Ashley James #26 A Ginuwinely mother

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Stewart123 said:
Going against popular opinion here but I actually have some respect for her posting that! It’s taken way too long for her to admit that she doesn’t look after them both together on her own and for once she comes across relatable. Toddlers can be bloody hard work, especially with a little baby to look after as well and there’s no shame in admitting that. Welcome to the real world of parenting Ashley (finally!)
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I agree with most of this but also, it’s taken so long for her to admit because this is the first time she’s tried which is not relatable at all since Ad is 12 weeks now, what other everyday mum hasn’t spent any time alone with their 2 children in 12 weeks?!
 
Stewart123 said:
Going against popular opinion here but I actually have some respect for her posting that! It’s taken way too long for her to admit that she doesn’t look after them both together on her own and for once she comes across relatable. Toddlers can be bloody hard work, especially with a little baby to look after as well and there’s no shame in admitting that. Welcome to the real world of parenting Ashley (finally!)
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She has no option but to address the elephant in the room at this stage. 12 weeks in and not even an hour on her own with her 2 children. It’s utter madness. There is no mother on this earth that has that much help that they can do this. Every Friday they must have a rota in place and have a childcare provider in place in advance. That is relatable to know one, sorry to disagree. Yes, mothers find it hard, but they do it THEMSELVES.
 
I never attempt to take my toddler out for lunch as it's usually over nap time... but Ash is always insisting Alf sleeps so well on the go, so the fact he was probably just overtired wouldn't have crossed her mind! Give that poor boy a decent nap in his cot/bed for once, I bet he will be a completely different child. Why must these two children always be dragged everywhere?! have a relaxing day at home!
 
Is this an attempt at damage control after what she said about maternity leave?

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(Haven’t caught up, sorry!)
 
here4thenose4321 said:
She has no option but to address the elephant in the room at this stage. 12 weeks in and not even an hour on her own with her 2 children. It’s utter madness. There is no mother on this earth that has that much help that they can do this. Every Friday they must have a rota in place and have a childcare provider in place in advance. That is relatable to know one, sorry to disagree. Yes, mothers find it hard, but they do it THEMSELVES.
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Relatable to No one sorry not Know one 😂 Grade A for me!
 
What in the actual duck have I just read? 😂
1) Why is he still teething at this age? Has he even seen a dentist? Molars *should* be through by 2.5. It’s just a bleeping excuse for her. *not all kids are the same I know.

2) I wouldn’t DREAM of taking a toddler for lunch at a golf club restaurant on a Sunday when there will be 70 somethings in their best dressed wanting to eat their leek and potato soup starters in PEACE. I went with my great aunt once at 11 years old and I had to be seen and not heard. Who thought of that? 😂😂😂😂

3) ‘not ready to look after 2 kids yet’. If her crappy disciples WITH kids still find her relatable they need their grey matter checking.
FINALLY SHE ADMITS SHE’S NEVER LOOKED AFTER BOTH OF THEM ON HER OWN. 3 kids between 2 people is not that bleeping difficult. Try taking 4+ out on your own like some of us HAVE to cos our MIL’s aren’t on standby and life’s goes on.

4) the fact that Alf doesn’t know how to interact with Ada 3 months on says it all. He’s never around Mummy or Ada and still doesnt know why this Mummy hogging miniature human has arrived.

CRINGING ‘ELL.
 
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I'm honestly surprised that she didn't dose Alf with Calpol if she really thought his teeth would be bothering him.
And as for taking the kids out and needing to call NNB perhaps she should have started with a trip out to the park, somewhere that Alf was going to be engaged and have some fun? Instead she opts for something that is mostly for her own benefit and wonders why she struggles to manage the two kids. I do respect her honestly about finding it difficult, but I would respect it much more if she then wasn't running off to Leeds for work tomorrow, presumably leaving Alf behind with NNB but taking Ada so yet again not facing up to the challenge of looking after both of her children.
 
God she is a joke, but we all know that! I am pleased she has addressed the fact that she hasn’t parented both of her children at the same time on her own yet - she must have had messages about this!
I have an almost 2 year old and a 12 week old and it can be really hard! But I know that and I know what works for us and what doesn’t…I certainly wouldn’t be taking them out for a nice lunch on my own. If she actually parented her children and was honest about how she’s finding her rhythm with two etc, she would be relatable to a big chunk of her audience. She’s made comments about whether or not she wants to be “relatable” but at the end of the day, she relies on it for her income! She is really stupid about this.
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And bloody hell, she is really dense if she genuinely thinks her child is teething every week!
 
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