WallFly
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There are a few people defending Jessica's bad behaviours ...and as an autism mom myself ...autism is not a get out of jail free card...especially when bad behaviours are intentional for attention , out of anger, or retaliation.
There is a HUGE difference between deliberate defiance because of a tantrum than out of control over stimulated and having a melt down.
Tantrums are intentional to get their way...
Melt downs are uncontrollable ...over stimulated , scared, unable to cope with a situation .
Jessica is extremely verbal and has zero problem saying what she wants, likes and hates.
She has extreme anger issues and because there are no professionals in her life to assist with education, behaviours etc.....Val let's her run the roost.
Jessica is unlikeable, she's violent , she hits, spits, yells, is verbally abusive , threatens and as Val says...when she throws her head back she means business! She even intentionally pees in her pants and on the floor when she's mad.
None of those behaviours are meltdowns...those are tantrums because she wants 16 nuggets for breakfast, she doesn't want to share , she doesn't want her hair brushed, she doesn't want to sleep in her own bed...etc..
Jessica is extremely mouthy and bossy.....and gets angry instantly when she doesn't get HER way.
This is why she was let go from her assigned work place, kicked out of school, kicked off the bus.
Jessica is rude, selfish and greedy...with zero manners and behaves like a feral brat.
That is not autism ..... That is lazy parenting by a woman who finds it easier to just give Jessica whatever she wants to keep the peace instead of teaching her how to properly behave.
Jessica knows hitting hurts and is wrong ...she knows right from wrong ...yes it's Vals fault for never correcting her or having consequences ...instead Jessica is bribed with food, cake, Disney, Sundays.....
Yes Jessica is very unlikable ....But autism is not the reason why ....Val. Is.
There is a HUGE difference between deliberate defiance because of a tantrum than out of control over stimulated and having a melt down.
Tantrums are intentional to get their way...
Melt downs are uncontrollable ...over stimulated , scared, unable to cope with a situation .
Jessica is extremely verbal and has zero problem saying what she wants, likes and hates.
She has extreme anger issues and because there are no professionals in her life to assist with education, behaviours etc.....Val let's her run the roost.
Jessica is unlikeable, she's violent , she hits, spits, yells, is verbally abusive , threatens and as Val says...when she throws her head back she means business! She even intentionally pees in her pants and on the floor when she's mad.
None of those behaviours are meltdowns...those are tantrums because she wants 16 nuggets for breakfast, she doesn't want to share , she doesn't want her hair brushed, she doesn't want to sleep in her own bed...etc..
Jessica is extremely mouthy and bossy.....and gets angry instantly when she doesn't get HER way.
This is why she was let go from her assigned work place, kicked out of school, kicked off the bus.
Jessica is rude, selfish and greedy...with zero manners and behaves like a feral brat.
That is not autism ..... That is lazy parenting by a woman who finds it easier to just give Jessica whatever she wants to keep the peace instead of teaching her how to properly behave.
Jessica knows hitting hurts and is wrong ...she knows right from wrong ...yes it's Vals fault for never correcting her or having consequences ...instead Jessica is bribed with food, cake, Disney, Sundays.....
Yes Jessica is very unlikable ....But autism is not the reason why ....Val. Is.