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Isn’t it funny how she wants to work when her kids are babies but yet when Oscar was a little older and maybe wasn’t so difficult she wanted to stay at home?👀 I don’t know many mums who would willingly want to go out and work when their baby is only what 3 months old?
 
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Isn’t it funny how she wants to work when her kids are babies but yet when Oscar was a little older and maybe wasn’t so difficult she wanted to stay at home?👀 I don’t know many mums who would willingly want to go out and work when their baby is only what 3 months old?
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Maybe she was making more from TT back then I know her views were alot better. Plus she was living with mummy and daddy still so didn't have as much responsibility. But your right the baby is sooo young I'm really surprised she got a job too
 
I had PND with my first and I most definitely didn’t feel up to having my nails and eyelashes done or makeup. Tik tok wasnt around then either, we had “beebo” 😂 but again didn’t feel up to posing and filming myself
 
I also had pnd with my first and I only knew the difference from having my second, I know it’s one those things that NEED more light and brought up more often and maybe a little more push towards healthcare and so on to make it more okay to not be okay sort of thing but I also find it a bit attention seeking on a platform as public as that (she knows how bad internet is if she’s not uploading her kids on) so why upload a video (she’s probably not even sat down and spoke to her bf or family for help) but her platform of followers have to see her in tears? I dunno I feel there is other ways before publicity.

I’ve honestly never felt the need or understood why people video themselves crying for strangers to watch

Also can I just say I think this time around having a baby with her now 5 year old and moving out with someone she’s only known for a year It’s HIT her hard. What a change in videos, I only followed her to see the hauls haha I used to enjoy watching what crap she’s bought from home bargains and so on: but wow what a CHANGE maybe she’s been hit hard lol it’s realistic side now to parenting lol and the fact she doesn’t have a house full of people helping out taking turns and so on.

she said she did it all herself and what not but if she wanted bath she’ll go in whenever if she wanted this and that one of her family will of watched Oscar. I’ve never understood her thought process and the fact she hides allot information/changes

I do feel awful she has pnd don’t get me wrong but I just feel like she’s been hit hard with how life has turned out to be
 
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I don’t know if she has pnd or not im not a professional but, I had depression throughout my pregnancy had perinatal support up until my child was 6 months. And it was tough. Anti depressants were my life. Looking back I feel so bad I barely did anything with my newborn baby, we had constant lay ins I pretty much stayed in my pjs most days and only went out if needed, make up and brushing my hair I didn’t end think about, but I didn’t the support she has. It was a lonely time. But, I started going baby/toddler groups church based ones most of the people were older it made it seem more bearable (I know that may sound strange) as soon as I saw my child enjoying it I kept going even if I didn’t want to that day. She says she had pnd with Oscar and maybe she did, I know her relationship ended and she was a single mum but she had her whole family behind her. Her older TikToks she used to go for night time drives alone, meet her friends without worrying about a sitter there was always someone to watch him. In a year she has met someone had a baby and moved 3 times (and even this new place doesn’t seem very legit maybe that’s causing her stress), of course that will cause some kind of mental health issue. She hasn’t helped herself. Her life has changed dramatically. I would never post crying videos or photos though, I just don’t get that.
 
Am I hearing this right? She's a got a job?

In a few months she'll be making videos about how hard life is now that shes gone back to work soooo soon after having her baby. Wake up Becky. If you had stayed at your old job you'd receive mat pay, which would allow you precious time off with your child, instead now you're in the real world you've finally realized that bills need to be paid....
 
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