Ashley James #3 Alf’s room lit up like Blackpool Illumination. Is she regretting her little creation?

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Scarlettfox said:
Has this woman got any identity for herself other than as a mother? Sheeesh.

Alf this, Alf that, boobs this, boobs that. Farkin’ hell.
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I think that’s her issue though and part why she’s depressed, she’s lost her identity and why she clinging onto being spontaneous and a feee mother spirit. I had a baby 9 months ago and I have lost mine, I’m just a mum now with milk tits, it’s hard to get it back when you can’t do anything for yourself. But tbh without her breastfeeding identity who is she coz I didn’t know who she was before!!
 
What is her latest comment about not apologising all about? At the end of (yet another) ramble, she says 'without you raising humans, there'd be no future employees' - what???

I'm sure she is trying to sound inspirational (she is an 'empowerment coach, after all...) but it comes off like she is saying remember these guys will be able to do all kinds of stuff for you in future!

God she's dim.
 
I swear to god all these instahuns just regurgitate the same old wanky affirmations that bear no resemblance to the real world and how folk are just struggling to exist at the moment....and then this extremely privileged woman who's on her 2nd exotic holiday in as many months rolls up posting about the most random things
they wouldn't last a minute in the real world of employment!
 
I’m just listening to it…. One comment ‘do you feel guilty for leaving me looking after your son’ 😳😳

She’s having a go at him for going to the euros 😳

Wow she is passive aggressive towards him!

It’s so clear Tommy wants a routine for Alf and she just completely says ‘we don’t have a routine’

Tommy does all the cleaning, washing and cooking! She’s such a feminist and shouts about inequality when actually this is not her reality in the slightest!!
 
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I decided to listen to it ......She's so resentful of the whole situation!....
doesn't like to referred to as 'the other half', "we are 2 wholes"....yeah ok whatever 🙄
resents the fact Tommy went to back to work and she was 'left' at home ( well Tommy can't breastfeed!) ...sounds like he pulled his weight and did the washing, cooking, shopping etc and sounds like he was keen to establish a routine but Ashley is a 'free spirit' 🤮
Tommy sounds like a lovely bloke but I really wonder if their relationship will last ...he talked about the National TV awards as 'oh that event you dragged me to!'
She also has a nanny twice a week , so that she can work 10hrs/ week ( if you can call it that!....it's not like she's going to work 12 hr shifts in a supermarket or on a ward!)
Now that Alf is no longer reliant on her for breastfeeding, there's no reason why she can't go back to work for longer hours ....bet she'll be resentful of Tommy for that too!
.....and breathe.....
 
‘If you give me half an hour to go to the gym or for a run…’ 🥴 you just know she guilt trips him about everything.

He sounds like a decent guy and I feel is just top toeing around his answers, and how many times does she interrupt and try put words in his mouth?!
 
her opening lines of the podcast 'I've emotionally blackmailed Tommy to be here'. I really liked him on the podcast - she just seems so aggressive towards him. Literally anything he says, she says the polar opposite & constantly digs him out & prefaces with 'btw it wasn't me that asked this question' so she's obviously nagged at him before about all the things on the podcast.

I feel so sorry for him!

ETA: and I feel really sorry for Alf as well. More than once she referred to Alf as 'it' she claims to be so emotionally connected to him, but can't call him by his name?!
 
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Erzxo said:
her opening lines of the podcast 'I've emotionally blackmailed Tommy to be here'. I really liked him on the podcast - she just seems so aggressive towards him. Literally anything he says, she says the polar opposite & constantly digs him out & prefaces with 'btw it wasn't me that asked this question' so she's obviously nagged at him before about all the things on the podcast.

I feel so sorry for him!
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This exactly! I thought he came across really well and obviously tries his best to do things for her around the house and also the way he talks and the things he says. When he went to say 'misses' and stopped himself and then said something like 'that's another one she doesn't like', I just felt a bit sorry for him.
 
Just listening to the podcast. She is unbearable. What is she on about ‘Alf’s a boob man’ oh shut io
Ashley. Why does she think there’s no other option other than co sleep or cry it out?! That is not the only options available, she is bleeping deluded. My baby sleeps in his cot every night and we’ve never done cry it out. God she gets on my tits.
 
Lurker121 said:
Just listening to the podcast. She is unbearable. What is she on about ‘Alf’s a boob man’ oh shut io
Ashley. Why does she think there’s no other option other than co sleep or cry it out?! That is not the only options available, she is bleeping deluded. My baby sleeps in his cot every night and we’ve never done cry it out. God she gets on my tits.
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Same, we’ve never done cry it out but my littlest sleeps in his cot next to me every night. If he’s up in the night or it’s too early in the am he will come in bed with us cos I’m lazy basically 😂 I know all babies are different but I swear she makes things difficult on purpose
 
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