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She seems a sweet girl, I don’t really know what the accent is like where she lives, but I suppose making it more pronounced may make her stand out a bit more. No shade to her, but I’d love to know how she got a council house in 3 months?? From what I could tell they both had a room at her mums. I’m sharing with my 8 year old and have been bidding for 6 years. It’s a nightmare 😫
 
She was living at her mum's when she had Darcey cos she went viral for the cloud themed nursery she did and then she moved in with her dad and was doing a lemon themed bedroom but something must have kicked off cos next thing she's in her mum's front room before they got the council house which they were able to do up before moving into. I do like her style/taste but I think she's been lucky to have a good support system tbh cos the amount she spends isn't realistic for someone in her situation.
 
She was living at her mum's when she had Darcey cos she went viral for the cloud themed nursery she did and then she moved in with her dad and was doing a lemon themed bedroom but something must have kicked off cos next thing she's in her mum's front room before they got the council house which they were able to do up before moving into. I do like her style/taste but I think she's been lucky to have a good support system tbh cos the amount she spends isn't realistic for someone in her situation.
Yeah deffo she said she doesn’t have contact with her dad anymore
 
I think she’s really sweet and seems like a great mum but I’m kind of shocked how much of their private life she shows online…? I don’t see many other mumfluencers videos tbf but do we really need to see her three year olds birthday party, shove a camera in her daughters face during her new bedroom ‘reveal’, filming her grandad with dementia etc. I feel like she gives away so much of her private life it would probably be quite easy to figure out where they live given how much of their house she shows etc… just kind of shocked she’s not seemingly done any critical thinking about whether it’s ok to do this with children who can’t consent. But she’s probably tamer than a lot of other mum tiktokers??
 
I really like her but she put a story on insta where D mouth was wide open up close and I messaged her warning about what can be done with that type of image and she ignored it so tbh she seems like the rest and doesn’t care for safeguarding id be physically sick if I found out my child’s pics could be used/edited in that way.
 
I do like some of her content and she seems nice enough but little things she does annoy me. The way she has decorated Darcie’s room is basically for her own taste! What little girl really gives a duck about cowboy boots, cherries and leopard print? She would probably prefer a peppa pig or bluey themed room 😂 also noticed she was selling PJs on her Vinted that she got for free and was advertising on Tiktok shop 🙄 and the fact she has been gifted a whole brand new bed just pisses me off.
 
I think she's very naive tbh, she seems to imply that having a baby young means she's had to struggle and overcome loads but there's little sign of that on her social media. None of the young mums I know have been as fortunate as her or have the seemingly constant influx of new stuff. She got the council house really quickly and was able to stay in her mum's whilst renovating it.
 
I really like her but she put a story on insta where D mouth was wide open up close and I messaged her warning about what can be done with that type of image and she ignored it so tbh she seems like the rest and doesn’t care for safeguarding id be physically sick if I found out my child’s pics could be used/edited in that way.

update she’s since blocked me 🥴 honestly shocked at that tbh
 
I'm not implying you can't have a nice home/ things if you have a council home. But she seems to spend so much money. Probably more money than those that work full time.

I know it is perhaps not ideal living with your mum, when you have a young child. But at the end of the day, it was a safe place. Far safer than those having to live in B&B's/ hostels.

I had a look at her vinted but I think her prices are very expensive for vinted.
 
Never in a million years do I buy she actually talks like that in real life! Also don't know how someone living in a council house with a young child can afford to get a tattoo that takes 7 hours to complete! Ridiculous idea unless you have plenty of disposable income to do what you like. Think that would come to around a grand, min £800. Would never spend that on myself right now and I'm in dual full-time income couple, both with professional jobs.
 
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Never in a million years do I buy she actually talks like that in real life! Also don't know how someone living in a council house with a young child can afford to get a tattoo that takes 7 hours to complete! Ridiculous idea unless you have plenty of disposable income to do what you like. Think that would come to around a grand, min £800. Would never spend that on myself right now and I'm in dual full-time income couple, both with professional jobs.
She definitely puts on her accent! Its such a shame because she used to be so likeable but like all “influencers” they get a bigger platform and end up detached from reality.
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She definitely puts on her accent! Its such a shame because she used to be so likeable but like all “influencers” they get a bigger platform and end up detached from reality.
Also I remember around new years one of her goals was to be out of debt which judging by the way she spends hasn't happened! Bet a lot of what she gets is gifted or Klarna.
 
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