Ash Pollard

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nothappymegs said:
I missed yesterdays stories as I don’t watch much these days but from what I can gather, the eldest had an accident at kinder and she had to be picked up early? why was it such a big deal? Toddlers have accidents. Did the kinder not change her? Or was there no spare clothes? We always send spare stuff to childcare/kinder because they are forever having accidents or getting wet or dirty in some way. Did anyone record it? I checked iganon but it’s gone, the earliest is from her telling Pete about the whole thing but not what actually happened.
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Clementine wet her pants and refused to get changed at kinder. Instead wanted to go home and change and then she would come back. But at the same time told her kinder teachers not to call or tell her mum 😳😳 Old Ash had a meltdown and a half to put it mildly, she was close to be described as unhinged. It was bizarre behaviour to say the least
 
Chickinabiz said:
Clementine wet her pants and refused to get changed at kinder. Instead wanted to go home and change and then she would come back. But at the same time told her kinder teachers not to call or tell her mum 😳😳 Old Ash had a meltdown and a half to put it mildly, she was close to be described as unhinged. It was bizarre behaviour to say the least
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It sounded like the Kinder had tried over a course of 2 hours to reason with her and she kept using excuses as to why she wouldn’t get changed, they offered the office, bathroom, cubby etc to no avail, sounded very stubborn, hmm, wonder where she gets that from.
 
Her kitchen just looks so cheap and like it needs gutting lol. The fact she don’t so much money on it is laughable.
 

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Interesting what people see and hear and how others interpret things on this thread. She didn’t lose it over the daycare incident she had already lost it because she’d had a tough weekend parenting apparently the girls had pushed her and Pete to their limits. Shes been to child psychologists about clementine and nothing she does gets through. She tells clementine she will take her toys if she’s naughty and clem tells her to just take them lol then the daycare called and said that clem had had an accident and was refusing to be changed and that she wanted her mum to come take her home to get her changed and then she would come back to daycare… honestly it sounds like the girls are spoilt rotten - why are literal toddlers calling the shots??
 
Mickybrowneyes said:
Interesting what people see and hear and how others interpret things on this thread. She didn’t lose it over the daycare incident she had already lost it because she’d had a tough weekend parenting apparently the girls had pushed her and Pete to their limits. Shes been to child psychologists about clementine and nothing she does gets through. She tells clementine she will take her toys if she’s naughty and clem tells her to just take them lol then the daycare called and said that clem had had an accident and was refusing to be changed and that she wanted her mum to come take her home to get her changed and then she would come back to daycare… honestly it sounds like the girls are spoilt rotten - why are literal toddlers calling the shots??
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Yeah and then she said nothing the child psychologist said to try was working, but she only saw the psych last week. You’re not going to see immediate results, it will take time
 
Swamp Life said:
Yeah and then she said nothing the child psychologist said to try was working, but she only saw the psych last week. You’re not going to see immediate results, it will take time
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For sure I couldn’t agree more. I’ve never actually heard of a child wanting to sit in their dirty underwear or nappy and wanting to be taken home to be changed and then she would come back. It’s very weird behaviour and I’m thinking she may be on the spectrum
 
So now the sympathy from her followers have taken hold to make sure she's ok and some have even got in touch with Roxy. And she got the reaction she was hoping for. Her life is pretty sad in a way that she has no friends or even her mother she could talk to about things going on with her kids instead of breaking down in her car talking to a phone screen to 99% of her followers that are strangers she's doesn't even know. She definately needs to sort herself out with her therapist. So now's she showing her kids having dinner and forcing them to try every vegetable and I can hear one of them saying no no. Obviously showing this to show she's back in control with the gentle voice . She needs to stop using/ showing her kids on social media.
 
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I think the most concerning part was that her daughter told the teachers if you call my mum I will never come back here.. 😳.
Also I don't think she has really tried to get to the bottom of why Clementine is acting the way she is. I don't think there is a lot of emotional awareness and support from Ash with regards to her children. Like when she kept waking up and going into her sister's room.. she just tried to put that thing on the door to stop her. It doesn't sound like she actually talks and asks her why, just tries to fix the behaviours she doesn't like without actually understanding it. And I think her kids are a bit scared of her because of it.
Also I think if she actually took her toy away though her kid would feel differently. It's one thing to say it but it's a different story when you actually do it. You have to follow through otherwise they know it's all talk.
 
Baby Snark said:
I think the most concerning part was that her daughter told the teachers if you call my mum I will never come back here.. 😳.
Also I don't think she has really tried to get to the bottom of why Clementine is acting the way she is. I don't think there is a lot of emotional awareness and support from Ash with regards to her children. Like when she kept waking up and going into her sister's room.. she just tried to put that thing on the door to stop her. It doesn't sound like she actually talks and asks her why, just tries to fix the behaviours she doesn't like without actually understanding it. And I think her kids are a bit scared of her because of it.
Also I think if she actually took her toy away though her kid would feel differently. It's one thing to say it but it's a different story when you actually do it. You have to follow through otherwise they know it's all talk.
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What I didn’t get is why she doesn’t have them in the same room when they obviously find comfort in being together, but it doesn’t suit her view of how her photogenic perfect house layout looks so she separates them for her own selfish needs of Aesthetics
 
Apparently clem keeps Claude awake and actually annoys her so Claude doesn’t enjoy it hence the door lock. I do think she can be stern with the girls but I see a lot of clem in someone in my family who was diagnosed as on the spectrum. I hope she’s getting her the help she needs. It’s a long road that’s for sure.
 
I find Ash so triggering. I grew up with a perfectionist/angry mother. I recognise so much of my own experience in parent/child relationship. I find it so hard to watch. Don’t get me wrong, I love my mum, but it’s taken me becoming a mother to realise that I have some serious under lying triggers and trauma around certain behaviours and it’s on me being the adult in my own parenting journey to work through them and also loosen the F up. The children are only so young for so long.
The fact her daughter was petrified to have the kindy call her mother is so freaking sad. It broke my heart. Then it moved to her defiance as a clear defence and safety mechanism for herself. The comment above of the child being on the spectrum, I think is a stretch, I’d just say there’s a serious lack of secure attachment.

Ash wailed about ducking up her kids, I think it’s 100% clear She is.
She loses the plot requiring perfectly behaved children, a perfectly crafted life, appearance of affluence and it’s so clear her own childhood trauma is showing.
 
Mickybrowneyes said:
Apparently clem keeps Claude awake and actually annoys her so Claude doesn’t enjoy it hence the door lock. I do think she can be stern with the girls but I see a lot of clem in someone in my family who was diagnosed as on the spectrum. I hope she’s getting her the help she needs. It’s a long road that’s for sure.
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That’s her telling that story, I’m sure it’s not how the kids would tell it if they could
 
Baby Snark said:
I think the most concerning part was that her daughter told the teachers if you call my mum I will never come back here.. 😳.
Also I don't think she has really tried to get to the bottom of why Clementine is acting the way she is. I don't think there is a lot of emotional awareness and support from Ash with regards to her children. Like when she kept waking up and going into her sister's room.. she just tried to put that thing on the door to stop her. It doesn't sound like she actually talks and asks her why, just tries to fix the behaviours she doesn't like without actually understanding it. And I think her kids are a bit scared of her because of it.
Also I think if she actually took her toy away though her kid would feel differently. It's one thing to say it but it's a different story when you actually do it. You have to follow through otherwise they know it's all talk.
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I'd say that the little one was going into her sister room because ash put her into a bed too soon. She's only little still. Would of kept her in a cot for as long as possible. But being Ash she wants to be spending money on the best of everything for a new bed. As you can see she loves spending money from all those boxes she showed the other day from online shopping. People that spend money constantly are missing something in their lives when they have shopping addiction like she has.
 
I remember when she first got together with Pete and they were long distance, and she got pregnant as a surprise - she was over the moon because she’d been told having kids would be hard for her and she really wanted kids. That was the last time I remember her speaking positively about her kids. Now she complains relentlessly - doesn’t she have friends to talk to instead of her own reflection on insta to strangers?
 
She tried to be Patii Newton’s BFF but she’s too aggressive & feral for lovely soft Patti. Her other Mum friend Justine Schofield is such a lovely person with a son. She would be horrified with Ash’s behaviour. Ash, you’re gonna be crying for the next 18 years off and on. That’s what kids do to you. If she’s expecting kids to behave & listen she’s setting herself up for a fail. Talk to experts all you like love, you’ve got to work it out yourself. There no magic bullet or recipe book for parenting I’m afraid
 
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