Ashley James #26 A Ginuwinely mother

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Yes it is absolutely normal, but you don’t have to whack the whole boob out, one up one down is a great tip you learn from other mums and by ✨research✨
 
Don't worry guys, as soon as Ada isn't portable, tries to actually move around and she has to do real parenting, like handle tantrums and feed her food, she will be palmed off to whichever childcare she can find.
I put on some super simple nursery rhymes today and found it quite concerning how my child was SO Absorbed in them, like they're in a trance! I understand the need for occasional use when they need a rest or you need a rest, but it is genuinely concerning how much she relies on it/ the ipad to stunt any type of normal childhood behaviour from Alf.
 
Why is it when anyone dares, question her she calls people Trolls??? No one questions TNB because he does his fair share of childcare, he is up by 5am caring for Alf, takes and picks him up from childcare, bathes and puts, him to bed and then is, given his rations and sent to bed! Is his bedroom upstairs or downstairs for the hired help?? 🙄🙄 Its like Alf is given an "audience" with Trashley like she's the queen ffs 🙄🙄 You are the troll Ashley!
 
The issue with childcare and "working" is so much of her "work" can be condensed into a few days (if that) and the rest she can spend with her children. As someone said, Tommy doesn't need to feel guilty as he actually spends time with his son. I also really don't think the narrative of taking your baby to work is the best thing to do. 99% of people can't do that as they have real jobs. Unrelatable as always Trash!

Edit to say I'd also be devastated if my child would rather have the Nanny or childminder instead of his mum to comfort/have fun with/ cuddle. I imagine this happens with Trash, since he LOVES so many people.
 
She is a true narc and doesn't feel empathy or guilt so she can understand that it's not normal. There is no point in anyone messaging her as I think she actually enjoys it as it's extra content.

@Jjsb you've summed it up perfectly. Tommy is a dad who puts in a day's graft and is bound by his employer so is slightly more restricted - I don't think anyone would criticise him.

It's a shame she doesn't look at NNB as a role model and think that's the kind of mum I want to be.
 
Cady1954 said:
I think Tommy is gorgeous 🥴 :love:
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God no 🤢
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willowtree2 said:
And the thing is Ash, you don’t stay off your phone with Alf. You bleeping record it all for insta. twit 😂
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So she's used a video of herself (of course) laughing with Alf around in response to that message yet it wasn't even filmed today so she's dug out an old one to act as though Alf is with her.

Don't twist the narrative Ash. It's not about you working, it's about you never prioritising your son.
 
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Primrose2 said:
So she has childminder 4 days a week, nanny on a Friday, and now nana and papa once a week. When does she actually have Alfie and Ada?
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For an hour, for lunch at a golf club with another adult there.

She hasn’t had her two children together on her own for more than one hour. She hasn’t spent any one on one time with Alf that hasn’t included Ada asleep on her tit. She can’t parent him and I can’t wait for this time next year when Ada is on the go & she realises she is a tit parent.

She’s basically a cow. Birth it, feed it, pass it on.
 
Primrose2 said:
So she has childminder 4 days a week, nanny on a Friday, and now nana and papa once a week. When does she actually have Alfie and Ada?
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I think the Nanny/teenager has him on Tuesdays as remember she went to the wrong place to pick him up.

NNB is a Friday - the day Ashley kept free to spend with Alf 🤣

Tommy looks after Alf every evening and swimming on Saturday. So she might get a Sunday (with Tommy, never alone) unless she's found some kind of work.
 
Why did she even have children?....she has absolutely no maternal instincts whatsoever and no desire to spend any quality time 1 on 1 with her eldest 10 minutes at night doesn't cut it .
she'll be the mother at the school gates everyone wants to avoid because she's always asking favours and never returning them ...can't wait till she's having to juggle after school activities
What was that ridiculous question about what to do with nappy rash because wonderful Ad slept all night ...it's so obvious she has no "mummy friends" to give her advice not that she'd take it
 
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