Ashley James #14 In a world where you can be anything, don’t be an Ashley James

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God she’s just an absolute bleep isn’t she?

Who the duck counts how many nights away they’ve had from their child like they’re a massive inconvenience? My toddler wouldn’t cope a night away from me which makes me know I’m doing a good job.

Also I love how people have openly commented on her ring post about the lack of Ad declaration and she still hasn’t edited the post. She doesn’t give a tit 😂
 
I can count the nights I've had away from my 16 month old, just three, and he was with my husband those nights (and only because I was visiting my mother in a hospice 300 miles from my home). I don't think people are bad parents for wanting to spend some time away from their children but with Ash and TNB they do so little in the week with him that it seems like they can barely call themselves parents. What a strange way to live a life, and why add more children if you don't want to look after the one you have?
 
willowtree2 said:
God she’s just an absolute bleep isn’t she?

Who the duck counts how many nights away they’ve had from their child like they’re a massive inconvenience? My toddler wouldn’t cope a night away from me which makes me know I’m doing a good job.

Also I love how people have openly commented on her ring post about the lack of Ad declaration and she still hasn’t edited the post. She doesn’t give a tit 😂
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I had to go out this morning to run some errands. I was literally out of the house for less than an hour and my 19 month old cried the ENTIRE time I was away. Her father was in the house!!! Send help. Ashley literally never sees that child except to drop him to childminder and pick him up. She spends about a couple of hours day with him watching YouTube as TNB does dinner, bath & bed.
 
So NNB has been at their house most of this week parenting their child for them. That apparently wasn’t helpful enough, so now he’s been shipped off with NNB, because Ash is still feeling under the weather and needs to rest. Then in the next sentence she’s talking about her and TNB having a baby free evening and going out for dinner? Thought she wasn’t well? Everything that comes out of this woman’s mouth is utter bollocks. Also, why is TNB sleeping on the sofa after Xmas parties? Don’t they have a 5 bed house, or is he not allowed in any of the spare rooms?
 
hadtosayit88 said:
So NNB has been at their house most of this week parenting their child for them. That apparently wasn’t helpful enough, so now he’s been shipped off with NNB, because Ash is still feeling under the weather and needs to rest. Then in the next sentence she’s talking about her and TNB having a baby free evening and going out for dinner? Thought she wasn’t well? Everything that comes out of this woman’s mouth is utter bollocks. Also, why is TNB sleeping on the sofa after Xmas parties? Don’t they have a 5 bed house, or is he not allowed in any of the spare rooms?
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The rooms are reserved for Queen Ashley & Princess Thumblina… duck the patriarchy they can sleep on the floor… in the cold!
 
NNB is an absolute saint.

This woman has been looking after Alf since Tuesday. Alf has probably had lots of decent interaction without a phone shoved in his face and probably getting decent food every night.

The irony of Ash rambling about Nurses being underpaid and childcare being too expensive and here she is getting free childcare from an ex nurse.

There was a post on one of the previous threads that had counted up their time away because "they hadn't seen each other" - it definitely exceeded 7.

And I think we counted a total of 48 hours in a whole month that she'd spent with him
 
I wonder where Trashley gets this idea that being entitled to so many nights away from your child, or pawning him off continuously to grandparents is the norm? ....when is she actually doing any parenting?
Obviously since she went to boarding school, she thinks this is normal behaviour Trashley, it really isn't
 
Copying Carys pretty much word for word there. Get your own content.
 

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Im not against parents having time away from their children occasionally, it does both parties good, HOWEVER, Ashley never spends time with that child. He just sleeps at their house and that’s about it. He’s palmed off to the childminder all week. During the evenings she gives him some grated cheese and that’s as far as her parenting goes. Tommy does his bath and bedtime. And to make matters worse, even when the poor kid is poorly, he’s sent away to grandparents. But it’s ok, because “Alf loves it there”. I couldn’t imagine sending my child away when he’s poorly. She’s a sorry excuse for a mother she really is.
 
My daughter is 28 months, I still breastfeed her to sleep, have absolutely no idea how or when to wean her due to the overwhelming guilt and I’ve never spent more than 6 hours away from her. She’s never stayed at her grandparents overnight, we’ve never had an evening out without her. Does that mean I wouldn’t LOVE a child free date night?! No. It just means I put her wants and needs before my own.

why the duck does Ashley make herself sound so hard done by all the time? There’s absolutely nothing wrong with having child free time, but I HATE the way she treats him like such an inconvenience. Her attitude before giving birth was always “I won’t let having a baby change my life or stop me from doing what I want to do ” but to a certain extent, ISN’T IT MEANT TO?!
 
All of this is the inevitable prelude to “Guys, we like Alf a lot but it’s just better all round if he’s brought up by his grandparents. I really don’t have the time as I work so hard and now that Thumbelina is here, I want to focus on her. We’ll still see him at Christmas & some weekends but it’s better this way.”

Ashley has rehomed 3 cats & a dog, I won’t be surprised if she rehomes Alf.
 
DoctorFlocci said:
All of this is the inevitable prelude to “Guys, we like Alf a lot but it’s just better all round if he’s brought up by his grandparents. I really don’t have the time as I work so hard and now that Thumbelina is here, I want to focus on her. We’ll still see him at Christmas & some weekends but it’s better this way.”

Ashley has rehomed 3 cats & a dog, I won’t be surprised if she rehomes Alf.
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🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Screaming!
 
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