Ashley Cain #26 The lion, the witch, and the designer wardrobe.

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MrsDon1 said:
That’s the thing. They are not interested in raising awareness of Childhood Cancer. They are only interested in raising awareness of Azaylia and then piggybacking off that as her parents.
They have proved over and over again that they have no interest in easing the burden for other Cancer families.
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Someone really needed in the early days needed to tell them to do nothing and take the time to grieve and think. I can totally understand why for them it’s all about A still. Its still too raw for them at the moment to think about anyone else really, they will be consumed with grief and what happened to them . It’s not ethical that a charity can be set up straight away. I know when I first lost my husband I felt this urge to do something to help others but honestly after a year of grief and just being on survival mode that urge went as I just needed to survive and get my own kids lives sorted. It’s seems to be the thing now though almost the expectation all these charities, fundraisers being set up once someone has passed when there are already well established charities that could be donated to directly. I can also see why they push for her to be remembered , the dead get forgotten all too easily. 4 years on and my husbands name is rarely mentioned now outside of my own house. That’s a bloody awful feeling I can tell you. Not defending their actions but to me their actions are someone of them grieving just they are doing it publically and as a result not in the right way.
 
fcuk1979 said:
Someone really needed in the early days needed to tell them to do nothing and take the time to grieve and think. I can totally understand why for them it’s all about A still. Its still too raw for them at the moment to think about anyone else really, they will be consumed with grief and what happened to them . It’s not ethical that a charity can be set up straight away. I know when I first lost my husband I felt this urge to do something to help others but honestly after a year of grief and just being on survival mode that urge went as I just needed to survive and get my own kids lives sorted. It’s seems to be the thing now though almost the expectation all these charities, fundraisers being set up once someone has passed when there are already well established charities that could be donated to directly. I can also see why they push for her to be remembered , the dead get forgotten all too easily. 4 years on and my husbands name is rarely mentioned now outside of my own house. That’s a bloody awful feeling I can tell you. Not defending their actions but to me their actions are someone of them grieving just they are doing it publically and as a result not in the right way.
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I completely agree that they have been poorly advised but as I said yesterday, it is because they are surrounded by fame seekers.
They have made their beds and will have to lie in them, unfortunately in doing so they have blemished Azaylia’s beautiful memory.
Sorry for your loss. Xx
 
chicken kiev 1106 said:
I bloody hope so. Since I rejoined this thread I’ve seen several people join and say they used to like them but have come across this thread and can now see what they have missed for so long. That can only be good news that these threads are reaching more people.
But a tabloid journalist or blue tick Instagrammer NEEDS to jump on this. People need to know. Just cos they lost a child doesn’t mean they’re innocent in all they do. Plenty of people lose children, does that give them the right to spend money donated in good faith however they see fit?
someone with influence must put them soon. SURELYit’s just a matter of time
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This ⬆ I'd never heard of either of them till I came across a fb post, I decided to follow them both because I had a baby a couple of days older then A and really felt for them, as time went on I watched as they bounced that little girl around and denied her pain Meds but who was I to judge it wasn't me living their lives, I watched as they partied, danced at a baby's funeral looking like they were having the time of their lives but still nobody else seemed to judge so I thought maybe it was just me. I watched as they both lived a luxury life style asking myself where do they get their money? Nobody else seems to ask? So I typed in Google "ashley where's the money" and this is how I found myself here because I wasn't alone in thinking this!
 
Osco2022 said:
I definitely think there is something not right with Georgina, and I don't mean this in a "oddball/obsessed fan" way. I genuinely think she maybe has a learning need or MH issue because her behaviour comes across as very disturbing and just not right.
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Probably why Cashley avoids her in person😂😂. He is happy for her to blow smoke up his butthole from a distance.
 
fcuk1979 said:
Someone really needed in the early days needed to tell them to do nothing and take the time to grieve and think. I can totally understand why for them it’s all about A still. Its still too raw for them at the moment to think about anyone else really, they will be consumed with grief and what happened to them . It’s not ethical that a charity can be set up straight away. I know when I first lost my husband I felt this urge to do something to help others but honestly after a year of grief and just being on survival mode that urge went as I just needed to survive and get my own kids lives sorted. It’s seems to be the thing now though almost the expectation all these charities, fundraisers being set up once someone has passed when there are already well established charities that could be donated to directly. I can also see why they push for her to be remembered , the dead get forgotten all too easily. 4 years on and my husbands name is rarely mentioned now outside of my own house. That’s a bloody awful feeling I can tell you. Not defending their actions but to me their actions are someone of them grieving just they are doing it publically and as a result not in the right way.
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You’ve absolutely hit the nail on the head. I’m very sorry for the loss of your
husband.
Some years ago now, I had an awful miscarriage, I was absolutely grief stricken as it was very much last chance saloon for me, but in the aftermath all I wanted to do was help other people. I soon realised that I wasn’t in the best place to do that. Please don’t think I’m likening my loss to the loss of your husband, I just understand the urge to do something when you’re grieving.
I think this is where GFM needs some sort of regulation, especially where large amounts of money are concerned. That money should have been given to a cancer charity or the hospital that treated Azaylia. Their grief is going to be never ending but I have a feeling their situation will eventually be made worse by the money and their promises to do something purposeful with it. They both need to grieve, privately and then find public ways of remembering Azaylia.
 
Silver.1501 said:
I don't get this Georgina character. She clearly has some kind of weird attachment disorder or something going on in her own life. I had a look at her page from the beginning and I felt weird reading the things she's put on there. Absoutely obsessed. Now I'm not being funny and know these kind of people are among us but ... what has she latched onto Ashley for? He's absoutely vile in the way he treats people and especially woman. He wouldn't give her the time of day (as seen at the failed boxing event thing). He's an absolute asshole. That's just common knowledge as seen from his 5 minutes of fame prior to having A. So why this Georgina is obsessed like Ashley gives the slightest f**k about her, I don't know. Very very weird. I honestly think if I had a family member that was this obsessed with a poorly child or narcissistic celebrity crush, I'd take them to one side and tell them how embarrassing they are. I'd be mortified if I found my Mum doing something like that on Instagram 🤢🤢🤢
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There’s something missing in Georgina’s life that’s she’s seeking within this ‘family’.
Osco2022 said:
I definitely think there is something not right with Georgina, and I don't mean this in a "oddball/obsessed fan" way. I genuinely think she maybe has a learning need or MH issue because her behaviour comes across as very disturbing and just not right.
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I’ve thought this too.
Definitely MH issues there that are unaddressed.
What does she want with this family?
Recognition? Validation? Love? Praise? Support?

I find it bizarre how she can overlook his lies in the beginning and I would love to know her thoughts on the lack of donations this year because I’ve noticed Georgina donating personally to GFM’s recently.

Clapping for an anniversary of a clap was very distasteful given George sadly passed on the same day.
A child they only gave £10K to.
Why didn’t they give more?

Why didn’t they DO more?
 
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I don’t wanna be that much of a head but why are they saying she shines light down, she can’t shine light down on the general public as they don’t know her

somethings should just be kept between family cos this is ridiculous, there are children who pass every single day and it’s desperately sad. Azaylias story broke my heart but she’s not the only one to suffer.
Let her rest for god sake.
 
Osco2022 said:
Georgina's been at it again too 🙄
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She needs help, her obsession isn't healthy atall!

Tinky82 said:
This is a common term used amongst black people, particularly those from the Caribbean. 🤔
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exactly, and we the Caribbean people, do not accept Ashley, I can tell you that. We pride ourselves on honesty, hardwork and integrity. He goes against what so many of our immigrant parents and grandparents stand for, it's really does kill my soul. He's the biggest disgrace I've come across in a number of years!
 
BellaP said:
She needs help, her obsession isn't healthy atall!


exactly, and we the Caribbean people, do not accept Ashley, I can tell you that. We pride ourselves on honesty, hardwork and integrity. He goes against what so many of our immigrant parents and grandparents stand for, it's really does kill my soul. He's the biggest disgrace I've come across in a number of years!
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YESSSSS
 
gigilouxx said:
Bet Georgina’s kids are like lil Victorian workhouse children at the minute, making their own tea and cleaning the house whilst mummy looks for a sunset and waits for a response off Mr Fuzzy
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LOOOOOOOL, nearly spat out my tea reading that!

Lovenews said:
God...even her 'partner' is in on it. 🙄🙄🙄🙄
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He's an even bigger idiot than she is. Wonder what she's done for other babies currently battling this illness. I bet absolutely nothing is the answer
 
I think Georgina is coming from a good place, if you look at this post from just after Azaylia passed away. But I do agree, she’s a bit obsessive and I think she’s attached herself to the wrong people in Ashley and Safiya! Strange that she donates to GFM’s…like she knows TAF aren’t going to
 

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JingleBells21 said:
I think Georgina is coming from a good place, if you look at this post from just after Azaylia passed away. But I do agree, she’s a bit obsessive and I think she’s attached herself to the wrong people in Ashley and Safiya! Strange that she donates to GFM’s…like she knows TAF aren’t going to
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I believe her intentions are good and she comes across a nice woman.
I just don’t understand the Ashley Cain part, yes it was Azaylia in the beginning, but now it’s Ashley and it seems he has done and can do no wrong in her eyes.

Mindboggling to say the least!

Maybe she can’t let go of Azaylia either or TAF as it has become her main priority.
What would she do if it was no more?
 
Somebody wrote on a Nuneaton Forum

''Why doesn't The Azaylia Foundation donate, or do they have to also get to **Know them a bit more first**''

..Know them a bit more?!

The absolute audacity of it, bet they weren't complaining when they were getting gofundme money from people who didn't know them!!

it just honestly gets worse!
 
fcuk1979 said:
Someone really needed in the early days needed to tell them to do nothing and take the time to grieve and think. I can totally understand why for them it’s all about A still. Its still too raw for them at the moment to think about anyone else really, they will be consumed with grief and what happened to them . It’s not ethical that a charity can be set up straight away. I know when I first lost my husband I felt this urge to do something to help others but honestly after a year of grief and just being on survival mode that urge went as I just needed to survive and get my own kids lives sorted. It’s seems to be the thing now though almost the expectation all these charities, fundraisers being set up once someone has passed when there are already well established charities that could be donated to directly. I can also see why they push for her to be remembered , the dead get forgotten all too easily. 4 years on and my husbands name is rarely mentioned now outside of my own house. That’s a bloody awful feeling I can tell you. Not defending their actions but to me their actions are someone of them grieving just they are doing it publically and as a result not in the right way.
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So sorry for your loss 💔

JingleBells21 said:
I think Georgina is coming from a good place, if you look at this post from just after Azaylia passed away. But I do agree, she’s a bit obsessive and I think she’s attached herself to the wrong people in Ashley and Safiya! Strange that she donates to GFM’s…like she knows TAF aren’t going to
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Yes I think she is too, but it worries me that she is so overcome by Ash and Saf. That gives them the opportunity to take advantage.
 
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