Ashley James #5 When can his nana come and parent my kid? Need to strip off for my next vid.

[DoctorFlocci]

She doesn’t have big boobs anymore just clothes that don’t fit

Ashley would like you to know she is still an F cup. She has had to feign illiteracy in order to show the label & therefore, her bra size.
“I don’t know the brand…” it’s Berlei you twit!!!

Also: that dress is £169 for pure polyester, what a rip off & a bit on the short side for a wedding imo.

 

[Ss-ldn]

So the grandparents have driven 5 hours round trip to pick Alf up so they could have a night alone. Totally speculating here but the fact the grandparents do so much in regards to giving them some time alone makes me think there is trouble in paradise and they are trying to help them reconnect. My parents are down the road and absolutely amazing but they’re not offering to drive hours so that me and my husband can have yet another date night. If they thought/knew we were having relationship issues they definitely would though and they’d be offering to have the kids much more often!

I think it’s Tommy’s parents who live nearby rather than hers (who she’s brazenly trying to convince to move nearer to her).

I reckon she’s keen to TTC again but will probably pretend it’s all a big surprise when it happens

 

[ToolaRoola]

So the grandparents have driven 5 hours round trip to pick Alf up so they could have a night alone. Totally speculating here but the fact the grandparents do so much in regards to giving them some time alone makes me think there is trouble in paradise and they are trying to help them reconnect. My parents are down the road and absolutely amazing but they’re not offering to drive hours so that me and my husband can have yet another date night. If they thought/knew we were having relationship issues they definitely would though and they’d be offering to have the kids much more often!

Tommy's parents live in Essex. I think they're happy to have him as they know he'll get a decent meal and some attention.

 

[MrsRS]

Yeah I thought they went and collected Alf from soho farmhouse no? May have that wrong though!

 

[ToolaRoola]

So the last few weeks she's had:
- 2x weekends in France
- Weekend in Marbella
- Tommy's mum over to help when Tommy was away
- Her parents at hers for 2 weekends
- Soho Farm weekend

Then sending him to childminders M-T, she must only spend about 24hrs in a whole week with her son.

 

[Cariad]

Ashley would like you to know she is still an F cup. She has had to feign illiteracy in order to show the label & therefore, her bra size.
“I don’t know the brand…” it’s Berlei you twit!!!

Also: that dress is £169 for pure polyester, what a rip off & a bit on the short side for a wedding imo.

Wouldn't have thought that appropriate dress for a wedding in Oxfordshire!

 

[ToolaRoola]

Yeah I thought they went and collected Alf from soho farmhouse no? May have that wrong though!

I dunno. I assumed from her story that they were in Essex when they were with the horse then her and Tommy left later to go to the farmhouse place?

 

[MrsRS]

I dunno. I assumed from her story that they were in Essex when they were with the horse then her and Tommy left later to go to the farmhouse place?

Makes more sense

 

[Rainbow1]

Ashley would like you to know she is still an F cup. She has had to feign illiteracy in order to show the label & therefore, her bra size.
“I don’t know the brand…” it’s Berlei you twit!!!

Also: that dress is £169 for pure polyester, what a rip off & a bit on the short side for a wedding imo.

this really annoyed me! Don’t know the brand even though it’s literally ON the label

plus I don’t know who she’s trying to convince with the whole big boob thing… they look very averagely sized now, especially in that dress today, she kept saying you don’t need a bra but clearly she did as it looked very unflattering gave her no shape there at all!

So the last few weeks she's had:
- 2x weekends in France
- Weekend in Marbella
- Tommy's mum over to help when Tommy was away
- Her parents at hers for 2 weekends
- Soho Farm weekend

Then sending him to childminders M-T, she must only spend about 24hrs in a whole week with her son.

She mentioned a few days ago she did 4 days childcare… it wasn’t clear if she meant she had Alf for 4 days or he was at childminders for 4 days
It’s clear now it’s the latter and only has him 1 day a week!
Then on weekends as you say it’s grandparents etc
No wonder now she loves the time now he’s older… as she never bloody has him!

 

[ToolaRoola]

Makes more sense

This is Ashley - I wouldn't be shocked if she expected them to do that drive just for a child free night

 

[potatoface431]

She literally just has him Friday then most weekends palms him off to grandparents. Unfuckingbelievable really isn’t it.

 

[Proseccofiend2022]

She literally just has him Friday then most weekends palms him off to grandparents. Unfuckingbelievable really isn’t it.

I'm not an Ashley fan at all. I find her completely suffocating, insufferable and so 'woooah is me' BUT I find comments like this and others about how many times she has Alf quite annoying. I work full time, my daughter is 2 days older than Alf. She's with a childminder 4 days a week and then my MIL 1 day a week. Sometimes we have events and then I can not see her for another day or 2 given where that event is etc... doesn't make us bad parents, doesn't make her neglected. I think life is important to be enjoyed both as a parent and having your own time. Ashley should be judged for A LOT of things, but I don't think how often she 'spends time' with Alf should be one of them.

 

[SwizzleMalarkey]

I'm not an Ashley fan at all. I find her completely suffocating, insufferable and so 'woooah is me' BUT I find comments like this and others about how many times she has Alf quite annoying. I work full time, my daughter is 2 days older than Alf. She's with a childminder 4 days a week and then my MIL 1 day a week. Sometimes we have events and then I can not see her for another day or 2 given where that event is etc... doesn't make us bad parents, doesn't make her neglected. I think life is important to be enjoyed both as a parent and having your own time. Ashley should be judged for A LOT of things, but I don't think how often she 'spends time' with Alf should be one of them.

Ashley doesn’t work full time though? She prances around in her underwear and films some stuff in her house. It’s not the same situation. She could easily have him at home with her during the week.
And she’s hardly had a weekend with him in months. The odd night away is good for parents but she takes it to the limit. As soon as she stopped breastfeeding she couldn’t wait to palm him off.

 

[Proseccofiend2022]

Ashley doesn’t work full time though? She prances around in her underwear and films some stuff in her house. It’s not the same situation. She could easily have him at home with her during the week.
And she’s hardly had a weekend with him in months. The odd night away is good for parents but she takes it to the limit. As soon as she stopped breastfeeding she couldn’t wait to palm him off.

Ahhh my mistake, I didn't realise that was the case

Yep she's a dick!

 

[Rainbow1]

I'm not an Ashley fan at all. I find her completely suffocating, insufferable and so 'woooah is me' BUT I find comments like this and others about how many times she has Alf quite annoying. I work full time, my daughter is 2 days older than Alf. She's with a childminder 4 days a week and then my MIL 1 day a week. Sometimes we have events and then I can not see her for another day or 2 given where that event is etc... doesn't make us bad parents, doesn't make her neglected. I think life is important to be enjoyed both as a parent and having your own time. Ashley should be judged for A LOT of things, but I don't think how often she 'spends time' with Alf should be one of them.

Ashley doesn’t work full time though? She prances around in her underwear and films some stuff in her house. It’s not the same situation. She could easily have him at home with her during the week.
And she’s hardly had a weekend with him in months. The odd night away is good for parents but she takes it to the limit. As soon as she stopped breastfeeding she couldn’t wait to palm him off.

Yep this is totally it! Her jiggling around in her underwear does not equal a full time job! As much as she tries to say it is
She has even said herself she finds it hard being in the house having to entertain him (or words to that effect) don’t get me wrong we all have days where it’s tough but she made it sound like she has no clue what to do with him at all
Parents do need alone time and let’s not forget she’s only had 1 date night out since Alf arrived

 

[Tank Girl]

Ashley would like you to know she is still an F cup. She has had to feign illiteracy in order to show the label & therefore, her bra size.
“I don’t know the brand…” it’s Berlei you twit!!!

Also: that dress is £169 for pure polyester, what a rip off & a bit on the short side for a wedding imo.

My bad. Sorry Ashley has Brigerton tits I forgot. As you were ladies

 

[oceanblu]

I'm not an Ashley fan at all. I find her completely suffocating, insufferable and so 'woooah is me' BUT I find comments like this and others about how many times she has Alf quite annoying. I work full time, my daughter is 2 days older than Alf. She's with a childminder 4 days a week and then my MIL 1 day a week. Sometimes we have events and then I can not see her for another day or 2 given where that event is etc... doesn't make us bad parents, doesn't make her neglected. I think life is important to be enjoyed both as a parent and having your own time. Ashley should be judged for A LOT of things, but I don't think how often she 'spends time' with Alf should be one of them.

But I bet you don’t spend every other minute banging on about how much you regret being a mother and that your child is a mistake do you? That’s the difference here. It isn’t one area that people criticize, it’s her whole outlook on becoming a parent that I think people find irritating with her. Everything about being a mum has been so negative to her so far

 

[potatoface431]

I absolutely understand people who work full time don’t get to see their kids much, my other half doesn’t see our little one much because of how much he works. I used to study full time and work part time so barely got quality time with my biggest at the time, I get it and I would never judge anyone for it. But Ashley sits on insta typing paragraphs of nonsense no one gives a duck about and calls it work she is not busting her ass each day to survive.

 

[MrsRS]

I'm not an Ashley fan at all. I find her completely suffocating, insufferable and so 'woooah is me' BUT I find comments like this and others about how many times she has Alf quite annoying. I work full time, my daughter is 2 days older than Alf. She's with a childminder 4 days a week and then my MIL 1 day a week. Sometimes we have events and then I can not see her for another day or 2 given where that event is etc... doesn't make us bad parents, doesn't make her neglected. I think life is important to be enjoyed both as a parent and having your own time. Ashley should be judged for A LOT of things, but I don't think how often she 'spends time' with Alf should be one of them.

Just to reiterate what everyone else has said- the idiot doesn’t work full time or even ‘work’ in the general sense at all! She makes videos and writes essays for no reason, stuff she could actually condense into one full day (if even ) and then have more time with Alf.

She does not deserve to be classed in the same bracket as a hard core full time working mother like yourself!

She chooses to put him in child care for most of the week, then goes out evenings and weekends all the time. She is enjoying this part of motherhood because she barely ‘mothers’!

 

[kiraaarrrr]

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