Why must they always take the lazy way out?? She’s THREE for fucks sake, put the kid in a bed and stop being so bleeping lazy! It’s going to be even more dangerous for her climbing out when she can’t use her legs. Cot instructions are to stop using them when their chests reach the rail or climbing out. We personally ignore the chest one because my just 2yo loves her cot and is nowhere near able to climb, but if she even tried to put her leg over she’d be out immediately.
Here’s an idea Spesh, take back your downstairs bedroom. Give Mila your upstairs bedroom by herself so she can have a decent night sleep for once. You and Durty sleep downstairs in your old bedroom where your two young kids who can’t sleep through the night are in ear shot and don’t climb stairs in the dark MOTN. When your kids can all sleep independently in their old beds switch back with Mila. Or don’t and let the poor kid get some rest and lose the under eye bags. Your little content babies deserve better.