Anti-Hinch Tattlers Off-Topic Chat / Support & Insomnia Club! #5

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Anti-Hinch Tattlers Off-Topic Chat / Support & Insomnia Club! #5

Welcome to all the new nusties who have found us in our lovely little support/chat about anything thread! ❤
Whilst it is not the not the same as the main thread, primarily focusing on SWMNBN (She Who Must Not Be Named/THAT woman!), it is a great place for us to keep in touch and we are not restricted to one subject!

It has almost been 11 weeks since madam went into a deep rest after dear old Weepy very sadly passed (we liked him).
That's all there is to say on that!

It is so lovely that there is always friendly chat and support here, amongst friends made over a long period of time, especially as a good few are going through some very difficult times.
Here is to friendship, support, & much needed laughter! Xx

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Just realised I've typed this in larger font, but great for those of us who are 'hard of sight', so aye! 🤭🧐
 
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I know recaps aren’t the done thing generally over here, but that was perfect!

And yes, 4 cats, 2 of whom do not know how to cat and appear to think that they are half human-half dog. Of the other two, one hates everyone except me on a Tuesday if I’m lucky and the other one is scared of literally everything and resides on my bed.

Yes also to bring a taxi driver for the newborn. It was a good day when I called my oldest at 1am and requested that she pick me up once she’d passed her driving test. Oh how the tables had turned!
 
She’s back guys!!!!! And with lots of copied and pasted words / phrases. Typical - even when talking about her dad, she can’t speak from the heart and plagiarises! X
And a new face
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What a weird statement, making certain phrases and words bold. She’s so bizarre.
Also, “I’m really hoping to find my feet again one day”. Must be nice to take months off without any repercussions and money worries. If she’s coming back, it will be September so she can have another holiday without worrying she’s going to be judged for all the holidays they’ve had this year.
 
As adults we know it's expected that our parents die first. Yes, when it happens it's heartbreaking whether they've been ill, had an accident or died unexpectedly. But it happens to us all & we have to carry on with our lives. The world keeps on turning & normality has to slowly resume, even if you don't want it to as you're still grieving. You need to get back to work, kids need to get to school, household chores need to be done, food needs to be bought, bills need to be paid etc etc. It's not fair, but that's how it is.
I have this vision of her sitting all day doing nothing (nothing new there 🙄) while everyone else is running around fetching & carrying for her, treating her with kid gloves so she doesn't get more upset - including her mum who's just lost her husband.
She really needs to grow up & be an adult for once.
 
We always knew she was a bit fragile, she's touched on her meds and mental health before in posts so I can only surmise (from my lowly nusty hen position) now that she's had a medium to full breakdown, has been signed off work sick for the long term and I can really only hope, all jokes and size 5s snark aside, that she's getting the appropriate support and help she needs. Be in the form of meds, grief counselling, therapy etc etc and not being left to shiver in the dog bed.
 
I'm not wanting sympathy, I was totally over it all by number 5, hardly a tear, numb to death, but there is me, alone, left out of 8 of us, Dad, Brother, Sister (who was like a Mother), Mother, Sister, Brother and my last sibling, my Sister in March just gone!
My Dad and my best Sister were my whole heart, and it broke for a while, but we had a pub to run and a toddler to keep alive so I wasn't able to stop, I still had to work from, what I felt was dawn to dawn!!
Now, still working, and when my Sister died in March, she lived at the other side of the country from us, I managed to get 2 days off work for the funeral, most of which was spent travelling!
Can I down tools for a couple of years? I think on Hinch's terms I must be due at least that! How nice it must be to be able to stop work just like that, to be able to wallow in your own self pity for as long as you want!
Everyone grieves differently, I know that, some people really can't continue with life, but usually the healing comes from just that, continuing on, living life, especially if you have children!
Oh I could go on for ever, this type of attention seeking really P's me off, she's now come on and drip fed all her little Sheeple some of her grief, so when she does come back, (which I don't think will be long now she's posted all that twaddle), they'll all fall at her feet howling for her, then we'll have to put up with dozens of grief posts in-between the new ads she's had weeks to work on. She'll have a whole new catalogue of pre filmed content to keep the 🐑 🐏 fawning over her.
So sorry for the essay but she's really got my back up and I hate that she has because I don't even know the woman and thank the Devil I never have to!!
 
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