Ashley James #17 Less heavily pregnant, more heavily entitled

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This answer also really, really bothered me. I eat and drink what I want in pregnancy. It's just such an ignorant statement.

I have had family members who drank through their pregnancies and tried to pressurise me into drinking when I was. I refused. But, I've seen how first hand alcohol affects the baby. And also, risk of toxoplasmosis / listeria is REAL. In my opinion, if you cannot give up alcohol or foods which carry risk for 9 months, then you are far too selfish to be a mother.

Although, we all know that Ash is selfish, so she will do what she wants and to damn with any consequences that could harm her unborn baby llike travelling to a remote Zitka island at 30 weeks pregnant because she NEEDED a holiday.

Cariad said:
So now she's talking about anyone planning a vaginal birth to get an Epi-no device to prevent tearing during birth ( cost £99) ....apparently she'd recommended to use one when pregnant with Alf , but didn't bother using it as of course Ashley know best...her mantra "what's the worst that could happen" ....and what happens , she tears and is still harping on about how she was stitched incorrectly she wasn't!
How does she know it works if she didn't use it in the first place 🤣🙄
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and she doesn't provide any data to back up her claims that it prevents perineal tearing ....or which countries provide better post natal care!
I did find this trial abstract which actually shows it does not provide any benefit!....yes Ash, I have done my research because that's actually my job!
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How can you recommend something that you didn't even use?! HOW? I am baffled 🤯
 

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Ro98 said:
She has absolutely no idea of the dangers does she?
It was a ‘short flight’ to the nearest hospital, ok and what are their NICU like? Do they have one? Would she have been ok with staying there for 3+months?
I’d hate for anything to ever happen to her but she is so bleeping deluded & has the attitude of “it can never happen to me” 🤬

Which is why I’m guessing she thinks her c-section will be similar to a 5 ⭐ hotel stay and her recovery will be magical 💫 💫

I worked with a parent who took their 5week old abroad to turkey, the baby got bronchiolitis and they had to stay 6 weeks in the hospital out there and her breathing now at 5 whenever she gets a cold is still horrific.
But of course Ashley is going to take her abroad alone not long after birth when you’re not meant to carry anything for a good few weeks 😒
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The baby won’t even be fully vaccinated 😖 why the duck would you risk it? She should never have had children she’s a selfish, evil bleep. I can’t even put into words how I feel about her DRUGGING her son so that SHE can have a nice and easy flight x however many it took to get to that ridiculous destination. How can she possibly justify that. A paracetamol overdose is so dangerous. And why is she lying about the Zika virus risk and the Maldives? I dread to think how many women will take her word for it after her unsolicited advice 🙈 She needs taking off of social media!
 
Cariad said:
So now she's talking about anyone planning a vaginal birth to get an Epi-no device to prevent tearing during birth ( cost £99) ....apparently she was recommended to use one when pregnant with Alf , but didn't bother using it as of course Ashley know best...her mantra "what's the worst that could happen" ....and what happens , she tears and is still harping on about how she was stitched incorrectly she wasn't!
How does she know it works if she didn't use it in the first place 🤣🙄
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and she doesn't provide any data to back up her claims that it prevents perineal tearing ....or which countries provide better post natal care!
I did find this trial abstract which actually shows it does not provide any benefit!....yes Ash, I have done my research because that's actually my job!...

Interpretation of results
This large multicentre randomised controlled trial has failed to find any evidence for a protective effect of the antenatal use of a vaginal balloon device, the Epi-No, on pelvic floor structures in primiparae giving birth to a term singleton after uncomplicated pregnancies. This is true for levator avulsion, levator hiatal overdistension and clinical perineal trauma. We did identify a marginal negative effect of EpiNo use on significant residual EAS defects diagnosed on average 5 months after childbirth, but this finding may be spurious,
Concluding message
We have been unable to confirm a protective effect of the EpiNo device for pelvic floor structures during vaginal childbirth.

bottom line is....save your money!
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So she’s being paid to advertise it then!
 
Cariad said:
So now she's talking about anyone planning a vaginal birth to get an Epi-no device to prevent tearing during birth ( cost £99) ....apparently she was recommended to use one when pregnant with Alf , but didn't bother using it as of course Ashley know best...her mantra "what's the worst that could happen" ....and what happens , she tears and is still harping on about how she was stitched incorrectly she wasn't!
How does she know it works if she didn't use it in the first place 🤣🙄
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and she doesn't provide any data to back up her claims that it prevents perineal tearing ....or which countries provide better post natal care!
I did find this trial abstract which actually shows it does not provide any benefit!....yes Ash, I have done my research because that's actually my job!...

Interpretation of results
This large multicentre randomised controlled trial has failed to find any evidence for a protective effect of the antenatal use of a vaginal balloon device, the Epi-No, on pelvic floor structures in primiparae giving birth to a term singleton after uncomplicated pregnancies. This is true for levator avulsion, levator hiatal overdistension and clinical perineal trauma. We did identify a marginal negative effect of EpiNo use on significant residual EAS defects diagnosed on average 5 months after childbirth, but this finding may be spurious,
Concluding message
We have been unable to confirm a protective effect of the EpiNo device for pelvic floor structures during vaginal childbirth.

bottom line is....save your money!
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Thank you, for always being the voice of (medical & scientific) reason.

Especially for kindly & patiently putting out the many fires that careless, thoughtless, mindless & selfish Ashley starts along her foolhardy way.
 
Ray_of_Sunshine said:
And why is she lying about the Zika virus risk and the Maldives? I dread to think how many women will take her word for it after her unsolicited advice 🙈 She needs taking off of social media!
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Omg yes! We had a holiday booked to the Maldives, I fell pregnant and we postponed it because of possible zika virus. Ended up with a worse hotel deal as prices went up but my god I didn’t even consider going whilst pregnant a possibility 🤯
 
InTheDollsHouse said:
It looks like she didn’t know there was a Zika risk! She posted this today, giving advice not to travel to a zika country, with a photo of her in a Zika country!
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A quick google search tells you it’s a country at risk 🥴 Surely her doctor told her this? How could a doctor worth their salt possibly sign her off to travel to a place that is affected by the virus 😳🤯 Did she lie to the doctor about where she was going?
 
shovemytitsinyourface said:
she talked about that epino device whilst pregnant with alf. she used it back then but we all know trashley is a pathological liar
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I swear she said she used it in a recent post where she was justifying the c section! Along the lines of ‘I had a positive mindset, used an epino and ran marathons but still had a traumatic birth!’ And now she’s trying to flog it even though she admitted it does duck all 😂
 
Ray_of_Sunshine said:
A quick google search tells you it’s a country at risk 🥴 Surely her doctor told her this? How could a doctor worth their salt possibly sign her off to travel to a place that is affected by the virus 😳🤯 Did she lie to the doctor about where she was going?
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The fit to fly certificate doesn’t say where you are going I don’t think? So she will have used the same one for France and the Maldives.

Plus her certificate puts her due date 2 weeks later.

It’s literally just letter that says ‘Ashley is fit to fly’ as in you don’t have any known pregnancy complications or pre-existing conditions. They don’t really assess you, it’s mostly just a money making thing.
 
Ray_of_Sunshine said:
A quick google search tells you it’s a country at risk 🥴 Surely her doctor told her this? How could a doctor worth their salt possibly sign her off to travel to a place that is affected by the virus 😳🤯 Did she lie to the doctor about where she was going?
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Possibly she only told them she was going to France to see NNB….? Technically that’s all she had booked when she got the fit to fly - so she’ll think that’s okay to just say France.

sasbeep said:
The fit to fly note doesn’t say where you are going I don’t think? So she will have used the same one for France and the Maldives.z
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Yes but for a doctor to sign off on a weekend in France is so different to 10 days long haul to the Maldives!
 
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