Ashley James #31 family of four; me, ADaline and my boobs

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Its a bit odd that her house has been on the market a month now and they haven't dropped the price once. The estate agent would have been advising her to drop it by now.
This just proves the whole ‘selling for work’ thing is a lie. If they were in a rush to sell for a new job they would’ve reduced the price a fraction. The market is so stagnant right now but they’re clearly very greedy… they won’t get 1.5 for that 😂
 
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You missed one Ash 😂
 
That whole Q&A is an absolute joke.
The ‘sacrificial years’ ??
Does she think once they’re not babies and sleeping better that’s it? Children grow up and have loads of problems throughout the years and as a parent it’s totally your responsibility to care for them. She’s got no bloody clue. Literally none of mine were good sleepers but at no time did I think I was sacrificing my life , in fact the early years were the easiest on reflection. They’re in for a world of trouble with her parenting mentality & Tommy enabling her.
 
It genuinely reminds me of that clip of Katie Hopkins talking about children being named after places is chavvy, and then Schofield says “isn’t your daughter called
Why does she think parenting ends when they reach 3/4? The sacrificial years? Don’t want to give her unsolicited advice but they’re your responsibility forever now Trash!
I'm still sacrificing my mental health and my oldest is 36 with 4 kids of his own! She's a stupid twit.
 
Why does she think parenting ends when they reach 3/4? The sacrificial years? Don’t want to give her unsolicited advice but they’re your responsibility forever now Trash!
It’s sad for her that she doesn’t enjoy this time, it doesn’t bode well for the future.
It’s like this comment below, the way she phrases it After motherhood? Does she think it ends?
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So much to unpack in her q&a. This is just charming… She needs healing from the distress of Alf it seems.
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Nothing like taking out your own issues on your child eh? Imagine being so anti men that you didn’t want to raise one.
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You definitely did you dappy fucker because everyone messaged you to tell you and you just shouted “mum police” and that your instinct knew better.
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That Q&A is so worrying when she potentially has a SEN child 🙁 I can’t imagine her in meetings with teachers or fighting for additional support which it’s likely he’ll need.

When do her and Tommy spend ANY time together? Car journeys is the time me and hubby try to squeeze in an adult conversation. The idiot doesn’t think Ada’s kicking off because she can’t get to her mum? I’ve never sat in the back. She’s bought Ada a duck load of overstimulating toys anyway and she seems to be just fine when she’s driven on her own 🤨 She’d rather eye duck herself than converse with Tommy!
 
The whole mother era thing…as others have said does she think you stop being a mother when they aren’t a toddler anymore? Or when they go to school?

Everyone I have spoken to have said the ‘juggle’ actually gets harder when they get older…you have to sort working or childcare around school hours, you have concerts, parents evenings and everything else to attend, you have school trips to sort, lunches to sort…although I suppose Alf and Ad are probably going to be shipped off to boarding school.
 
God help her when the kids are of school age and she can't just waltz off on a European road trip or all inclusive Mauritius trip at the drop of the hat. It'll be pick ups, packed lunches, collections, homework, uniforms being washed and ironed. I've no idea how she will cope if she finds this age so difficult and "sacrificial".

i'm 100% sure they will go to boarding school
 
I wonder how helpful she’ll be when she sees her sister. She’s just had a baby and ash has NNB live with them for weeks to do all the grunt work. Ashley should be taking Jasper out for the day and cleaning/ cooking for her sister.
More chance of Tommy doing it than her!
Ada needs her for food and is her home. She’ll let on she can’t be put down even this she could put her in one of her many gifted slings.
 
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