Beckyhomesweethome #67 Welcome to the world baby Manny, time to get those discount codes for Nanny

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Wow....just wow. Her death conversation this morning....

Maybe she realies that life isn't all about gifted things or shopping or fake botox looking faces.
Imagine how it must've felt beggy whwn people lost their families during covid and never got chance to write out things in a book?
And you were more bothered about sunning yourself crispy and building a summer house in record time.......😡😡😡
 
🤦🏻‍♀️ this mornings stories 🙄 I understand what she's trying to say but she comes across so insincere. She honestly can't finish a sentence. She starts out talking about how her dad's death and Jason's accident has affected her but turned into a shopping trip. I mean within a hour she's ordered a book off amazon about death. It also sounds like she'd been happy to pop her clogs in BM as long as she's happy and Brooke gets left her Christmas decorations. Honestly fellow tattlers what do you think. I've been through loss as I'm sure many of you have but never at one point did I think about what that person had left me. All I wanted is them here with me. What a sad little existence
 
Why not write a will and do it properly. In my will I’ve left letters to loved ones and my wishes separate from the legal stuff such as sentimental items
She’s not bothered by her dad, more about Jayson and that her wallet wouldn’t there anymore
Also them books are aimed at the USA market and say attorneys etc (will confuse her)
 
I’ve never known someone say so much but so little at the same time!🤯
I was expecting her to follow up after saying about her dad and Jason that she’s going to enjoy life more with her family and loved ones. Plan more days out/weekends away with her grandchildren/parents/sisters etc I mean she much feel some regret for not seeing and spending time with her dad, the pic she used in the real was from her 40th 🤷🏻‍♀️
But no so jumps from one thing to another,I do agree as a a nation we don’t talk about our final wishes enough and it is something that we all should do.
A funeral plan of what music, clothes to be laid to rest in etc yes but no need to rush out and buy a book to do so, so you’re not worrying over who gets your home bargains gonks ffs!
Even after the death she’s encountered over the past few years she will NEVER change, Jason clearly has hobbies and interests he gets real pleasure from, beggy has none apart from endless shopping for pointless things.
I would say I feel sorry for her but I don’t not in the slightest, her days are filled with meaningless things as is her life.
 
I appreciate she can't show pics of Eliza, but she shows nothing.
No paintings or drawings, no handprints or little bits she's made ( Beggy said she's into crafts)
I don't show my grandchildren on social media but I do show things they've made, certificates they've achieved, football trophies they've won, birthday cards they've made me etc etc.
She has no sign of any garden toys either.
I wonder what little Eliza can do when she goes to Nanny's house.
 
GimmeGimmeGimme said:
I appreciate she can't show pics of Eliza, but she shows nothing.
No paintings or drawings, no handprints or little bits she's made ( Beggy said she's into crafts)
I don't show my grandchildren on social media but I do show things they've made, certificates they've achieved, football trophies they've won, birthday cards they've made me etc etc.
She has no sign of any garden toys either.
I wonder what little Eliza can do when she goes to Nanny's house.
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Exactly this! She shows nothing of her, no trace at all and here is manny on his what? 3rd or 4th grid post dedicated just to him and how he’s changed their lives. If I was Mac, I’d give her exactly what she’s asking for, she wouldn’t have anything to do with Eliza and can devote all her nanny time to manny
 
GimmeGimmeGimme said:
I appreciate she can't show pics of Eliza, but she shows nothing.
No paintings or drawings, no handprints or little bits she's made ( Beggy said she's into crafts)
I don't show my grandchildren on social media but I do show things they've made, certificates they've achieved, football trophies they've won, birthday cards they've made me etc etc.
She has no sign of any garden toys either.
I wonder what little Eliza can do when she goes to Nanny's house.
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Exactly this. My sister doesn’t want her kids being shown on the internet until they decide if they want to or not. That’s perfectly understandable, I just make the most of showing off all the drawings and ‘presents’ they make for Auntie Shameless Horse because I love showing off our little relationships without compromising their privacy.
 
One of the most important things is to free those left behind from feeling obliged to take on and keep all your ‘stuff’. Take it from someone who knows. Sentimental items, yes. But everything? No. People have their own ‘stuff’ they chose themselves.

Also, of course she is most concerned about her stuff, because it holds so much value to her.
 
Mutley98 said:
Why not write a will and do it properly. In my will I’ve left letters to loved ones and my wishes separate from the legal stuff such as sentimental items
She’s not bothered by her dad, more about Jayson and that her wallet wouldn’t there anymore
Also them books are aimed at the USA market and say attorneys etc (will confuse her)
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I was thinking the same...at her age she should have a will anyway, most people should. I've had one from age 18 and just change it when kids and divorce came along. My mum has letters of wishes in her will to give to loved ones. Beggy is making out she's only just realised this stuff is important, or perhaps more important that #ads and shopping 24/7.

Glad she's having a bit of realisation of the stuff that matters in life but her stories this morning were weird they way she spoke 🥴
 
Each to their own, but I think they are bloody awful.
The way she just dropped the jeans on the floor too, not paid for them so doesn't care.
So many of the 'swing' dresses, is that a uniform when she goes swinging????
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Did she just say Pacifically instead of specifically???
Can't quite catch it!!!
 

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