Ashley James #9 All About Ashley

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What the actual duck is she on!!!! God I am so glad she blocked me because I just don’t have the mental capacity to watch her stories. Those 2 screenshots are enough for me for one day. If you can report her, do it. ‘Having to drive him here, there, and everywhere’. Does she want money for fuel from him or something? Does she want him to repay her in doing chores? He’s a bleeping 1 year old. duck me, you’re a bleeping parent. Who is she trying to kid, saying ‘I feel so bad having him in childcare’ then ‘I can’t wait to get him back to the childminder’ 🤮 She literally won’t do anything for that child. Cretin!
 
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What exactly has she struggled with childcare wise?!

School holidays for us is meticulously planning who has annual leave when, when the boys can go to grandparents / day trips with God parents etc as our annual leave only stretches so far.

She essentially works from home and puts Alf on a screen - hardly a struggle.
 
She really thinks what she has to say is more important than following the law. I looked and you have to have the licence plate number to report online and doesn’t look like Essex police have ability to report online 😡

Also- this is why I think she’s actually really thick. Not knowing if it’s normal for a childminders to be shut during holidays. She clearly hasnt researched anything other than where’s the closest place to her. Clearly hasn’t researched into nurseries and what the difference between childminders and nursery is etc. nursery is a much better option for a working mother as they don’t close for holidays. Would be better for Alf too as he would actually be fed proper meals by them, not whatever Ashley has packed for him (grated cheese, watermelon and a pouch)
 
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She really thinks what she has to say is more important than following the law. I looked and you have to have the licence plate number to report online and doesn’t look like Essex police have ability to report online 😡

Also- this is why I think she’s actually really thick. Not knowing if it’s normal for a childminders to be shut during holidays. She clearly hasnt researched anything other than where’s the closest place to her. Clearly hasn’t researched into nurseries and what the difference between childminders and nursery is etc. nursery is a much better option for a working mother as they don’t close for holidays. Would be better for Alf too as he would actually be fed proper meals by them, not whatever Ashley has packed for him (grated cheese, watermelon and a pouch)
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She wanted the cheapest option too. She wouldn’t want to spend money on Alf.
 
ketchupmayo17 said:
She really thinks what she has to say is more important than following the law. I looked and you have to have the licence plate number to report online and doesn’t look like Essex police have ability to report online 😡

Also- this is why I think she’s actually really thick. Not knowing if it’s normal for a childminders to be shut during holidays. She clearly hasnt researched anything other than where’s the closest place to her. Clearly hasn’t researched into nurseries and what the difference between childminders and nursery is etc. nursery is a much better option for a working mother as they don’t close for holidays. Would be better for Alf too as he would actually be fed proper meals by them, not whatever Ashley has packed for him (grated cheese, watermelon and a pouch)
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childminders are cheaper
 
Oh Ashley, ffs, stop eye bleeping yourself you just look tragic
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She looks SO different! This can’t all be just Botox surely?
she doesn’t have any of the tiredness mums show, even when their children are sleeping through the night, just shows she really doesn’t get run ragged like a normal mother!!
 

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I cannot believe that she is trying to be relatable saying she struggles with childcare LOLLLLL Try both working 50 hour weeks, unable to afford full time childcare, no relatives to have the children ... SHE DOESNT HAVE A CLUE


Surely the benefits of a job like hers (or lack of) is the flexibility of being there for your child!
 
I’m fortunate enough to not have to go back once my maternity leave is up but if I was going back to my demanding office job and Ashley was trying to compare hers it would really aggravate me. Her life is not the ‘juggle’ most working parents/mums have to manage at all. Her job can be done whenever she decides, she gets the opportunity to be so flexible and work a lot less hours than the average person.

It’s made me feel so sad that someone’s pointed out she never spends a day with him on her own 😭
 
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I’m fortunate enough to not have to go back once my maternity leave is up but if I was going back to my demanding office job and Ashley was trying to compare hers it would really aggravate me. Her life is not the ‘juggle’ most working parents/mums have to manage at all. Her job can be done whenever she decides, she gets the opportunity to be so flexible and work a lot less hours than the average person.

It’s made me feel so sad that someone’s pointed out she never spends a day with him on her own 😭
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I go back in 4 months when he'll be 7 months to full time work (have no other choice) so I think her post just REALLY wound me up and I'm probably projecting so I apologise but who does she think she is?!?!? So happy for you that you get to stay off though! ❤
 
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