Anti-Hinch Tattlers Off-Topic Chat / Support & Insomnia Club! #4

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I have a manager who has been ill with a cough for a few wks, we’ve been telling them to see their GP but nope won’t go because they are oh so busy working picking up everyone else’s slack, pisses me off, I had to have a few days off back in March, was in hospital & the guilt I felt was awful, I even took pictures to prove I was in hospital & showed my manager my discharge letter too, I went back to work still in pain because I felt I would be talked about if I didn’t, my dad has terminal cancer, I just carry on as best I can because I don’t want to let my team down. Come home & have a little cry to myself. Sorry for the rant.
That's horrible. Is your manager always like that? Making out they are the only ones doing it all, braving out illness because of others genuine health problems and their time off. Sounds like a bit of a narc and to feel you have to prove your own illness and hospital admission, yet, feel guilty for doing so is awful. It must feel stressful and you shouldn't have to feel, or be made to feel like that.
I had a boss like that once, I was his PA. One day, I went in early, cleared my office and left as my job had a serious impact on my mental health. I eventually found another job I was happy in.
A good boss should never make anyone feel guilty or awkward. None of us are invincible, perfect, robotic 'beings'.
I'm really sorry to hear about your Dad, please look after you and yours. Never feel guilty, you have a lot on your plate and work should recognise and be supportive of that. Hugs, A xxx
PS: Never apologise for ranting 🫂
This is a friendly support, off topic chat thread and we are hear to listen and have a natter xx
 
Nusties, I have had the worst week of my life, mum in hospital, and three bereavements (friends and a colleague). I told my boss that I am hanging on by a thread, I'm getting no more than 4 hrs sleep a night, and yet, like all other people in the real world, I showed up and did a full day's work today, and will do so for the rest of the week. At this stage, her bereavement leave from her 'job' is feeling more and more self indulgent
Oh I’m so sorry to read this. Please just be kind to yourself. Sounds like your boss is a decent sort, so you must allow yourself time to manage your grief and own health. Sending much love to you. Cx
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I was hard of kip last night (you can tell the Marion speak is getting to me!) & found myself taking a glance at SWMNBN activity on her "professional" work account 😏
Following more grief accounts including one relating to 🙏 "believing". Not that there's anything wrong with belief but as somebody here mentioned this week, you would think she would be using her private account for that kind of thing?
After 10 weeks off and not a word to her sheep, despite the fact they have financed all she has, yet active on her "work" account, seems a bit odd!
We all agree what happened is very sad, as it would be for anyone, only most people wouldn't be trying to grab attention, albeit silently? I'm sure you nusties know what I mean? It is a work account. She hasn't worked in over 2 months!
Enough of my waffle. Hope she stays away for good! 👋
Thinking of you all, missing the MIA's too 💕
A xxxx
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As soon as I saw Shania's hair extensions, they reminded me of 🤐
I genuinely think she is trying and failing to create a post that will get her the strongest engagement yet so she can launch into her selling her children whatever tat she’s latched onto once again.

I’m sorry Weepy has died, though I think was almost certainly expected, but here in the real world we have to get back to things. When my husband died, I had to function because my children needed me to. When I then was also diagnosed with cancer 3 years later I still had to function for my children. I sure as duck didn’t have the luxury of bleeping off for 10+ weeks. I think she’s blown it frankly, and I’m not sure how she can properly relaunch herself and her bleeping dishcloths now.

I really miss our silliness but am grateful for this little corner. 😘😘
 
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Oh I’m so sorry to read this. Please just be kind to yourself. Sounds like your boss is a decent sort, so you must allow yourself time to manage your grief and own health. Sending much love to you. Cx
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I genuinely think she is trying and failing to create a post that will get her the strongest engagement yet so she can launch into her selling her children whatever tat she’s latched onto once again.

I’m sorry Weepy has died, though I think was almost certainly expected, but here in the real world we have to get back to things. When my husband died, I had to function because my children needed me to. When I then was also diagnosed with cancer 3 years later I still had to function for my children. I sure as duck didn’t have the luxury of bleeping off for 10+ weeks. I think she’s blown it frankly, and I’m not sure how she can properly relaunch herself and her bleeping dishcloths now.

I really miss our silliness but am grateful for this little corner. 😘😘
Oh my goodness dear C, you have been through so much and you are such a lovely, strong lady 🫂
Indeed, this little corner is at least somewhere we can talk about anything we want to amongst ourselves. Whilst the main thread was full of wonderful banter, the focus was on HER.
You are right, she has blown it and her so called career was sliding fast before dear old Weepy passed. Hardly anyone cares what she does. 10 weeks with a husband at home is one hell of a long time off, but she got what she wanted. 🏡 💰 ⛱️ 🚘
One thing is for sure, she doesn't care about who helped get her where she is today. Xxx
 
Something us hens need to learn by, when unhappy in our jobs we need to move not always easy I know but worth remembering hens.
 

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Just checking in with you all and hoping you are all coping with whatever life is throwing at you. I am not.
Last year we went to the beach often, although very hot. Now one year older we can't manage it 😢
It is so, so hot and we are feeling our age.
Why does it creep up and grab you so unexpectedly?
OH is going for a smoke in the office because it's too hot on the balcony.
Couple of years back I was so fit and active and now I am really worried that it won't ever be the same again.
We take it in turns to do the shopping at 9pm and even then it's still too hot.
Just got to try and count my blessings I guess. Sorry for whingeing.
🫂 and love to you all. Rxxx
 
I don’t think she can come back now. I think she’s left it too long, her engagement will be in the toilet. The sheep have probably all found someone new to worship with the exception of a handful of die hard dummmies.

@bozlem3080 I’m sorry your work are not being supportive. It doesn’t do you any favours to work you into the ground like that when you are going through a hard time.

@HoratioHoohah you’ve been through so much.

L xx
 
I don’t think she can come back now. I think she’s left it too long, her engagement will be in the toilet. The sheep have probably all found someone new to worship with the exception of a handful of die hard dummmies.

@bozlem3080 I’m sorry your work are not being supportive. It doesn’t do you any favours to work you into the ground like that when you are going through a hard time.

@HoratioHoohah you’ve been through so much.

L xx
I’m glad it’s not just me that thinks that. I think she’s going to struggle if she does come back, I mean she was struggling for content before this even happened. Almost 3 months is a long long time in influencer world. People move on to new influencers and ideas quickly.
If she does come back then she needs a complete change of tactics and a refresh of content. She could with going back to basics of what she was like in 2018 but that won’t happen because she thinks she’s beneath that
 
I’m glad it’s not just me that thinks that. I think she’s going to struggle if she does come back, I mean she was struggling for content before this even happened. Almost 3 months is a long long time in influencer world. People move on to new influencers and ideas quickly.
If she does come back then she needs a complete change of tactics and a refresh of content. She could with going back to basics of what she was like in 2018 but that won’t happen because she thinks she’s beneath that

Just found this thread as was wondering if she would re-appear. Anyway I agree with you. Her content was boring and she seemed to be struggling with what to post. Solomon seemed to become besties with her but dropped her after perhaps copying her ideas and has now got a home range and now 'farm' content. I don't think she will just be unheard of again but if/when she does a come back it will be something different.
 
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I bet that veg stew gave them the shits after all those sprouts, or it went in the bin and they had a Maccies instead!
The weekly update, "Avin' a fag in a field" was becoming a thing with his monotone ramblings.

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I have a manager who has been ill with a cough for a few wks, we’ve been telling them to see their GP but nope won’t go because they are oh so busy working picking up everyone else’s slack, pisses me off, I had to have a few days off back in March, was in hospital & the guilt I felt was awful, I even took pictures to prove I was in hospital & showed my manager my discharge letter too, I went back to work still in pain because I felt I would be talked about if I didn’t, my dad has terminal cancer, I just carry on as best I can because I don’t want to let my team down. Come home & have a little cry to myself. Sorry for the rant.
Your duty of care is to yourself first, sounds like a toxic work environment if you can't take time off without feeling as if your colleagues will talk about you behind your back. Take care of yourself ❤️
 
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I don’t think she can come back now. She’s been gone too long now, so her come back would need to be pretty impressive, which she’s not capable of. Sad that her dad died, but this happens to most people in the real world, so again, not relatable at all. Also, I thought her followers were her everything and she needed them etc.. she’s obviously managed fine without them for the best part of 3 months. How about her brands. Surely there’ll be pissed off that she’s gone AWOL when she has contracts to fulfil. Will they now want to drop her, if they haven’t already? Finally, I agree re Jamie. Totally shows how much she controls him, and how he lives in her shadow. What a wet wipe!

So long Hinch, hopefully.🤞
 
I don’t think she can come back now. She’s been gone too long now, so her come back would need to be pretty impressive, which she’s not capable of. Sad that her dad died, but this happens to most people in the real world, so again, not relatable at all. Also, I thought her followers were her everything and she needed them etc.. she’s obviously managed fine without them for the best part of 3 months. How about her brands. Surely there’ll be pissed off that she’s gone AWOL when she has contracts to fulfil. Will they now want to drop her, if they haven’t already? Finally, I agree re Jamie. Totally shows how much she controls him, and how he lives in her shadow. What a wet wipe!

So long Hinch, hopefully.🤞
I agree. As others who have lost a parent here they go back to work after 2/3 weeks off work. The normal working person cannot take 3 months off work (it’s getting close to that now for Hinch).

I don’t miss her - I just miss the banter from everyone on her threads. So I was glad to find this thread and see the usual “nusties” posting here and bringing cheer ❤️
 
She’s still on YMU, someone should send them a dictionary as they clearly don’t know the meaning of daily. Also, chart topping podcast 🤭
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Just found this thread as was wondering if she would re-appear. Anyway I agree with you. Her content was boring and she seemed to be struggling with what to post. Solomon seemed to become besties with her but dropped her after perhaps copying her ideas and has now got a home range and now 'farm' content. I don't think she will just be unheard of again but if/when she does a come back it will be something different.
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