are just the norm for you and your child. Especially when being the parent of one child, you've no other experience or anything to really compare to.
 
I was actually thinking about Rebecca Kitchen who stole £6,000 this week.

I was thinking about her manky sex club thing. I know she has previously talked about self harm. And she hasn’t done it in years. Anyone else think the sex clubs are a form of self harm? She’s not causing herself pain but is having others do the harming for her. Like the electrocution and all that stuff.

Outsourcing her self harm to others whilst using “kink” to hide the fact that it’s just a different type of self harm.
 
didisaythatoutloudoops said:
Here's one thing I don't get. If your child needs so much constant supervision/care they receive the high level of DLA, would you not be grateful for them to be cared for at school? Would that break in your day from caring not be welcome?


Not in a 'glad to be rid of them' kind of way - I'm just recognising (from experience) that high-level care is quite frankly exhausting and a few hours of break from that, even just to clean up a bit or have a coffee, is a godsend.
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You would think so if his needs are that high. I’m very mindful when I speak to the parents of the people with LD I work as a carer b for, that I’m trained for this. The parents are grateful for the respite our centre gives and the guys that come have a fun and productive day. Surely she’d jump at the chance of a little respite provided by highly trained pros?


ETA: much like SarahJay, she is the type the RW point to when they call out benefit cheats.
 
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